Masturbating since 3 years old

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Hi, just wanted to share a weird story with you guys. Basically, I am 18 years nowdays but I have been masturbating as long as I can remember, probably since the age of 3. I didnt know about sex or orgasms back then, I just found out that it felt good to rub my dick lol. So I rubbed my dick every day even before I knew there was something called masturbating. I dont remember if I got orgams back when i was so young, but it definitely felt good. I am still doing it today, I dont get nearly as much stimulation from the "normal" way of masturbating. I am only able to ejaculate when i masturbate in "my" way. Now heres the weird part: I am only able to ejaculate and get an orgasm when flaccid. Now I dont know how fcked up this sounds for you guys, but I am basically ejaculating while my penis is 0-20% erect.

I can explain the method in itself: I lay on my stomach with my hands on my dick and balls, and start massaging/rubbing my dick in a specific movement with quite a lot of force. The penis must still be soft while doing this, it can be a little bit erect but not hard. When I do this method it feels soo good and Im able to ejacualte after just 20 seconds some times. I also do/did a lot of edgning (whitout knowing what it was) because I am able to reach orgasm so fast that i need to stop before climax and continue after a while so that i can maintain the good feeling longer.

Now I dont know how this has affected my penis today, but it is quite curved (which I am 90% sure is because of the masturbating). I get boners and stuff, but I get absolutely 0 pleasure from the "traditional" way of masturbating. I barely watch any porn, obviously because I cant watch it while I am masturbating (which requires me to lay on my stomach). As of a result of this, I dont need porn or any visual stimulation to get hard. I can just picture tings in my head while im masturbating, I dont need to watch naked ladies etc. When I do watch porn (which i rarely do), I get a hard erection but I dont need it to get horny.

Now I dont know how weird this sounds for you guys, but some feedback about what you think about this would be really nice. Also if you have any questions I will answer them.

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OK, I'm perplexed. I didn't know that at the age of 3 you would even feel anything much less have much of a memory for things. I don't remember jack shit from when I was 3...........maybe from 5 forward but not 3.

So you get zero pleasure out of masturbating your erection versus masturbating your totally flaccid penis? That sounds very bizarre to me.

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I can masturbate while its flaccid, usually its about 20% erect maybe. It can still be soft or semi-hard, but not so hard that it rises up if you know what i mean. I get absoultely no pleasure from masturbating my penis when its hard, absoulutely nothing. I probably COULD get an erection while my penis was hard, but with my method of masturbating it is not possible to do while hard. This is because i am laying whith my penis facing downwards, so it is not possible to masturbate it when it is too hard. If it is hard I will just wait for it to become softer so I can masturbate. Maybe I could get an erection from sex etc (which I havent tried yet btw), but the traditional way of masturbating is just ridiculous.

Also, Its not like I rememer that i specifically started at the age of 3. It is just that I cant remember when or why it started because ive done it for as long as I can remember, but it was definitely before the age of 5.

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Damn that's messed up.I didn't touch my dick other than to piss for much of my life.I jerked off the first time after being taught sex ed at school and only because i wanted to make sure my dick worked right.

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I'm usually a lurker and this is probably my first post but that is not good. I used to use the exact same technique an I read up on it. An article said the majority of men can't cum during actual sex because a woman can't apply that much pressure and you pretty much can endlessly pound away(not good). I stopped masturbating and switched back to the regular way. It took me at 1 and a half hours my first time back the regular way but I feel much better now.

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I can masturbate while its flaccid, usually its about 20% erect maybe. It can still be soft or semi-hard, but not so hard that it rises up if you know what i mean. I get absoultely no pleasure from masturbating my penis when its hard, absoulutely nothing. I probably COULD get an erection while my penis was hard, but with my method of masturbating it is not possible to do while hard. This is because i am laying whith my penis facing downwards, so it is not possible to masturbate it when it is too hard. If it is hard I will just wait for it to become softer so I can masturbate. Maybe I could get an erection from sex etc (which I havent tried yet btw), but the traditional way of masturbating is just ridiculous.


Also, Its not like I rememer that i specifically started at the age of 3. It is just that I cant remember when or why it started because ive done it for as long as I can remember, but it was definitely before the age of 5.

Sooooo, are you wanting to change this then?

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Oh ! So, maybe more like 4 in your case. As we all know so much goes on between the ages of 3 and 4 . Those years are the toughest on the growing young male. All that soaring testosterone and muscle development . Not to mention the deepening of the voice and first appearance of body hair. It certainly brings back the memories of being 3 or 4 again . Dude , you are very very funny ......this post is hilarious

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My grandson was masturbating when he was around 5 or so, according to my daughter. I know I was certainly
masturbating before the age of 9. I guess it just depends. I used to masturbate while climbing trees--I know,
I'm from the back woods. He, he, he.

