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Majority of you know how I feel about my penis and it's not good. I took a few months away to try to think positive about my penis and it's just not happening at all. I see the pics on this site and everyone looks 10 times bigger then me. I feel like I'm failing as a man feeling like I'm failing at everything and my confidence is shot!! I don't know what to do I'm gonna apologizing by complaining on here but, I don't have anyone to talk about my problem and feeling about having a pathetic penis soft and hard.
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You shouldn't feel bad about your penis no matter what. period.
Your penis and regardless of its real or perceived size is good, and has been providing you and/or your partner with pleasure for so long.
And comparing its size to those of others is not the right thing to do, besides, your profile stats say you have 7", how come is that not big and you say failure, IMO and sorry for being a brute, the only thing you fail at is noticing that you already have a big penis (not that having a big one should matter anyways), I won't be the only one (male or female) to tell you this, and I'm sure we are correct about it, ITS ALL IN YOUR MIND, members here and men everywhere are having great time with themselves and their partners sporting sizes much smaller than yours, and they don't give two ****s about it, so please do yourself a favor, and rethink it until you realize the truth, you have a big penis.
You say everybody seems to be 10 times bigger than you, but according to this
https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/558...ize-chart.html this http://www.mraverage.com/results.htm and this https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/616...tml#post704070
http://www.petoolbox.com/percentile/ you cant be correct.
Actually, Donjelqer's calculator puts you in the 94th percentile.
Instead of comparing it to pictures, why not check the studies published here, and members comments, and most importantly, know how to use it well, because with great size comes great responsibility.Last edited by MrB8; 11-20-2013, 07:10 PM.A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it -
Listen to mrb8 everything he says is true but i have to add something. Most people who post pics on here are usually guys who feel they have something worth showing im 7x5.5 and i feel like im pretty damn big.. i mean not the biggest but im big
and it makes me feel warm and cozy on the inside and it should for you too.. your size is great relax!
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Your initial length is 7 erect? NBP or BP? I'm assuming NBP so you are a bit above average, and bigger than me, I'm 7 BPEL..
You need to continue PE, I am still very very dissapointed with my god-given dick size, but I'm trying to change that...since you already are a senior member of this site, you should put your time to better use than complain about it here, that's not gonna get you anywhere...Comment
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Change your Bio dude..
That's the wrong way to look at Pe.
Listen to these guys, you're fine.start: aug 1 2013
bpel: 6.9..7.1..7.2..8.5
Nbpel: 6..6.2..6.4..8
Mseg: 5..5..6.5
Flaccid: 4..4..6
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Yeah man, 7 inches is not even close to small and pathetic...in fact you are probably insulting others on here.Started: 7 x 5
Current: 8 inches x 6.25 inches (whole shaft)
Goal 8.5 x 6.5
Pics. https://www.pegym.com/forums/members...8-56-46-1.htmlComment
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Vikingman, what the hell!? You have a 7" shlong and you are complaining?! There are ALOT of men out there that would more than willing to trade. You should be confident in what you have. CARPE DIEM!Start:
11-12-13
BPEL: 6.5 in.
EG: 4.65 in.
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Goal:
~Soon enough~
BPEL: 8 in.
EG: 6 in.
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Stay tuned for monthly updates!Comment
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pictures make everyone's unit look bigger because its usually closest to the lens. How are you doing in life, in general. Are you sure your penis is the problem. I'll reiterate what everyone else said. 7" aint small. Well above average actually. And if that's 7" non bone pressed then you got to be kidding meComment
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I'm sorry everyone for complaining really am I feel like here was the place to vent. I have to find away to change my ways and not like me thinking my penis is too small or not good enough to affect my life anymore. Thanks everyone for telling me my size is good and telling me to relax. Hopefully this will and I'm in the process of losing weight so I'm hoping that will help BIG time!!Comment
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It seems that's your only hope for a change of perception. I do understand how you feel with a thick fat pad hiding all the length. But you must understand it is big/ well above average. You have to come out of your comfort zone, and do the things that scare you.
