5.75 inch girth bit to much for most women

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

I keep telling myself that im going to try to stay away from these "big cock" threads but its like a car wreck. Even though I always go away feeling small and depressed, I just cant help but look.

I know the feeling. I've got a couple subjects that are triggers. I know I should stay away from them, but I can't. I liken it to a moth going to a flame. Bugs flying into those lights. They can't help themselves. You know all it is gonna do is upset you. Just about every time I tell myself I am not gonna let it wind me up. It always does. And then there are people that know it and purposefully say things to wind you up more. I know exactly how it is Coltar.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

I think a woman's level of arousal, both physical and psychological, and amount of lubrication (either her own or out of a tube) is just as important as her partner's girth for whether she can have enjoyable sex. Also, as many people have pointed out, it simply varies a lot from woman to woman.

For instance, years ago, before I started or had even heard of PE, I briefly dated this girl who didn't actually let me put it inside her because she was afraid it would hurt too much. Back then I had a girth of 5.6", though it might have been the length (about 8") that put her off more...which is kind of silly, because you can work around that by just not putting in all the way, right? Anyway, since then I've had two long term-relationships (am still in the second one, I mean) with girls who've really enjoyed my girth, which has since increased to 6.3". Sometimes I wear a ring, which bumps it up another 0.2" or so. My current GF in particular has a very tight quim, probably comparable to the first girl I mentioned - judging from how she felt to my fingers, anyway.

Bear in mind I'm not one of these guys who's screwed hundreds of women or anything, so I'm not talking about a huge sample that I can make any kind of statistical argument from - just that I've been over 5.75" in girth for most of my sex life so far, indeed quite a bit over for the last few years, and in my experience women can take it and enjoy it as long as you remember all those little things like foreplay, lube and listening to your partner. And I'm talking about young women who haven't had children or dozens of partners.

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

If a lot of women can enjoy 6"+ girths I dont see how they can still enjoy (at least as much) a 5" eg. Another example of why it sucks to have "average" or below average girth. Just glad my wife is not one of those women. I just cant help but think, Would it be better for her if I was 5.5" eg?


Oh yea I got to say this. Another example of" Rare but common".

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

If a lot of women can enjoy 6"+ girths I dont see how they can still enjoy 5".

Because sex for a woman is not about penis size.
Damn but I am tired of hearing that it is (from men, who really know nothing about it).

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

Ok, guys, how often do you think about how tight a girl was compared to another? Most feel the same right? I think most I`ve been with feel about the same, especially as soon as they get wet. They all are different, but we enjoy them anyhow. The main reason we obsess with penis size is the same reason girls obsess with looks and breasts, it`s mainly a visual thing. Visualy I think it`s safe to say that we enjoy different things

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

Because sex for a woman is not about penis size.
Damn but I am tired of hearing that it is (from men, who really know nothing about it).

I really wish that was the case. All I know is I have read one story after another, here and other places about how a larger penis ( particulary girth) delivers a better sexual experience for women and men. Quicker and more powerful orgasms, the visual appeal,etc. I even had a member here tell me in a post how his dick (5.9" eg) would be much more satisfying to my wife than mine and that im only giving her "little" orgasms with mine as opposed to the "hard" orgasms his size would give her. Now he has no idea what kind of orgasms my wife has and I wouldn't categorize them as little but it still got me thinking. Most of what he said I believe was an attempt to kick me when I was down but it still had its effects. It cant be that all these stories are bullshit? I just want to give my wife the best experience possible and feel guilty that I may not be doing that do to my size.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

You think a woman that just had great sex with you and your girth is lets say 5" but she can comfortably fit a 5.5" shes going to be thinking 'damn I wish he was 5.5" '... lol

Edit: well maybe if she was a whore

I really wish that was the case. All I know is I have read one story after another, here and other places about how a larger penis ( particulary girth) delivers a better sexual experience for women and men. Quicker and more powerful orgasms, the visual appeal,etc. I even had a member here tell me in a post how his dick (5.9" eg) would be much more satisfying to my wife than mine and that im only giving her "little" orgasms with mine as opposed to the "hard" orgasms his size would give her. Now he has no idea what kind of orgasms my wife has and I wouldn't categorize them as little but it still got me thinking. Most of what he said I believe was an attempt to kick me when I was down but it still had its effects. It cant be that all these stories are bullshit? I just want to give my wife the best experience possible and feel guilty that I may not be doing that do to my size.