I would rub my penis against any pole, tree, whatever, and boom! I'm sure I wasn't hard,
but at my age, who remembers? He, he. he.

So I identify with you, in some way. I know I have read time and again on these sites of men who masturbate on their stomach against a pillow, bed sheet, whatever. I would assume they are hard. But who knows?

To each his own, I guess.

When you stop masturbating, it frees you to have better, longer, and more intimate
sex with your significant other.

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I get what you mean, I must have started touching myself down there around 9 or 10, used to just grab my balls/penis and it felt great, remember swimming with one arm while touching my balls with the other when no one was around! I first started properly masturbating at 12 or 13 but i used to just rub one finger across my penis head/foreskin, didn't start 'wanking' properly until about 15. I started liking women 'that way' around 9 or 10 I'd say, probably thanks to WWF! The Kat, Debra (even though her face was meh), Chyna (even if she is going down hill these days), Lita, Trish Stratus etc.

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I'm usually a lurker and this is probably my first post but that is not good. I used to use the exact same technique an I read up on it. An article said the majority of men can't cum during actual sex because a woman can't apply that much pressure and you pretty much can endlessly pound away(not good). I stopped masturbating and switched back to the regular way. It took me at 1 and a half hours my first time back the regular way but I feel much better now.

Wow it's very interesting to read what you said there. So basically you had a similar way of masturbating like I did? I've been thinking about "switching" to the regular method aswell, however it would take a lot of commitment and probably at least a couple of hours the first time like it did with you. Did you get any satisfaction from the "regular" method in the beginnning, can you explain a little bit more in detail about how you managed to break out of the "habit" you had?

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Sooooo, are you wanting to change this then?

Yes I want to, however it is not easy because I have been doing it "my" way for about 14-15 years now. I get barely any or none at all satisfaction at all from the traditional masturbation. I've been thinking about ways to break out of my "habit", for instance I tried to stop masturbating 100%. This turned out to be very hard, because I've been masturbating methodically every day before bed for as long as I remember. It's quite impossible for me to get to sleep whitout masturbating, and it took me 2 hours the other day whereas it normally takes me 30minutes if I stick to my "routine". In addition, it turned out to be "impossible" for me to study when all I can think about is... you know :P However, I've cut down on the masturbation alot recently, going from about 5 times daily to once every day just before I go to sleep. Eventually I will probably stop 100% for atleast 1 week. After that 1 week I will probably be so horny that I will be able to reach orgasm from just touching the D.
Also Im not interesting in stopping masturbating 100% (because it seems impossible to me), I just want to switch over to the traditional way of masturbating so that i am "prepared" for any future intercourses with the opposite sex (which I doubt will happend during the next couple of months because Im kind of a...loser you know).

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I remember when I was really young, before I knew anything about masturbation I would rub myself on by bed when I was going to sleep because it felt really good.

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Based on nothing but your first post, your memory is wrong. You werent whacking off at 3. You were playing with your pee pee just like eevry boy in the damn world.

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Yes I want to, however it is not easy because I have been doing it "my" way for about 14-15 years now. I get barely any or none at all satisfaction at all from the traditional masturbation. I've been thinking about ways to break out of my "habit", for instance I tried to stop masturbating 100%. This turned out to be very hard, because I've been masturbating methodically every day before bed for as long as I remember. It's quite impossible for me to get to sleep whitout masturbating, and it took me 2 hours the other day whereas it normally takes me 30minutes if I stick to my "routine". In addition, it turned out to be "impossible" for me to study when all I can think about is... you know :P However, I've cut down on the masturbation alot recently, going from about 5 times daily to once every day just before I go to sleep. Eventually I will probably stop 100% for atleast 1 week. After that 1 week I will probably be so horny that I will be able to reach orgasm from just touching the D.
Also Im not interesting in stopping masturbating 100% (because it seems impossible to me), I just want to switch over to the traditional way of masturbating so that i am "prepared" for any future intercourses with the opposite sex (which I doubt will happend during the next couple of months because Im kind of a...loser you know).

Why the hell would you think you're a "loser"? Just because you have this issue at the moment?? Come on man, ditch that thought process. You can make any changes in your life you want to change, you just have to want to change bad enough.

I realize it won't be easy but if you want to change things, change them....

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Based on nothing but your first post, your memory is wrong. You werent whacking off at 3. You were playing with your pee pee just like eevry boy in the damn world.

Actually, I wouldn't dismiss the OP because I've often wondered when I first started masturbating and it was certainly at a very young age. I wouldn't commit to saying I began at 3 years old because I simply don't know, but I can't remember a time when I didn't masturbate.

I used to do it by rubbing my penis against the inside of my thigh. Unfortunately, my Mum caught me doing this on several occasions and gave me some furious telling-offs; even threatening to take me to the doctor to get it 'cured'.