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I’ve been practicing PE for 13 months now and I gained almost half of a inch of girth and maybe 1/4 of an inch in length. My stats are 6” BPEL and 5” EG. I know my stats don’t spell out small, but It just looks small, like below average. I’m not sure if porn is warping my thinking, but I just feel small. I’m wondering if anyone has any thoughts...
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Congrats on the gains! You went from average to noticeably above average. Definitely something to celebrate and keep you motivated.
Most women would be perfectly happy with your size, especially the girth. I still have periods of time where I feel and look small in my own mind. Perfectly normal. We all want more here.01Jun18: BPEL 6.75, MSEG 5.0
04Aug18: 7.375x5.5
12Sep18: 7.5x5.375 (haven't had time for ULIs)
Goal: 7.5-8 x 5.5-6. Almost there!
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Good gains, keep doing what you are doing since its working. Despite my size I look small too because of my overall body frame.Comment
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This is something important that can be forgotten about: your body. The bigger you are, the "smaller" you may look down there. It's like an illusion, making things appear out of proportion.Originally posted by BvckWood View Post
Don't let either your eyes or the mirror fool you. Go by the ruler, despite how your penis looks from all visual angles.Comment
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Right. I’m thinking maybe it’s the angle I’m looking at it or something. Or I’m comparing myself to porn. I know I shouldn’t but I can’t help it.Originally posted by Light Metal View PostComment
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It's easy to get caught up comparing yourself with the actors in porn. How big they appear and how the women APPEAR to enjoy that size so much. You can see them, more often than not, stopping the guy from going deeper and can see them wince in pain sometimes. Check out their hands... they're not fully around the dude's penis. Plus, just remember that the camera adds 10 lbs.
It's all about camera angles and stimulating the viewer.
The best indicator of your size isn't how it looks to you, but how it feels to your partner.Comment
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We've all done it, ma man, comparing ourselves to the male actors. I'm in the process of ditching porn altogether (no more using that shite to help me get to sleep, I've cut it down substantially), and I'm still doing it myself, now and then thinking I'm average when, in reality, I can be considered "big." Though my relationship with Mr. P is improving, and when I look down, I'm beginning to notice I'm happy with my length.Originally posted by Ret76 View Post
Tank's got it spot on about porn.
It really doesn't do a lot of us gentlemen that many favours.
lol It actually got to the point where if I saw the girl give that Golden Globe winning expression and the cringy "Oh my God, your cock is so huge!" line, I'd either roll my eyes or start laughing.Originally posted by tank0909Comment
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6" BPEL depends a bit on how much a fat pad you have. I'm 6.2" BP but then I have a thick fat pad too so I feel pretty small sometimes.
To me 6" NBP is a nice size. I'd be happy with somewhere between 6 - 7 NBP, big enough to be above average and not so big that you're a novelty.
In a partner it wouldn't bother me at all what size someone is, unless they're too big which kind of limits what you can do with someone.Comment
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To add, you need to try and believe in the numbers vs what you see. 6"x5" isn't small (it's slightly above average), but even if you grow things, it will likely still look small to you, given angle/perspective, mental image, and the fact gains take so long.Original/Current Stats:
2014-09-01: BPEL 6.8"/NBPEL 6" MEG 5.0", BPFL 5"/NBPFL 4" FG 4.4"
2019-03-16: BPEL 8"/NBPEL 6.75" MEG 5.2", BPFL 6.75"/NBPFL 5.5" FG 4.5"
Goals:
Realistic: BPEL 8.5"/NBPEL 7.5" MEG 5.5"
Optimistic: BPEL 9"/NBPEL 8" MEG 5.75"
Dream: BPEL 10"/NBPEL 9" MEG 6.5"Comment
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Everybody feels like this at times. I myself have felt this way many times rough my PE journey, especially at the beginning. I think the important thing is to be aware of this feeling and understand that it is natural emotion that will come and go at certain times. But remember, it's just a feeling, that's all it is. You feel small because you want to be bigger. So let these feelings become the fuel for your PE workouts. Turn a negative into a positive. Ultimately, you are the one in control of your destiny.Starting size (Dec 2016):
7 inch BPEL
4.5 inch Girth
Current size:
8 inch BPEL
5 inch GirthComment
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You all sure make me feel better. Appreciate it.Comment
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Almost certain it's porn. Hope you can learn to feel big one day. That's all it really is in the end. It's how you see yourself.Starting Measurements
BPEL: 7.5"-7.75"
EG: 5.25"
Goal
BPEL: 8"
EG: 5.5"
"Dream" Goal
BPEL: 8.5"
EG: 5.75"Comment
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Im sorry but i feel there is alot of false hope and reassurance on this site. Im 6.5 NBP by 5.25 MEG and i am small (see pics should you wish) and i think alot of women would percieve the same in this day and age. I am not “big” by any stretch of the imagination which most people on here would lead you to believe.
However i do not believe bigger means better, it may feel somewhat better, because lets face it, how on earth can a smaller penis feel better inside a woman?! However there is soo much more to sex that the size of your weapon so i do believe no matter what size you are you can still give a woman the best sex and most orgasms of her life
Im done trying to convince myself im not small...because i am in the majority of womens mindsComment
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Your penis in the womens minds is a NORMAL size penis.
In the size queens minds you have a small penis indeed except if you have a huge girth.Last edited by TeoDeles; 08-11-2018, 12:47 PM.Comment
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