Best "Average Size" Poll I've Seen

[jay1993 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jay1993]

They have trained their minds to assume the worst case scenario.

[faithandhope Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close faithandhope]

They have trained their minds to assume the worst case scenario.

^^ This is a fact, too.

[newdick Member Find all posts View Profile Close newdick]

An interesting thread! I had a conversation last month with a few female friends and I asked them if they had a cock-lineup of everyone they had ever been with (which was between 5-14 people each) they all said they could NOT match the cock to the person except in the extreme cases either too big or too small. And that everyone in the middle "gets lumped together" essentially. I never did get to ask what the other girls thought was small and what was big. But my girlfriend has been with a guy who she claims was 4 inches in length (she never measured, but was guessing), and for her it was not pleasurable. She was also with a guy who "was HUGE", and said that it couldn't even fit, there was basically no penetration, and it sucked for her and him. In the case of the guy she was with who was 4 inches; he is now dating one of her good friends who is happy with his size because she has a small vagina.

[Sean Jacobs Retired Moderator Member of the Month Dec 2012PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Sean Jacobs]

Don't get too cocky Sean... your girth is only 6 inches. So you're only bigger than 98.9989899 of the population.

The whole point to me being her is to get more cocky, isn't it? Bigger penis & bigger ego.

[Sean Jacobs Retired Moderator Member of the Month Dec 2012PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Sean Jacobs]

They have trained their minds to assume the worst case scenario.

You hit the nail right on the head.

[jay1993 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jay1993]

Yep, a lot of these guys here have pretty low self esteem and confidence, and have taken a negative outlook on life. It just isn't possible for them to ACTUALLY be an inch above average in their minds, so they quote the highest averages and make arguments defending them.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Man, people are weird.

[Succeder Member Find all posts View Profile Close Succeder]

This is a big arguement how ever I beleive scientific arguement is wrong its not the real avg size

[LilNudeDude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close LilNudeDude]

Ok. Wow. This is the craziest thread yet. I never realized how heated of a debate "The Average" is and how many guys really are obsessed with the penis size. I'm not counting myself out, mind you. EVERYBODY has their insecurities. I truly hate clothes and think the vast majority of leisure time should be clothing optional by law. Such as hiking, bicycling, going for a walk, anything that doesn't involve entering a business or other person's residence. Hence, I am just more interested in being a shower rather than a grower, is all. I tend to shrivel up to 3-4 inches when completely flaccid and relaxed.

At 6.5 EL, 4.8ish EG naturally, before PE, not much larger now, I consider myself average as far as how I THINK IT LOOKS. I have been told by others that I am not average by any means. Personally, I just think that at 5ft tall it just looks more impressive, than it really is on my small frame. Wether it is a 1/4 to a full 1 inch that I am above average, I don't really I know.

I have to agree with the more experienced and matured minds on this site. It seriously seems to be a matter of personal perspective. You can quote any study you want, but none have studied a wide enough nor large enough sample of the male population on this planet to give a proper statistical average. Until, at a minimum, a full 1/4 percent of the male population of each country, or at least, every ethnicity on this planet, is measured for absolute EL, I think everyone getting hostile and upset are judging by an irrational standard.

Based on current studies, as they are, seriously, If you fall anywhere within 5.5-6.5, you are doing just fine and should really stop beating yourselves up. The key is finding the right match to what you got. I have had a couple instances where being "just" 6.5 was too big for the gal at hand bumping her cervix rather roughly, completely unintentional.

You all got me rethinking my goal at this point. I thinking 7.5x5.5 EL is max I want to go, just to ger a good FL show.

This is some crazy conversation going on here. Just had to throw my thoughts into the pool.

LND

[jay1993 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jay1993]

How? How could every study possibly be wrong? Even the famous Lifestyles study was done on volunteers, so the biggest guys likely showed up. Do you really think that every single study done, where averages consistently range between 5 and 6 inches, has been wrong? Can you not accept that 5.5 inches is the average? Here is the deal: Most guys who have sex with their women have no problem putting her legs on his shoulders and plowing balls deep, you know why? Because most guys are around 6 BPEL, and I can tell you from experience that you don't start having problems with length until about 6.75 BPEL! If the average is really as big as you say, then there would be a LOT more women complaining of their boyfriends going too deep. And from my experiences with women it really is not that common of a thing, because only a small percentage of men are over 7 BPEL. Women always have a look of surprised shock when I go deep, as if nothing has ever been that deep before. And it likely hasnt. So get out of here with that shit!

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Good post Jay, Most women have not been hit 7 inches deep.

[LilNudeDude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close LilNudeDude]

Right on Jay!

Surprised my wife the first time. Got more than few incredulous looks at the nudist places I have visited. That first shot of sun and fresh air tends cause a slight arousal each time. Feels so awesome though. But not to get too far off track.

All of should go for what you feel will make you happy or the picture of your idea of perfect. Personal expereince is different for everyone. But, I'm telling you from my personal experience, as it sounds like Jay is, some of you have a seriously skewed idea of average.

Just throwing that out there.

[Stumpy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Stumpy]

All of should go for what you feel will make you happy or the picture of your idea of perfect.

... some of you have a seriously skewed idea of average.

I agree with your sentiments LilNudeDude ... and I don't want to flame someone with such a cool user name, but ...

... interestingly, your post points to one of the fundamental problems with a significant number of guys that come here. When you have a flawed view of what normal and average are ... and you won't accept what all of the evidence points to ... you're likely to have unrealistic and unattainable goals ... and you're never going to be happy or reach that idea of perfect.

Anorexia ... body dysmorphic disorder ... plastic surgery junkies ... it's a similar underlying pathology.

[CLOSEDDennyA Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CLOSEDDennyA]

I agree with your sentiments LilNudeDude ... and I don't want to flame someone with such a cool user name, but ...

... interestingly, your post points to one of the fundamental problems with a significant number of guys that come here. When you have a flawed view of what normal and average are ... and you won't accept what all of the evidence points to ... you're likely to have unrealistic and unattainable goals ... and you're never going to be happy or reach that idea of perfect.

Anorexia ... body dysmorphic disorder ... plastic surgery junkies ... it's a similar underlying pathology.

Totally agree because I have body dysmorphia. I thought i was small at 7 x 5 and now I'm 8 x 6.25 and still think I should be bigger but for some it may never end. In my head I know i am big especially for 5' 9.5" 160 lbs but there is a constant drive and "what if" It has gotten better with my results...it's even too much for my wife a lot and the drive is still there...

[cavallogrosso Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cavallogrosso]

Using data from here: condom size and facts
7 X 5.6 is 93.62% X 93.76%

from Ansell study, it is 88.83% X 91.48%

NB: Ansell study is not scientific. mean and median are far from each other.


Congratulations: you have a big one.

thanks, in the site that you have linked, there is , at the end of the page, a tabel with the measures and the percentile, in the table lenght, what is the method of measurement? BP or NBP or lightly BP?