I worried my dick is small forum

[Project-9 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Project-9]

Another one of these post. Dude, if you want to do PE to increase your size, then do so and I wish you the best of luck; we are here for you in that. However, your penis size may give you some confidence that you are more adequate (so you think) to keep a women (which is not the case and really has nothing to do with size in a serious relationship), but the confidence to talk with a woman has to do with what you think about you and see yourself as. Live life, bro!

You should read a thread, or AT LEAST THE OP before posting.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

You know Project-9 this is where your thread will start getting a bit of slack. You're young and you're new here. Most of the guys here, although some may have come for the reasons you stated in your opening post, have changed. By being here, absorbing knowledge, talking to the fine ladies on here as well as talking to each other, we have come to realize that dick size really doesn't mean jack shit in the grand scheme of things. Relationships are far more complicated than that.

Many of us who came here now contnue to do pe to see what can be done with it. Can I add an inch or so? Well why not try seeing as I'm already here. The post I have read like yours with guys insecure about their size years ago are longer insecure and maybe they have only added 1/2 an inch. There is something to be said about growing older and wiser. Ok some do grow older and seem to get a bit stupid but it's usuaully the other way around.

A forum for guys with small dicks would simply reinforce the notion that dick size is very important which is not the case. The one thing I would hope guys would get from coming to this forum is that the size of your unit is just a small measure of what it's like to be a man. A old member who's name I forgot said it best; "If you're not a man before doing pe you won't be one after no matter how many inches you gain!"

[secureman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close secureman]

The problem isn't people telling us we're too small. The problem is your self belief that somehow that makes you less of a man. Can you imagine yourself telling a woman that she's not as much of a woman because she has small breasts and they didn't satisfy you. My advice is develop a strong self esteem that comes from the inside and never let anyone make you feel less than because of.........such and such

[wtable Member Find all posts View Profile Close wtable]

What matters most is that you know how to use your tool. If your girl enjoys what you have, then the size won't be a big problem at all.

[pterodactyl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pterodactyl]

Some write and re write posts on every thread of this type and others. i have been on multiple forums and intentions become clear. Sure these people are well meaning but its a clear as day. Nothing against it, i like having Mods that are committed to the cause.

In any case that was just an aside to the point being made.

If a guy feels this way an accessible forum to how he is feeling would help, particularly seeing as only a small fraction of guys on this forum actually join, a fraction of them post.

I dont know man. Some of us feel or felt like these guys do and know how debilitating these thoughts can be. If i can relieve someone the anxiety and self doubt, even for 5 minutes, that this mindset causes im going to.

[secureman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close secureman]

What matters most is that you know how to use your tool. If your girl enjoys what you have, then the size won't be a big problem at all.

No wrong if she doesn't enjoy it find someone who does. If a girl doesn't like my size I'm not going to lap muffin for an hour to compensate I'm going to go find a girl that likes my dick as much as I do.

[Brenok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Brenok]

A forum for guys with small dicks would simply reinforce the notion that dick size is very important which is not the case.

This, exactly. "Small dick" is not a condition like ED or Pre-E (unless it's micropenis).

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

What about an "I`m worried I`m too big of a dick forum"? That is a bigger problem...

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

I have this friend always "brags" or at least loudly jokes about how small his dick is, he gets laid all the time...

I used this as a pick up line once... walked up to a girl and told me my dick is 2 inches. It actually worked. Lesson? Confidence > Penis size.

Adding another forum for tiny penis insecurities is just making another place for men to complain. We have enough places for that already, and more than enough people are willing to share their 2 cents and help. Also, a lot of those insecurities smaller sized men have are shared by larger sized men too.

If the larger sized men have the same insecurities, shouldn't the forum just be one for any type of penis size insecurity? It just seems a bit unnecessary to me, since it is a major reason why a lot of guys end up on this site anyway.

