Thinking that you are small but stats say otherwise?

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

Gotta be a troll just look at his user name.

[Jm123 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jm123]

How tall are you? Either you are really tall >6'2" (1.88m), have body dysmorphia, or are fishing for complements.

Personally, I fall into the first category. However, now that I am bigger than 8x6" with a good flaccid hang, it is finally starting to look big. Someone has a chart up that ranks body height, and dick size by percentiles. Interesting enough, I was not really happy with my size until it matched my height, I believe I am >95% in all categories now.

One tip to make you realize how big you are is to clamp off the base with your hands and bend down so your face is a lot closer. If your current size does not look big, than I would suspect body dysmorphia. This has always worked for me (pre-PE), and now it makes me go damn my dick is getting huge.

Lastly, if your fishing for complements. Please, go screw yourself. Most guys, have small to large mental issues with their size to begin with (on here or in the real world). Go post pictures on craigslist, LPSG, or some other narcissistic site. There was no need to post your stats in your opening post, and it was narcissistic to do so, your choice of name does not help your image either. Most of us on this site attempt to refrain from posting larger sizes. Everyone makes mistakes and it is cool, however, please remember discretion is the better part of valor.

[CLOSEDDennyA Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CLOSEDDennyA]

I just don't understand that at all... How can you think you're small when you KNOW you're much bigger than the average Joe? I think I'm small because I fall RIGHT into the category of average, if not less. Once I exceed the average, then I know I'm big.

These kinds of statements and threads just never make sense to me. How can the perception of your dick be small when your flaccid length is almost as long as my NBPEL?

Well I know for a fact that because my first girlfriend called small when she saw it flaccid and we were virgins (she didn't know shit) haunted me forever..Even when other girls said I was big and I was much smaller than I am now...mental scars play mind tricks. I know my dick is big but there are times when the mind wanders and starts saying the opposite. One time a neighbor dared me to show it and I declined thinking it was too small. I hang almost 6 flaccid and always more than 5 girth and I thought it wouldn't be impressive...fucked up.

Forgot to mention that same guy thought I stuffed my pants...

[pornobig Member Find all posts View Profile Close pornobig]

Okay i didnt know this was going to make such a negative responses .

First of all, if life was just facts than it wouldnt be life. Let me tell you something wise guys - in sport even though facts say that some taem is better than other doesnt MEAN THAT SMALLER TEAM IS GOING TO LOOSE. So i am sorry to say your inteligence is not that good as you think. Anyyways let me get back to topic

I found out why it looks smaller ( instead of posting some negative comments here i went and did a research )

It looks smaller cause of this

I have ectomorpho body ( since you are all so smart you dnt have to google - and because i am not that smart i had to google ) but my lower part of body has really strong thighs ( which is very rare for people )

My top part has also big length compared to my legs

So its called disproportion in body.

Anyways let me explain you in mathematics cause you are all so smart and intelligent people i will have to use some more scienttific words so i explain you

My upper body - to lower body ratio is very unusual and makes optical illusions

[Whiteboy16 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Whiteboy16]

Pornobig, people are annoyed at you because it was incredibly insensitive of you to post such big stats and call them small, knowing full well that many (most) of the people are smaller.

You're the equivalent of those hot, skinny girls who moan about how fat they look in front of girls who are actually objectively overweight.

Like Jm mentioned, it wasn't actually necessary for you to post your stats (after posting his stats...?). You could have easily asked the question alone. Hindsight is 20/20, I guess. Also, as I pointed out before, your choice of name would seem to imply you know well how big you are. I would like to see a response to these points as opposed to a blanket statement about everyone being mean to you.

[MovingUp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MovingUp]

Okay i didnt know this was going to make such a negative responses .


First of all, if life was just facts than it wouldnt be life. Let me tell you something wise guys - in sport even though facts say that some taem is better than other doesnt MEAN THAT SMALLER TEAM IS GOING TO LOOSE. So i am sorry to say your inteligence is not that good as you think. Anyyways let me get back to topic


First off, this appears to be a terrible non-sequeter .. A team predicted to win a game losing, has no correlation to what has been discussed at all ...

