having a hard time dealing with the size of my penis

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

I feel like my penis isn't good enough. I've put some pictures up you can check them out if you like and leave your two cents if you like. I feel like when I see other pictures everyone looks a lot bigger then my penis I feel so small and out of place here and I'm worried about having a girlfriend because I think they will make fun of me. Am I over thinking or is my penis really this small can someone help me get through this. I've been doing JP90 for 5 weeks now haven't seen any gains but, I have no plans on stopping. Any advice will be helpful or if you want to let me know what you think would be appreciated. Thanks

[ThumbsUpSon Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThumbsUpSon]

Five weeks is nothing. You just started.
And by the way, what is your size when you're so worried about it?

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

I measured erect at 6.5" and I measured again awhile after that and I was 7" I still feel very small.

[NCC707 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCC707]

It's gonna get bigger, no doubt about that. Stick to the program, stay consistent and motivated. I started out with 4.75"EL 7 years ago, I was 22. I was never dedicated or consistent until this past year and a half. I have made tremendous gains over that short amount of time. Wish I was more motivated when I first started. I saw newbie gains due to EQ, but when those quick gains stopped, I lost hope. I am now 6.75"NBPEL 7.75"BPEL 5.75"MEG. 1" gain in both EL and EG in a year and a half is tremendous. Keep the faith bro. Once you have made it past the 90 day conditioning, you will enter the big leagues and make the big gains. We have to keep eachother motivated, and PEGym is the place for that.

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

thanks I don't have any intention to stop since I'm not happy with my size at all. Do you recommend what I should do after JP90 if you want you cn see the two new pictures that I put up and see that I'm not working with much.

[Herbivore Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Herbivore]

A simple search would let you know that you're over the average. Average isn't small, so how could above average possibly be small? What is the point of threads like these, seriously.. We're basically telling you what you already know. Does it feel that good to have every single one of us repeat it? Facts are facts.

[NCC707 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCC707]

I checked them out before my reply. You are working with a decent size. Get out of that mind frame. I dealt with great demons, growing up in a porn shop ( literally, my father turned the front of our house into an adult store. A curtain seperated it from the house.), and having a father and step mother who were addicted to cocks. Pictures, statues, books..... throughout the house and in the room i slept. I was 9 years old when I was first exposed to this world. 4' dildos, porn star cocks.... all of this made me self conscious. I knew i was under average and it affected my life very much. I know the feelings of inadequacy. You will be very surprised how much you can gain. I don't even recognize my cock anymore. Its fucking awesome. Lol.

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

i didn't know that's why I'm asking if it's such a big deal i will delete the thread my bad I didn't know these threads were so annoying not trying to be mean or anything just I'm a little upset with what I have that's all

[seahawksam Member Find all posts View Profile Close seahawksam]

i didn't know that's why I'm asking if it's such a big deal i will delete the thread my bad I didn't know these threads were so annoying not trying to be mean or anything just I'm a little upset with what I have that's all

Chill, bro. It's all good. We're all in our own place, so to speak. If you're starting off at 6.5" or so, you're WAY ahead of the game. I'm new here, too. You'll get great support and plenty of tips...for your tip! Work hard at it but don't focus on it too much or it will consume you. If you're single, you'll stay single and if you have a partner, you'll jeopardize this if you're too focused on adding size. And DEFINITELY stay away from porn if you can.

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

I apologize again I didn't mean to show any attitude and had no intention to I'll always be the first to admit i was wrong. I usually work out 3-5 times a week. I do think about it a lot and I notice it does affect me. I'm worried because i might have a girlfriend soon so that's why I'm scared that this girl will laugh at me if and when she see's my penis.

[seahawksam Member Find all posts View Profile Close seahawksam]

I apologize again I didn't mean to show any attitude and had no intention to I'll always be the first to admit i was wrong. I usually work out 3-5 times a week. I do think about it a lot and I notice it does affect me. I'm worried because i might have a girlfriend soon so that's why I'm scared that this girl will laugh at me if and when she see's my penis.

Well, here's some short-term advice then. Get good at going down! I promise you that if you make "lunch at the Y" your specialty while working on your size, it'll make almost NO difference to her whether your packing 5" or 7". Getting good at eating p**** takes little effort and it usually results in the lady-folks getting the tops of their heads blown off. Trust me. Stretch your mouth and tongue out. Lots of AHHHHHHs and OHHHHHHs. I used to do voice-over work and it helped immensely. Having an agile tongue and mouth not only helped pay my bills....I got more than my share of "OHMYGODTHATWASAMAZING!!!" LOL.

Sounds corny but I'm an average looking guy. Something was working in my favor.

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

haha that's good to know I must try that then next time I have sex since i don't feel like I can please a female with my penis.

[SeemsLegit Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SeemsLegit]

It's gonna get bigger, no doubt about that. Stick to the program, stay consistent and motivated. I started out with 4.75"EL 7 years ago, I was 22. I was never dedicated or consistent until this past year and a half. I have made tremendous gains over that short amount of time. Wish I was more motivated when I first started. I saw newbie gains due to EQ, but when those quick gains stopped, I lost hope. I am now 6.75"NBPEL 7.75"BPEL 5.75"MEG. 1" gain in both EL and EG in a year and a half is tremendous. Keep the faith bro. Once you have made it past the 90 day conditioning, you will enter the big leagues and make the big gains. We have to keep eachother motivated, and PEGym is the place for that.

I've heard people say noobie gains can come from better EQ. Does that mean harder erections? I already had hard erections before PE (Just as hard as I do now) but I'm scared my gains are only temporary for some reason, or a fake/newbie gain that isn't true extra size.

Also Viking, 6.5 (not sure if NBPEL or not, but even BPEL) is absolutely nothing to worry about. Nobody I've met in person has claimed to be that large and the average is roughly 5". You will keep gaining but as of right now there is no reason a woman would laugh at you for that size. It's like a 6 foot tall guy being self conscious about his height. He isn't 6 foot 4, but he's still considered tall, and well ahead of the average.

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

haha that's good to know I must try that then next time I have sex since i don't feel like I can please a female with my penis.

I believe you said you were BP 7" X 5.5" right? Well thats quite a bit bigger than me when you account for the increased vollume due to girth. Although it was not always the case I have pretty dam good sex with my wife. She orgasms 99% of the time has multiples every once and a while and even simultaneous orgasms occassionally. She has done everything but squirt. Thats just from penetration and with a 5" girth.

You can "please" a woman with your size and even less if she is into the sex and lets it happen. A lot of it depends on the woman. I do think the female orgasm is probably more likely to happen with larger sizes and with less effort but that doesn't mean that smaller dicks can't please. Yea I know it sucks thinking that the majority of guys are bigger. I have the same thoughts but it shouldn't prevent you from entering relationships or having sex.

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

if I can find the picture of me measuring my penis is was right at the 7in mark when erect. I'm 6'2 and i'm overweight I'm trying to lose the weight as you can see in my pictures I have a lot of fat in that area so I'm hoping when I lose the weight it will help me change my mind. Thanks for telling me I won't get laughed at I see some guys pictures on here and some guys have 7in flaccid and I thought all flaccid dicks were that size so that's why I feel like I'm below average.