[Project-9 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Project-9]

You know Project-9 this is where your thread will start getting a bit of slack. You're young and you're new here. Most of the guys here, although some may have come for the reasons you stated in your opening post, have changed. By being here, absorbing knowledge, talking to the fine ladies on here as well as talking to each other, we have come to realize that dick size really doesn't mean jack shit in the grand scheme of things. Relationships are far more complicated than that.

Many of us who came here now contnue to do pe to see what can be done with it. Can I add an inch or so? Well why not try seeing as I'm already here. The post I have read like yours with guys insecure about their size years ago are longer insecure and maybe they have only added 1/2 an inch. There is something to be said about growing older and wiser. Ok some do grow older and seem to get a bit stupid but it's usuaully the other way around.

A forum for guys with small dicks would simply reinforce the notion that dick size is very important which is not the case. The one thing I would hope guys would get from coming to this forum is that the size of your unit is just a small measure of what it's like to be a man. A old member who's name I forgot said it best; "If you're not a man before doing pe you won't be one after no matter how many inches you gain!"

If 40 is young ill take that all day! I am new here and its with fresh eyes that i suggest this.
Not exactly sure what most of your post has to do with the topic.

Im simply saying it would be good for guys and it seems like alot of them, have a place to read up on the topic the same way a guy with a premmie problem can. Maybe i shouldn't have suggested the title be "My dick is to small" Perhaps "Size Perception"

[Project-9 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Project-9]

This, exactly. "Small dick" is not a condition like ED or Pre-E (unless it's micropenis).

Certainly not but Size Perception is a big enough problem to take up alot of time. These threads go on for pages with well meaning people trying to reason with guys in this situation.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Doctors see kids with sniffles everyday and when they stop caring they will no longer be good doctors. People help people when they need it and if confidence is the issue then what are we doing, PEing for them, no. We are continually helping those who need a bit of confidence. Many of them gain ther confidence just by being here and as Cusp said above (OK, he actually said something smart today) many of them gain there confidence from the increase of knowledge even if they actually dont gain a ton of man muscle. Maybe just being told its ok by men is actually soothing and/or comforting because deep down inside many men are more araid of what men think than what women think. I know that sounds wrong but think about it. Who is really going to tease you in the football locker room, who are you refusing to let the towel drop in front of in the locker room after a basketball game. If a gal says Johnny has a pin dick who is really going to tease you to the point of being ashamed. 9 times out of 10 it is the guys who will hurt you the most and by hearing guys here reinforce to you that its ok and even normal to have a small or normal dick is concerned, goes a million miles towards self confidence.
If I reply to 1,000 threads this year about "my dingy dongus is too tiny" and 1 or 2 of those fellas finds relief after he gets 2 or three pages of replies then I say keep posting them, dont stop replying either because that is what we are here for at the PEGym. It is a place to build confidence and the penile gains are the secondary bonus.

[jd10021 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jd10021]

There is some serious truth to the OP's post. It sure would be great to have a single "I'm insecure about my small penis" sticky so that every time another person creates a new thread, the mods can move it to the sticky and the rest of us can avoid it. Many members on this board have continually, time after time, posted great FAQ material to start this sticky.

IMHO, the first step in the FAQ should be along the lines of: "Most likely, your problem isn't your penis, it's that you're young and immature. Don't worry, you'll probably grow up and gain more maturity (unless you have a real personality disorder)."

[Project-9 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Project-9]

I also thought you came off ass a bit young and unexperienced Maby you should, in all humility, reevaluate a couple of thoughts and attitudes or how you express them. No hostility, my man, just think about it. But sure, size perseption is something that can be valuable to all members!

Umm..No thanks man, i some how managed to get a great family, circle of friends and a very successful business with my current attitudes and how i express them.

No hostility my man but maybe you should, in all humility, be a wee bit less condescending and judgmental.

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

Umm..No thanks man, i some how managed to get a great family, circle of friends and a very successful business with my current attitudes and how i express them.

No hostility my man but maybe you should, in all humility, be a wee bit less condescending and judgmental.

Dude, I deleted that post! I read your stuff a bit more carfully! And I agree with the size perception views... In all humility, I apologize if I offended you! Call it premature posting