About the guys with 6 inch

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

Exactly. the woman here keep saying the same thing but it don't seem to sink in. So therefore, the problem has to do with us not them. I mean I have never had to deal with the locker room syndrome or "your penis is small" to hurt feeling syndrome but it does happen. Bear in mind that women in their gatherings do talk about their partner's size (which I think is wrong because that is personal matter which should not be open for discussion amongst others without consent).
I would say unless you really are small (under 5 in length and under 4.5 in girth) then you have PE and my sincere apologize for your pain which you did not deserve nor does anyone in that area. Do I say let it hinder you from meeting a woman? HELL NO! Again, penis is not final terminator in most relationships. Go out, meet someone and live!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Very very good Dude!

[ByggD Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ByggD]

For some of us though it'd hard to just go out and have fun. When you're not well endowed it can affect your confidence with girls. It has with me. Every time I get close to a female everything seems right, but then the image of my penis pops into my head and I have to back off because I know she'll only be disappointed. I can not get laid again until I reach my goal. It's sad but it's just the way it us.

Again, I was in that place before. I chose not to go out and I would just play video games on Friday and Saturday night. Before I found the Gym I was incredibly ignorant about the average size. Embarrassingly incorrect actually. I felt like I was small at 6.6" when I started. I have never seen any other erect penis before, other than porn, so I didn't have a reference point. It isn't like every guy is walking around with their wood a-raging. So, I may be bigger than average, but I felt like I was so my mentality was the same. That is what my past self and yourself now share, a negative perception.

I thought I was small, there was a two year period when I didn't even try to talk to women I was attracted to. Even when there was a woman that was attractive I chose to think about the negative things about me and my life rather than all of the great things about me. There were two instances where I was about to go to the chick's bedroom and I chose not to. I thought I was small and I didn't want her to sit it because she was friends with one of my friends (that's how we met).

I am not offering advice from an outside perspective. I was there. I felt that way, some days I still do. But, I chose to make a change. I chose not to live like that anymore. It is boring, unfulfilling, and a really poor way to live life in my opinion. Because I wasn't happy, I decided to make some changes. I started talking to people, anyone, on the street. Even if I just said "Hi." Or if I was sitting in the coffee shop I would ask the chick, "when does this place close." I said anything. It built my confidence up and so has the information gained here at the gym.

If you are unhappy, make some changes. Go out and do it. Your dream woman is not going to be set in your lap without effort. You generally have to work for great things. Start making some changes. It took me years to get to this point where I will talk with any woman for any reason. After all of this time the one, most important thing I realized was that all I had to do was start talking. If she doesn't like that my chest sinks in, if she doesn't like that I do not have a job and I am scraping by with saved up money then who cares. Her loss. I don't have time to worry about it. I spend my time on things that actually matter now.

It was tough in the beginning. I would experience waves of anxiety when a woman would come talk to me; I would also experience that anxiety when I though about approaching a woman. I didn't know what to say. I couldn't think clearly because I was stressing myself out. It sucked. It made me avert those situations for years. Now, I don't care. I want to find my dream woman and she is not sitting in my living room while I am playing COD. So, I got rid of the xbox. Done and over. I go out and have fun now. I overcame my fear of talking to these women and now I will say anything to any woman. There was an extremely hot chick in the weight room the other day. She sat down next to me and started stretching. I was attracted to her so I said, "Cardio day for you, huh?" She said with an uninterested tone, "Yeah." I replied, "You should hit the weights more, guys like women with a little muscle." Long story short, she started talking to me and told me about her day, what she was doing later, and I told her I would be in the library at a specific time and I wanted her to study with me. She did.

Go out and talk. See what works and what doesn't. Even six months ago I would have let that woman stretch and I wouldn't have said anything to her. Now, I don't care how hot she is. I want to see if she is interesting too. The only way I can see if she is hot and interesting is if I talk to her. Go do it. Seriously. Tackle that fear. If you don't you will look back and wonder what could have been. I look back at those two years and think that myself. But, I quit thinking about it and focus on the forces that I can control. I can't control the past, only the way I perceive it. Go out and learn and find the woman of your dreams. You owe it to her and yourself.

[Twister1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Twister1]

Lol here is going a tough discussion . Bygg D u god a nice compliment on your penis size but its now 7 inches , thats above averaged penis . DId u had any compliments when u was NBP 6 inch :?

[ByggD Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ByggD]

Lol here is going a tough discussion . Bygg D u god a nice compliment on your penis size but its now 7 inches , thats above averaged penis . DId u had any compliments when u was NBP 6 inch :?

My BPEL is 6.96" and my NBPEL is 6.18" right now. When I started I was 6.65" BPEL and 5.86 NBPEL. Only two women had seen my cock when it was 5.86" NBPEL and one was a virgin. She said it was huge...but, yeah, she was a virgin. The other chick said, "We are going to have fun" after I she pulled my jeans off. So, she didn't say it was "big" or "huge" but she was clearly pleased with what she saw.

[Wannabe Member Find all posts View Profile Close Wannabe]

I am about 6" nbp but was probably closer to 6.5" nbp when I was younger. I have been with 3 women including my wife. I dont have any real interesting stories but have never had any complaints or weird looks. My wife started orgasming a little over a year ago but didn't for all the other years we were married.

Do you think your gains is what helped her have orgasms ?

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I bet you they didn't. I would bet that as time went on she just became more and more comfortable, allowed herself to relax, and really started to feel secure and enjoy herself. But I am currently not a girl and I may not know what I'm talkng about but I figured I'd give it a shot.

