Does anyone else feel self conscious about not having a big dick?

[Germanep Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Germanep]

I have an average cock and I am sure I will please any woman, but being only 6inches nbpel nd a 5.15 inch girth and a mediocre flaccid I just feel embarrassed. I won't go skinny dipping or pee at a party because I am self conscious about it. I don't feel the need to be big to please a woman I want to be big to please myself. I want a 7x5.5. Although I would rather have an 8x6. But really i want a huge soft. Do most people feel jealous of all the others that are huge on here like going411x7?

[billywilliams Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close billywilliams]

Ya if you get big all your guy friends will get jealous.

[Jakebfs Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jakebfs]

A lot of people share these views, to different extents. Lots of reasoning and thinking can be bad for you, like saying most people don't actually know how little flaccid size predicts errect size, or thinking you don't look as big as the numbers say you are. I have public showers a lot and still feel aprehension even though I consider myself pretty darn big at neear 7.5" length.

But some personalities are just more self conscious than others. There are two things you can do to help.

1- PE, the obvious one. We PE and most of us do it to gain. Be happy at the knowledge that you're on your way to a bigger size, even though you know you don't need it.

2- Desensitize your fear. I'll explain this one. You have a fear or nervousness about people seeing your member, skinny dipping or whatever. The fact that you stay away from those things like skinny dipping and peeing at parties, that will actually make you even more self conscious! Studies have shown one of the main reasons people don't get over phobias such as fear of flying is because they never actually do what they're afraid of, so they don't realise how trivial the fear is. If you took someone with a fear of flying and stuck them on loads and loads of flights they'd become leess anxious over time and in many cases lose their fear. It just takes that bit of mental determination to put yourself through the initial anxiety. So do pee at parties, shower communaly, get used to people being able to see down there, and believe me you'll start to become much more confident in yourself. This is coming from a guy who used to shower in boxer shorts and now has face to face conversations in the shower with everything on show. It takes a while and some nerves but it'll help

And just so you know, I'm very confident yet you have a bigger girth than me so you should be really confident with your size too. Personally I'm not jealous of any errect sizes on here apart from those with a bit more girth than me, although yes i'm jealous of some flaccid sizes haha.

For better flaccid during the day do fowfers and LAS stretches whenever you have the time, they'll give you a great flaccid hang during thee day which could also make you more confident

Hope this helps.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

A bigger dick equals a bigger ego! Give PE a try bro, it may amaze you

[Looking4more Retired Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Looking4more]

If you believe you are big enough to satisfy a woman, then what else do you really need? You are big enough and are larger than a lot of guys out there. I would do just like Jake said. Just whip it out and don't worry about size. It's not like you are in a size contest with anyone. What the people around you will see is the confidence you show by just doing it. They won't even pay attention to the size. All they will see is a guy sure of himself and that will get you even more respect. If you had a huge penis hanging out, they may be jealous but not respectful. Which are you looking for?
If you feel you still need more, then you have come to the right place to change that. Welcome to the Gym.

[experimentor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close experimentor]

Be happy man. I'm barely 6inches, probably 5.9 on a great day.
And my EG is 4.8.
You have it good

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Mine was 4.5 x 4.4 (nbpel). It is now 5.3 x 5.1. Now that is an average dick although girth is considered high average. When I was 4.5 x 4.4. I was self conscience of my size. I am now satisfied with it. If I were 6 x 5.15, I would flaunt it.

[DaddyDick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DaddyDick]

I started PE feeling kinda ashamed. Now i kinda feel like the man. But more than that...I feel lucky because of all the people who put in so much time and get back so little.

[settingthegoal Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close settingthegoal]

It's more of the operator than the equipment that matters.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Honestly, I feel I had a small penis. Maybe because I've had a 7x5 most of my adult life? I've been told it isn't small. I've also told women that I'm going to start taking penis pills just to make it ONE inch longer and they tell me that if I make it any bigger they won't sleep with me. I've also never had a woman deepthroat me before. The list goes on to make it seem like I have a big penis through experiences with women, but yet, I still feel I have a small penis. Hopefully another inch to inch and half with a little more girth will change that lol

[CLOSEDDennyA Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CLOSEDDennyA]

Honestly, I feel I had a small penis. Maybe because I've had a 7x5 most of my adult life? I've been told it isn't small. I've also told women that I'm going to start taking penis pills just to make it ONE inch longer and they tell me that if I make it any bigger they won't sleep with me. I've also never had a woman deepthroat me before. The list goes on to make it seem like I have a big penis through experiences with women, but yet, I still feel I have a small penis. Hopefully another inch to inch and half with a little more girth will change that lol

I feel the same way...I have hit my long term goals twice already and still want more...I liken it to the girls who keep getting bigger boob jobs...it's like that AT&T commercial "more is better" even though it really isn't always..

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

I feel the same way...I have hit my long term goals twice already and still want more...I liken it to the girls who keep getting bigger boob jobs...it's like that AT&T commercial "more is better" even though it really isn't always..

I'm a 5'9" skinny guy, and I think once I hit my ultimate goal it's going to really make my overall body look small. It should give an awesome crazy illusion, and I hope that chicks really get fucking confused when they see me wearing nothing but skin, like....

"damn that dick is too big for you! How the fuck!?"

[Wolfemother Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Wolfemother]

You could always tie a shoe on the end and call yourself tripod! LOL

I'm a 5'9" skinny guy, and I think once I hit my ultimate goal it's going to really make my overall body look small. It should give an awesome crazy illusion, and I hope that chicks really get fucking confused when they see me wearing nothing but skin, like....

"damn that dick is too big for you! How the fuck!?"

[Wolfemother Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Wolfemother]

Well I am extremely self conscious, main reason I am here! Its got nothing to do with pleasing girls I know I can do this, its just in my head...
When I can stand naked in a room full of girls and not feel self conscious then I'll be at my desired size.

[CLOSEDDennyA Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CLOSEDDennyA]

My confidence has gone up and I know that is shallow, but sometimes I walk in a room wearing jeans like " what up, l gotta big cock.". Maybe dumb but I am proud of the piece I built.

I don't actually say that...I have a big dick but I am not one...lol.