Tell your wife to do kegels

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

If a lot of women can enjoy 6"+ girths I dont see how they can still enjoy 5".

Apart from what Batwoman says, there's also the fact that VAGINAS ARE ELASTIC. Their main biological purpose is, after all, to allow a woman to expel a baby from her uterus. They can stretch to accommodate things of varying thickness.

Case in point: my girlfriend owns a dildo, which she really enjoys, and you know what? It's not much thicker than my thumb. Seriously, it's probably about 3" in girth. But she loves having something inside her to clamp down on when I'm licking her or whatever.

So the idea that any given woman can only "enjoy" dicks above a certain girth is a bit silly really. Whether the guy can get and maintain a good erection and then knows what to do with it are surely at least as important. Right, Batwoman?

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Ok, guys, how often do you think about how tight a girl was compared to another? Most feel the same right? I think most I`ve been with feel about the same, especially as soon as they get wet. They all are different, but we enjoy them anyhow. The main reason we obsess with penis size is the same reason girls obsess with looks and breasts, it`s mainly a visual thing. Visualy I think it`s safe to say that we enjoy different things

They all feel tight to you because you're huge lol

Sorry had to say it

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

You think a woman that just had great sex with you and your girth is lets say 5" but she can comfortably fit a 5.5" shes going to be thinking 'damn I wish he was 5.5" '... lol

Edit: well maybe if she was a whore




Tell your wife to do kegels

Well if the orgasm was much better with 5.5"eg then yea, why wouldnt she wish I was that size. Nothing Lol about that. Liking better orgasms doesn't make her a whore. Reference the kegels. Never a bad idea but she is not loose (as far as I know) and has been with no one else but me.

[funflyer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close funflyer]

Ok, guys, how often do you think about how tight a girl was compared to another? Most feel the same right? I think most I`ve been with feel about the same, especially as soon as they get wet. They all are different, but we enjoy them anyhow. The main reason we obsess with penis size is the same reason girls obsess with looks and breasts, it`s mainly a visual thing. Visualy I think it`s safe to say that we enjoy different things

I was with one that felt nice and tight. If I became really aroused it she complained that it hurt and often times we wouldn't finish and she would cry. I was with another who I often looked down to make sure I was actually still in her. I could only cum by parting the lips with my glans repeatedly. Deeper and there was no feeling. It was like being in the grand canyon. They have all felt different to me. Some tighter, some looser, some weren't even worth being in. But then again I'm just over 4" girth.

[benlouisiana Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close benlouisiana]

I could believe it. My girth has been referred to as "uncomfortable" before. :/

[stilltoosmall Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close stilltoosmall]

Deeper and there was no feeling. It was like being in the grand canyon. They have all felt different to me.

Was it like this?

http://www.penissizedebate.com/image...enetrated4.jpg

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Was it like this?

http://www.penissizedebate.com/image...enetrated4.jpg

LOL that page. How bout the big dick picture. I should say monster. It shows it pretty much pushing the woman's organs around.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

LOL that page.

I know, it's unbelievable. Can't comprehend how much time and effort someone put into falsely making men feel insecure.

The average penis measures 6 to 7 inch long and 5 to 5 ½ inch in circumference (about 1 ¾ inch wide).

Pfffft, yeah, whatever. The "women's penis size preference" chart is pretty funny too...anything less than 7.5" x 6.25" is less than "ideal"...yeah, obviously. Hilariously enough it has a page titled "Why do men obsess about penis size?" - uh, at least partly because of your retarded website?

I love this image:

http://www.penissizedebate.com/image...netrated1b.jpg

It should have a caption like "Please stop, darling, you're actually killing me".