[Wannabe Member Find all posts View Profile Close Wannabe]

You still have good girth. This is when a guy should be really concerned: When the woman is getting air in the vaginal cavity during intercourse which is caused by a breach in the entrance (lack of penile girth sealing the entrance). My wife had this issue with her first husband who had (she said) like 4 - 4.5 in girth which became more of an issue after she had kids although she said as well he knew how to use it well. If she can't really feel some friction, there is cause for concern for real.

I dont understand what your describing about the air..are you refering to the sound of farting ?

[ByggD Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ByggD]

Lol here is going a tough discussion . Bygg D u god a nice compliment on your penis size but its now 7 inches , thats above averaged penis . DId u had any compliments when u was NBP 6 inch :?

Again, it appears I need to reiterate this, I am not talking a about the physical dimensions of my penis compared to the average. I am talking about the mental state of feeling like I was small. I don't know how to be clearer. I felt I was small. Some days I still feel like that even though I know the facts. It is a faction of the human condition especially for those of us with a Type A personality. Logic tells us one thing and our experience tells us another. Logic is objective while experience is subjective.

Anyway, we are talking about how I felt about my penis and my debilitating tendencies of my self-perception; not how you feel about the dimensions of my penis size.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Girls need to do VE (vaginal exercises)

Have you ever had sex with a girl who did kegels on your cock? It feels amazing.

SuperDude: I am female and yes those of us that know about kegels do them. But that wont work on a major size difference. I guaranty you if I fell in LOVE and my partner and I did not fit down there and it was not something a few inches of gain on PE could fix or 1000 kegels a day for a year could fix, I would be seeking alternative solutions to the issue. Not the partner.

The fact is that even a woman that has never had children; that has not been very sexually active; or been with a long term partner with girth may not be small enough for a certain size penis! Wax on Wax Off. You can say it anyway you want.

You are the only men on the planet I know doing PE. I have yet to come across a man that has ever even heard of PE. OH I talk about it with all my male friends and when they first heard it they were shocked. So I guess I could say to them, well shit here I am doing 100 kegels a day and you dont even exercise your peen? Lazy jerks!

Nah, you guys are the doer's. You are here, you sought out information and instruction and are doing something about it. Good for you! Seriously, good for you!

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

The vaginal walls are very, very elastic with good reason called child birth. A woman can accommodate to vary girth sizes due to relaxing or tightening the vaginal muscles which also are part of the pelvic muscles. Can't say this about too much penile length because the vaginal cavity can only go so far in expansion which depends on the woman's anatomy; and having too much length where if you push it all in, you're hitting the cervix too hard or going past it just hurts most women in general; moreover, it a waste because who doesn't like full penetration as a dude (in my opinion)? If more than 6 in length where needed in general most men would have bigger penises. Even if you have a monster cock, the woman will accommodate (inadvertently relaxing the vaginal muscles to except more girth); also, (inadvertently contracting the vaginal muscles which can only contract so much so very little girth can be an issue) to a man with a little below average penis. If you ask most women which is more important, it will be girth.

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

I'm proud to say that penis size isn't my issue anymore. I have days where I feel horrible but everyone has that.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

Good because being average is more of a male issue than a female one; only when you are too large or too small does it become an issue to most women.

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Can't say this about too much penile length because the vaginal cavity can only go so far in expansion which depends on the woman's anatomy; and having too much length where if you push it all in, you're hitting the cervix too hard or going past it just hurts most women in general; moreover, it a waste because who doesn't like full penetration as a dude (in my opinion)? If more than 6 in length where needed in general most men would have bigger penises. Even if you have a monster cock, the woman will accommodate (inadvertently relaxing the vaginal muscles to except more girth); also, (inadvertently contracting the vaginal muscles which can only contract so much so very little girth can be an issue) to a man with a little below average penis. If you ask most women which is more important, it will be girth.

I hear what you're saying, but just wanted to offer some info I came across a little while ago that I was previously unaware of. When a woman is highly aroused, her whole cervix lifts up higher inside her body and there would be more room for length. If I had a big penis I would be more than happy to ensure my woman is aroused and ready. I think this responsibility becomes more important as a guy enlarges his penis, and foreplay becomes not just fun anymore but a necessity. I'd be happy about that because I like foreplay and gives a reason for both parties to give it more time and attention

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

Okay listen up everyone. I have made some progress in learning more about myself and my emotions through my penis.

Today after the stretching and kegeling, my BPFL was 4.125 inches. This is on a good day.
After a good jelqing session, I followed it up by an edging session of about 45 minutes. While I wasn't fully engorged for a majority of the time, I tried to focus on my fluttering heart, other sensations and tried to look at my penis from different angles.
Then I admired my penis in my head, thinking about the stress it has to sustain and overcome from my occasional tight grips and demanding sessions. I focused my attention to the energy flowing inside me, even if it was for a little while. I thought of that energy as love, devotion and and strength flowing in me and then to my penis.

It felt great, you know. It made me feel happy, somewhat relaxed and it gave me hope. During the edging session, I had DOs (most likely retrograde ejaculations, but hey, they felt amazing) and I had to be impressed by my penis' resilience. I used a lot of force today but it kept up with me.

I felt my mind and my penis got closer than before and I would like to continue this until I gain deep insights to my emotions and physical reactions.

And you know what, my BPFL at the end was 4.5 inches, and was very plum at the end.Even though it didn't last long, I was joyous.

Even though I JUST meet the 6"x5" requirements, I stick with those dimensions.

So next time, when you are edging, ballooning or just aroused/erected, focus on YOUR sensations, your thoughts and the things you like about yourself. Doesn't matter what it is, if you have nice eyes, feel glad. If your ass is prettier than your woman's, be happy. Let the positive energy flow inside you. Believe you can overcome your insecurities. Believe you can control your urges. At the end, don't feel any shame or disdain, because then it will stick with you. If you replace that with what I have suggested, you will feel better. And it will most likely spring back up when you do your sessions.

Try it.