Who keeps PE a secret?

[BootySnorkler Member Find all posts View Profile Close BootySnorkler]

Surely she noticed your two inch gain and obviously enjoys the bigger you.

That would be weird if she didn't

[Cunny Linguist Senior Member Member of the Month May 2021 Find all posts View Profile Close Cunny Linguist]

And? Seen any gains yet?

Well, I've only just started, I've only been at it 2 weeks now (about 60 hours). So out of curiosity I measured after my session this morning...and was surprised!

Starting:
BPEL: 6.25"
MEG: 5.1"
BPSL: 6.5"

Today (2/13/21)
BPEL: 6.375"
MEG: 5.1"
BPSL: 7"

I have a special weekend planned in 4 weeks, so hopefully I might have a little more gain by then!

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I told my wife I wanted to do it before I started, she didn't think I needed it but I was curious to
see If it worked..it did

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

I never told my wife. She is a very modest person as well. Since the divorce I openly share about PE to my partners, usually after they praise me about how good sex and my dick was. Most the time it's a response of fascination from them and a few have asked me about the site after we stopped talking because the guy the were with could use some help. My marriage was a very closed minded, hush hush kind of deal. Now my choices in partners are ones that I could share anything with.

[7sDoor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 7sDoor]

My wife is a very modest, private person and rarely discusses anything sexually oriented except when engaged in intercourse. The one time I showed her how I pumped up my dick for sex, her response was, “be careful. You might hurt yourself.” I don’t believe she would understand using an extender and stretching. After 50 years, you get to know how your parter thinks.

My wife is very similar to yours, not interested in discussing sex, except when we are engaged in sex. I wish we could have more open discussions outside of sex, but it is what it is.

I had been doing stealth PE (stretching/jelqing) for about 5 years. About 6 months ago, laying in bed after we just made love, I told her I wanted to buy a Bathmate...she just kind of rolled her eyes. So, I bought one and a few days later, we ended up in the shower together. I brought the pump in the shower and asked her if she would be interested in helping me. Her response was that “she respected my decision to have the pump, but that she was uncomfortable with it and didn’t want to be a part of it.” So...she knows I have the pump, I use it discreetly in the shower before work, and we never talk about it. My hope is that one day, I will get big enough that she will notice and enjoy the size difference that she will be more interested in helping me along.

[Norwaydude Senior Member Member of the Month Oct. 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close Norwaydude]

We have a kid and were dating at the time. She was very insecure about what I was doing with PE. It's not a big deal to me. I was doing it for better sex. She took it a different way.

What way did she take it?

[arlos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close arlos]

What way did she take it?

She was not happy and accused me of doing PE to impress a woman. She's behaved similarly when I've made other lifestyle changes like diet, exercise, and overall health goals. I think she views it as a threat.

[Norwaydude Senior Member Member of the Month Oct. 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close Norwaydude]

She was not happy and accused me of doing PE to impress a woman. She's behaved similarly when I've made other lifestyle changes like diet, exercise, and overall health goals. I think she views it as a threat.

Gotta love woman

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

She was not happy and accused me of doing PE to impress a woman. She's behaved similarly when I've made other lifestyle changes like diet, exercise, and overall health goals. I think she views it as a threat.

Not to pry but it sounds like she's insecure, both with her self and in the relationship between you two. My ex-wife made the exact same presumptuous statements.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

From what I've been able to gather, a very high percentage of trainees prefer absolute privacy when it comes to anything male enhancement related. Out of those left, a small fraction may tell their partners.

[Taco Hoe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Taco Hoe]

My wife found my bathemate because I left it in the tub, she just asked why. I said because I’m tying to make it bigger. Her response was pretty much “ whatever”. I was extending for months without her knowing until I left my extender on the dryer. Lol I just told her it was for ED....which I don’t have. Pretty much she doesn’t care. I don’t talk about it with her though. She does keep asking me why my dick keeps getting thicker. Duh....I just used the bath mate and wearing a girth band....smh. Lol it’s cooL.

We should we feel embarrassed for wanting to improve? How is it different from woman getting boob, butt, nose jobs or lip fillers. Guys...DONT FALL FOR THE DOUBLE STANDARD. Seriously let woman judge and other men laugh. Who will laugh when you are above average and they’re just or below average?

[arlos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close arlos]

Not to pry but it sounds like she's insecure, both with her self and in the relationship between you two. My ex-wife made the exact same presumptuous statements.

Totally. She even told me when I was improving my fitness that she was worried I'd get more attention and could lose me to another women. The fact that she discouraged me from improving my health made me lose her.

[simonjay Member Find all posts View Profile Close simonjay]

Yes it is a secret. My kit is only a strap hanger and some foam and old sock for padding. My hanger has a hook so I can quickly remove the weight if need be. My wife thinks my penis is quite big enough thank you ! We do not do sexual stuff every day and on the occasion she has said something I suggest she had just forgotten how big it was !

[Lionheart66 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Lionheart66]

Secret yes. I keep my PE stuff at work and i do all the exercises when i'm working. If and when she notices something is going on (coz of the bigger weiner i hope) i shall be like "you crazy bitch. You just imagine stuff".

Nah.. i propably will tell her i do hand stretches and jelqing to straighten my curved penis. I have told her that i might have peyronies disease and it is possible to cure with exercises but the "unfortunate" side effects are a bigger penis and harder erections

I will never tell her i have bathmate, airpump and vac hanger.

[7sDoor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 7sDoor]

Secret yes. I keep my PE stuff at work and i do all the exercises when i'm working.

Hahaha! I have some PE stuff at my work too! I’m glad I’m not the only one.