I found out why it looks smaller ( instead of posting some negative comments here i went and did a research )

It looks smaller cause of this

I have ectomorpho body ( since you are all so smart you dnt have to google - and because i am not that smart i had to google ) but my lower part of body has really strong thighs ( which is very rare for people )

Ectomorph, endomorph, and mesomorph ... that is bullshit made up by a quack in the 40s claiming you could know a person's temperament and mental characteristics based on their body types ...

Somatotype and constitutional psychology - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

read that please

Sheldon's theories enjoyed a vogue as the "pop-psych flavor of the month" through the 1950s.^[2] Modern scientists, however, generally (with occasional exceptions,^[3][4] some relying on outdated – 1978 or prior – studies) dismiss his claims as outdated, if not outright quackery.^[5]

straight from wiki


My top part has also big length compared to my legs

So its called disproportion in body.

Anyways let me explain you in mathematics cause you are all so smart and intelligent people i will have to use some more scienttific words so i explain you

My upper body - to lower body ratio is very unusual and makes optical illusions

Big thighs can make someone's stuff appear smaller, however shorter thighs which you claim to have, would mean your dick fell down closer to your knees than it normally should ... so if anything that makes it appear longer ... you are completely full of shit .. some people in this world are at the low end of intelligence ... maybe you should consider yourself to possibly be one of them ...

Sometime posts are so full of shit You gotta respond to each part inside the quote .. thats what i've done

[Jm123 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jm123]

Like Jm mentioned, it wasn't actually necessary for you to post your stats (after posting his stats...?).

I posted my approximate stats, as a reference to how it might be possible to have a big dick and think it is small. I was fully aware of the irony and that is why I left it as a range. Realistically speaking it is insane to think all of the bigger guys on here have to always shut there mouth and live in shame of their stats. There are times when it is prudent to list stats, and I felt that was one of them.

I was trying to cut the guy some slack and tell him there may be legitimate reasons to think he was average sized, which there are (even with a name of pornobig?). Overall, my dick size is finally proportional to my body, and believe it or not I finally do not view it as being small. Looking in the mirror I finally go damn I am decent sized, but still would like a little more. This is not body dysmorphia, but a fact of life for very large people. I may have a huge package flaccid and hard, but it only looks average on my frame.

(personal note)
I am freaking huge anyway you slice it; my height, weight, and dick size put me at the extremes of all humans. This adds up to a deceptive appearance of my body size, I constantly get people telling me damn you are HUGE when they get near me as I just do not look that big until they get up close. All of this translates into the appearance of a much smaller package than I really have. Objectively speaking, now that my body dimensions match up all being >95th percentile I no longer feel small, and instead feel average in appearance. Let me put it this way, if you saw a picture of me naked with no height reference you would have no clue how tall I was or how big my package was; I would look like an average guy.

So, please keep in mind that there are legitimate reasons why some guys have size issues when they are starting at, or well above the norm. That is why I always ask about height/body size when someone posts like this. Lastly, it is also inconsiderate to pick on guys like myself. Yes I am big. However, a lot of the people complaining about their size have the same or bigger dick to body size ratio as myself, and others that are tall. Relatively speaking the dick to body ratio will effect perception much more than actual size.

(Again)
Realistically speaking, it is insane to think all of the bigger guys on here have to always shut there mouth and live in shame because of their stats. There are times when it is prudent to list stats, and I felt that was one of them. We are all men here; men boast, men fight, men are insensitive, and we should all try to help each other achieve our desires while becoming more emotionally rounded.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

Highly intelligent people base their personal views and opinions on facts, stats, evidence and experience. To form opinions or views out of your ass and based on nothing is once again a sign of lower intelligence to me.

This is absolute bullshit. Why would you even post something if all you have to contribute is some insult? So some guy comes online and says "Okay, I KNOW what I feel is wrong, but WHY am I feeling it?" Your response it - you're stupid. Well show me the data that says this? Oh wait you're basing this view on nothing. How ironic.

