5.75 inch girth bit to much for most women

[SuperDude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SuperDude]

That's how I feel about all of this. I can bring a girl to orgasm with what I have now (supposedly, if I choose to believe what they say haha). And a few do like the way it looks, but nobody has ever just sat there oiling it up for a hand job before while looking longingly at it. I want that.

Haha great post man, I totally agree.

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I have a story that relates to this topic. A while back I got my wife one of those Cyberskin realistic dildos. Ironically enough it was called the "Dream cock". It measures about 7" in insertable length and 6" in girth. I read numerous reviews on this particular dildo prior to purchasing. Most described it in a very positive light. A few reviewers even went on to say about their female companions that the "bigger the dildo the better the orgasm was for them", etc. I believed it. I was even told by a member here that his 5.9" girth would give my wife "hard" orgasms while my 5" girth is really just giving my wife "small" orgasms. I guess he really got off on making me feel like shit. I have read several stories here and other places that described in graphic detail of how women had phenomenal orgasms that occurred quicker and with much more intensity with a large penis than they usually do with a more average size. Is this all true? Maybe in some cases but I know not in all cases. Some guys prefer to gloat about their "superior" size and the effects of it so this may also be distorting the reality.

So how did the "Dream cock" dildo work for the wife. It all fit with no apparent issues, but the wife said it was uncomfortable and it felt like it was going to rip something. She did orgasm once with it when I had it all the way in and wiggled it around a little but the orgasm didn't appear to be anything special and she has had much "harder" orgasms with my penis during sex. I have tried it out on her on several other occassions but it has become obvious she hates it so it now just sits idle in the drawer. I know it is not the real thing but if anything the girth compresses more on it then it would with the real thing. So for my wife 5.75" to 6" MEG does seem to be far from ideal. My wife is not what I would consider "pettite" (5' 6 about 130) so she seems to be unique as far as vaginal size goes especially considering all these stories here of women having no issues with 6" girth. I am so glad I found a woman that doesn't require a big cock to be satisfied!

Great post. My GF gets off just fine with my 4.8-5.0 girth.

Most guys who constantly brag about a big dick are tools/douchebags etc.

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

After reading this thread from start to finish, I am struck with one very important observation. We do PE mainly for us, because it seems like our women enjoy what we have either way.

But this does NOT jell with the fact that my new 25% larger penis DOES get more attention from the wife, in the form of very admiring and long hand jobs /blow jobs. She now likes to throw some lube on the peen and just stroke and admire it. This is extremely gratifying.

Obviously I am now much more focused on my dick so my wife is too. So maybe a larger dick has more uses than just intercourse?

I think having a bigger dick is kind of like having more money..... "Money can't buy happiness, but I sure would like to try"

I have had the same problems to. I had to put my foot down though when she wanted to do one of those clone a willie kits on me and have it pewtered. She then wanted to have it mounted on the mantle. She just cant get enough of me.

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

Great post. My GF gets off just fine with my 4.8-5.0 girth.

Most guys who constantly brag about a big dick are tools/douchebags etc.

Yea. Some get off on it.

Better make sure she's not having "small" orgasms though. I hear one's in the 5.9" girth range will provide "hard" orgasms. Lol.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

My girlfriends ex's had around 6" girth and gave her hard orgasms, but she said my tongue/finger combo gives harder, and the claw marks on the wall prove it.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

Maybe some may have greater orgasms but most women will accommodate to most girth sizes but that does mean she will enjoy most sizes. It all depends on the woman and how wet she it.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Fact: Life would be easier if all women kegeled.

[iminsoluble Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close iminsoluble]

First hand experience, large girth SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!

I think a lot of guys get hung up on Girth a little too much, while I wouldn't say wanting more than average is necessarily a bad thing I can and will say going to or above 6" is kind of dumb. I haven't had 100's of women but I have had enough to know that if you like sex and want to have lots of it; having a lot of girth is going to bring you the opposite of what you want. I have a very high sex drive and would love nothing more than to have sex multiple times a day but unfortunately in my experience it seems to be too much on the ol vag.

I'm between 6.25 and 6.5 in girth depending on arousal level; of the women I have bedded only 1 of them really enjoyed it. The rest liked it; often winced in pain and couldn't handle sex for longer then 10-15 minutes. They would also complain about discomfort afterwards and getting oral from them wasn't all that hot either; who wants a bj that only lasts 4 minutes because your partners jaw hurts?

My wife gets ripped every time we have sex; yes that means she bleeds and yes that means its hampered our sex life. Obviously my situation isn't typical but I wouldn't say it's that hard to imagine if you're packing over 6 inches in girth. I read a comment in this thread that you shouldn't be doing PE for anyone other than yourself; I disagree. My dick being bigger than some other guy doesn't mean I enjoy sex more but I bet it means he'd have more sex with my wife than I currently do. Since our dick is important for sex and most of us would rather have sex with someone else instead of just jerking off I think its very important that your PE is taking into account your current or future sexual partners.

Most guys on this forum are probably self conscious about their size because they think they are too small; I'm self conscious because I know I'm too big. Now I'm just here trying to find a way to increase my flacid length and hang so it doesn't look like I have a hardon while taking a shower at my local gym, nothing I can do to remove girth and the only thing I can do is try not to add more.

Everybody is different and I do know my wife is smaller than the average woman; but she's the wife and only sex partner I have so not having the amount of sex I want and need really fucking sucks!

For those who say Pic or GTFO

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

LOL. Actually there was a woman who loved her man but his girth was lacking, so she did kegels in attempts to fix the issue because she really couldn't feel him. It did not fix the issue at all and mostly with younger woman doing kegels are not the problem. Some guys which is low percentile of men are below average in girth and it just happens. My wife's ex had the problem too to the point that air would enter as well. His length was average but the girth was under average. Sucks indeed. I feel for the dude even if he was an asshole to her while married. The woman's vaginal walls can only get so tight from kegelling. I wish my wife would kegel but more for health. If the round average is 5 for a higher percentile of males then really 5 is still good.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

For air to get in for the average vagina the guy would have to be below 4" girth, 4" girth dildo most women have no problems with and love it

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Fact: Life would be easier if all women kegeled.

yup. My last gf was worried she was loose and kept asking. She wasn't. But she'd come quite softly and easily sometimes and be like "did you feel it?" .. and I hadn't. Oh well, keep going

I told her to do kegels and even gave her a routine, but she got bored. Shame. My last gf before her could have jelqed me with hers! Just brilliant.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

4 in girth is pretty small. Most men have that or above flaccid.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Well 4.5-4.7 girth is pretty average and if the woman has a large vagina then it could, but probably even wont be a problem and still have good sex.

[Rando Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rando]

Yes, I've heard stories about women who can have spontaneous orgasms just by kegeling hard and could also give their men orgasms just by kegeling hard on his dick (no other movement required).

I wish it was more prevalent, but I know I'm definitely telling all future partners about it. If you approach from the angle of "well it's a way for you to have much more intense orgasms when your PC muscles are strong", then you can easily tell her without implying that her vagina is a little too loose.

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

For air to get in for the average vagina the guy would have to be below 4" girth, 4" girth dildo most women have no problems with and love it

It's happened a few times with my wife and she is not what I would consider "loose" and im bigger than 4" eg. Sometimes vigorous grinding can cause a gap that allows air in. Also if you pull the head all the way out and put it back in you can sometimes trap air inside. It is then compressed and then expelled.