after 4 months, skepticism is arising in me

[nagual65 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nagual65]

Hi y'all
It's been almost 4 months that I have been using an extender, for at least 4 hours a day,sometimes up to 7 hours.
And I have gained no results to this point. sometimes it's 1 centimeter longer in flaccid state but that's it, no gain in the erect state. (it's also visibly thicker on the days that I pump)
I have stopped taking all my anti depressants which I thought could prevent the process of PE except for a low dosage Xanax which keeps me kind of stable at this point.
Is it normal, not having any results on the erect size after 4 months?
I am getting pretty disappointed at this point and beginning to think maybe this micro-tear growth thing doesn't work on me, or somehow the little amount of Xanax that I take is preventing the growth.
anyone out-there with the same experience?
any advice?
I'm all ears.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

How often do you add the length pieces to your extender? What extender do you use? Do you do manual excersizes also?

[nagual65 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nagual65]

How often do you add the length pieces to your extender? What extender do you use? Do you do manual excersizes also?

I don't do manual exercises, I have OCD and germophobia, which makes it really really difficult to do manual exercises,(It's drives me insane to hold my penis in my hand for a long period of time,also putting lube on my body drives me nuts) so I don't do Jelking and stretching.(I also wonder if using and extender is an extension of stretching anyway)
Initially I used the pieces that were already in place, through the last 4 months I gradually added all the pieces (except 2)which makes the length of the device equal to my erect length(4.7 inches).
I don't know the brand name, I live in a third world country, this was the only brand available, from the shape of it and all, it looks like the western ones that y'all use.
I also do pumping almost every night for 10 minutes.

[nagual65 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nagual65]

any advice?

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

I would continue adding pieces to the length. Every week or two. What kind of pump do you have?

[nagual65 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nagual65]

I would continue adding pieces to the length. Every week or two. What kind of pump do you have?

There is only one couple piece left, each one is 4cms, for each side of the extender, by adding them the length of the extender would be much more than my erect length. (it's already equal to my erect length at this point and I feel pressure and some pain after 1 hour of putting it on)
But I'll see if I can handle the length with bringing down the screws on the bottom of the extender.
This is my pump. I know it's super shitty but it was the only pump available in my country.
Tnx for the response bro.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Manual exercises would help greatly.

[nagual65 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nagual65]

Manual exercises would help greatly.

As I said in a previous comment, I can't Jelq, I have OCD and putting lube on my body drives me insane.
The same goes for my germophobia, holding my penis in my hands is really difficult(I wash my hand about 20 times a day, I also clean the extender extensively every day but for some reason doing it with my hand is much more difficult mentally)
Also, isn't the effect of stretching the same as using an extender only less?

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Jelqing is far different. Maybe you can use your desire for a bigger dick to combat your phobia's?

[RedWilly Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RedWilly]

Hi y'all
It's been almost 4 months that I have been using an extender, for at least 4 hours a day,sometimes up to 7 hours.
And I have gained no results to this point. sometimes it's 1 centimeter longer in flaccid state but that's it, no gain in the erect state. (it's also visibly thicker on the days that I pump)
I have stopped taking all my anti depressants which I thought could prevent the process of PE except for a low dosage Xanax which keeps me kind of stable at this point.
Is it normal, not having any results on the erect size after 4 months?
I am getting pretty disappointed at this point and beginning to think maybe this micro-tear growth thing doesn't work on me, or somehow the little amount of Xanax that I take is preventing the growth.
anyone out-there with the same experience?
any advice?
I'm all ears.

4 hours is not really enough time. You need to up your time, and keep it consistent. Don't do 1 hour and take a break for 30 mins. make sure there is enough tension... what exact model is it?

[nagual65 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nagual65]

Jelqing is far different. Maybe you can use your desire for a bigger dick to combat your phobia's?

It's very difficult to explain, I have always found it disgusting to put lubes on my body, I have never used shampoos, I still use soaps(even with soaps I feel disgusted but it's way worse with shampoos and lubes).

I was thinking of buying a Jelq device when I bought the extender(so I wouldn't need to use lubricants) but the sales-person from the company that I bought the extender from(which had ran out of Jelq devices) convinced me that the effect of using a pump is the same as Jelqing. Am I mistaken on this? (the fact that pumping compromises for lack of Jelqing)?

If I am mistaken I would look up the market to see if I can find a Jelq device, and if I can't, well, the heck with it, I'll try Jelqing with lubes(even though the mere Idea of doing is frightening me right now)

Also, am I correct on the comparison between stretching and using the extender?

[nagual65 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nagual65]

4 hours is not really enough time. You need to up your time, and keep it consistent. Don't do 1 hour and take a break for 30 mins. make sure there is enough tension... what exact model is it?

This is my extender. I donno what model is it. It's probably a cheap rip off, but it's like the ones that is common in the West.
I usually take 10 or 15 minute breaks when it really hurts.
I wouldn't mind wearing it all day honestly, the problem is I can't wear it while I'm at work, it looks super obvious and sometimes my penis slips out of the device which is a nightmare in public.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Phobia; an irrational fear of something. Yes you can accept it or you can try and fight it, try and make yourself better like you're trying to do for your dick. Can you do it? Is it not worth a try?

[nagual65 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nagual65]

Phobia; an irrational fear of something. Yes you can accept it or you can try and fight it, try and make yourself better like you're trying to do for your dick. Can you do it? Is it not worth a try?

I'm trying brother, you have no idea how difficult it was for me to deal with the extender in the beginning, it was driving me insane, and I used to wash it like 10 12 times a day, now it's 1 or 2 times.
dealing with lube is much much more difficult (even thinking about it nauseates me). but I'll try if that's the only option.

You didn't answer my question though. Is my assumption on using the pump having the same result as Jelqing incorrect?

[RonJohnson09 Member Find all posts View Profile Close RonJohnson09]

You could find a female friend to jelq you