The OP is talking about his feelings. Emotional intelligence and emotional health is something rarely discussed in our culture. Most guys when they feel anything are quickly shunned by people, especially other men. We're all emotional beings and to strike real balance in your life you need to validate that part of you.
WHY do you feel small, even though you know you're big? Well, I'll wager a guess that it has 0 to do with your penis size and all to do with how you view yourself in general. OP, do you think you're smart enough? Fast enough? Good enough? I know you don't think you're big enough. I wonder what other limiting beliefs you hold onto about yourself. that's something to explore.

EDIT: Or maybe you just have a huge body frame like jm and from your visual birds-eye perspective it looks small. That makes a lot of sense, too.

Back to the subject of intelligence - this isn't something you have or possess. It's not a thing you hold onto. Intelligence is a process you go through starting from birth and ending when you die. It's the formation of knowledge and experience and memory retention. More than that, there are different kinds of intelligences, like spatial, kinaesthetic and logical. You may excel in one and absolutely fail in another. That's part of the beauty of life, is that it takes all kinds.
So calling someone "lower intelligence" is an asinine thing to say.

[DaddyDick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DaddyDick]

I just don't understand that at all... How can you think you're small when you KNOW you're much bigger than the average Joe? I think I'm small because I fall RIGHT into the category of average, if not less. Once I exceed the average, then I know I'm big.

These kinds of statements and threads just never make sense to me. How can the perception of your dick be small when your flaccid length is almost as long as my NBPEL?

I really hope that you get a growth spurt because of your attitude!

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

Back to the subject of intelligence - this isn't something you have or possess. It's not a thing you hold onto. Intelligence is a process you go through starting from birth and ending when you die. It's the formation of knowledge and experience and memory retention.

I posted the official definitions of intelligence above. I understand what you are saying but unfortunately this is not it. Do not confuse the word knowledge with intelligence. Yes both are important in life. Perhaps we can replace the word intelligence with logic if that is less offensive.

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

First of all, if life was just facts than it wouldnt be life. Let me tell you something wise guys - in sport even though facts say that some taem is better than other doesnt MEAN THAT SMALLER TEAM IS GOING TO LOOSE. So i am sorry to say your inteligence is not that good as you think. Anyyways let me get back to topic

I had chosen to move on from this thread and ignore this idiotic point. However, since I have been brought back into it... this is a completely irrelevant point. Sometimes it is better to say nothing at all then to open your mouth and remove all doubt.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

I posted the official definitions of intelligence above. I understand what you are saying but unfortunately this is not it.

If all you're able to see is textbook definition then you're limiting yourself. What I said fits perfectly with the definition you gave. Take a second look.

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

If all you're able to see is textbook definition then you're limiting yourself. What I said fits perfectly with the definition you gave. Take a second look.

I actually did take a second look already and you are correct my response to you is off base. Still, knowledge is not required to be intelligent. A very sheltered person can still be very intelligent even if their lifestyle has limited them in the amount of knowledge they have been able to aquire. It is the ability to understand and aquire the knowledge when it is presented to them that indicates intelligence.

[Whiteboy16 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Whiteboy16]

Realistically speaking, it is insane to think all of the bigger guys on here have to always shut there mouth and live in shame because of their stats.

LOL, calm down man. No one said you, or anyone else should 'live in shame because of your stats.' I think you know I wasn't trying to say this... but really I can only hope. I was simply pointing out the irony of your post, an irony you claimed to be aware of. No need to be defensive. I meant no offence.

[Jm123 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jm123]

LOL, calm down man. No one said you, or anyone else should 'live in shame because of your stats.' I think you know I wasn't trying to say this... but really I can only hope. I was simply pointing out the irony of your post, an irony you claimed to be aware of. No need to be defensive. I meant no offence.

Sorry, that was not really directed at you, it was meant in the direction of the anti-big stat people. I was using what you had said as a talking point. Stick around long enough and you will see how upset some of the members get when big stats are stated.

(more talking points)
Now granted they usually are right that the person is looking for attention or complements (directly or indirectly). Nevertheless, there are some legitimate occasions/threads where stats should/could be posted.

Lastly, any member should be able to state their stats and not be attacked. However, I personally, and I believe most PE'ers take offence when it is done to elevate said individual's ego at the expense of another's mental health.