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I want to share how I feel about the whole PE issue and see if any one can relate.
In college I was alway shy and was never really confident in my size. Say about 5.25 to 5.5 is where I have ranged. I have hand many chances of the years with women but have always felt shy about it. You know, dropping my pants and not feeling like I had much to show. Anyways through college I knew I had a psychological issue about it and got over it to a point. Have had a couple of long term relationships etc that was never really the issue to the women I was with. So It was really an issue for me mentally. I had even found out about Jelqing back in college 10 years ago, am now 34. Never really did anything about it cause it just never seemed possible.
I kinda feel like I am going back to that state of mind where I am getting conscious about it again. My inner confidence is set to defualt lower because of this.
I am sure I could find a girl that it would be no big deal to her, but somehow I got it in my head that what I got ain't good enough. So I kinda don't even pursue the opposite sex as much.
Now lets say I operate from the position that its possible for me. It takes me say 2years to get where I want, going from 5 to 7. I start thinking, do I just become a recluse and not date and just sacrifice 2 years to get to a point where I am comfortable about it.
I do understand that it is also how u use it etc. And I was pretty good in bed with my exes etc, but it is a mental block for me from childhood and I just want to move past it. I am pretty confident in everything else I do, work etc. But somehow as a person this makes me feel less. If I have to take 2years off and deal with it and get past this rather then deal with it for the rest of my life.. or just accept that is how it is for me and not worry about it or both.
In college I was alway shy and was never really confident in my size. Say about 5.25 to 5.5 is where I have ranged. I have hand many chances of the years with women but have always felt shy about it. You know, dropping my pants and not feeling like I had much to show. Anyways through college I knew I had a psychological issue about it and got over it to a point. Have had a couple of long term relationships etc that was never really the issue to the women I was with. So It was really an issue for me mentally. I had even found out about Jelqing back in college 10 years ago, am now 34. Never really did anything about it cause it just never seemed possible.
I kinda feel like I am going back to that state of mind where I am getting conscious about it again. My inner confidence is set to defualt lower because of this.
I am sure I could find a girl that it would be no big deal to her, but somehow I got it in my head that what I got ain't good enough. So I kinda don't even pursue the opposite sex as much.
Now lets say I operate from the position that its possible for me. It takes me say 2years to get where I want, going from 5 to 7. I start thinking, do I just become a recluse and not date and just sacrifice 2 years to get to a point where I am comfortable about it.
I do understand that it is also how u use it etc. And I was pretty good in bed with my exes etc, but it is a mental block for me from childhood and I just want to move past it. I am pretty confident in everything else I do, work etc. But somehow as a person this makes me feel less. If I have to take 2years off and deal with it and get past this rather then deal with it for the rest of my life.. or just accept that is how it is for me and not worry about it or both.
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