There is an extreme moto x rider by the name of Travis Pastrana, he is absolutly crazy in his day to day life. He takes huge risks and puts it all on the line. The reason he is this way is because he has night terrors, so he faces his fear head on every day to try and take his life back from fear. You must do the same, quit finding reasons not to do something and do it. Only then can you be free of your self doubts. I can honestly tell you it feels great to beat your fear ans succeed in something you wouldn't ever try.
You can do it!:peace::hippie::rockon::music:Comment
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Buddy, Everyone knows that 7" is not small. It is well above average, lets just make that clear. Pics can be hard to determine when they are close up. Feel free to check out mine, I'm 6.5" bone pressed (for Now), 1/2" smaller than you claim and I wouldnt say I am pathetic, not as big as I would like but not pathetic. You should post some measurement pics of your size to be clear once and go from there. Track results and have fun with it. There is no way that having a 7" cock is the sole reason for your woes. How is life in general? Job, relationship, health, social life, etc. I think if you focus on healthy eating habits and an exercise routine to lose the extra weight the terrible self image you have of yourself will go away. Dont be so hard on yourself and try to start focusing on all the positive things you can do to make yourself feel and look the best you can be. Best of luck to you vikingAs of 11/11/14
BPEL- 6.5" x 4.6"
Short Term Goal
BPEL- 7" x 5"
Long Term Goal
8" x 6"Comment
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I encourage you to make conscious decisions about what is a reasonable thought and what isn't. For example, years ago, I used to set myself up for feeling awful about myself. I would do something like drop a fork on the ground when I was in a hurry, eating abruptly, or I would forget where my keys were and I would tell myself, "Jeez, you are an idiot." You have probably even done that yourself. Hell, I would go as far to say, "you aren't attractive enough to get that kind of girl." Or something of like. NO MORE!!
Consider the gravity of the situation. Is it really true that I am an idiot for dropping a fork, or forgetting where I set my keys? Hell no! That something that EVERYONE does.
Thus, what I did was every time those self-esteem destroying thoughts would creep into my head, I would shake my head "no" and literally tell myself that it is okay to make mistakes.
What I encourage you to do is ask yourself if it is reasonable to think that your penis is "pathetic." The answer under ANY circumstance, is a resounding NO! NO it is not reasonable to think that.
Rather than think of the things you can't do (like compete with a horse in a dick measuring contest), think of the things you can do like increase EQ by performing kegels daily, increase vascularity by working out regularly and performing jelqs.
My motto has always been if you don't like something then change it; if you can't change it then get away from it; if you can't get a way from it, then change your perception of it. This is a classic example of change it (as in get your butt motivated to enlarge your dick; you can do it and millions of people have) and while you are changing it, change the way you think about it. Be thankful you have a healthy penis. Be thankful that you have found this site. Not necessarily thankful for the community itself, but thankful that you happen to find such a place that did not exist 20 years ago. Hell, think about that. Humans have had body image issues forever, and it is only recently that we were able to visit online forums anonymously to seek others with the same issues.
Seriously, you are in good company here. And we are glad you came!Comment
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Stole this from L4M38083d1385005532-pics-your-favorite-random-things-34.jpg:peace::hippie::rockon::music:Comment
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Nice gaaaainnnnsss dude.Originally posted by Glamissand1 View Post
start: aug 1 2013
bpel: 6.9..7.1..7.2..8.5
Nbpel: 6..6.2..6.4..8
Mseg: 5..5..6.5
Flaccid: 4..4..6
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You have a good size. What's your Girth?Originally posted by Vikingman View Post
And your penis should have nothing to do with how you feel about yourself..
Getting into shape is definitely a plus, but mainly for health.
If you want to feel good, Get healthy.
Healthy eating habits, exercise, healthy thoughts, healthy lifestyle, surround yourself in a healthy environment, etc.
Have a healthy heart and a healthy mind..
And yes, you came to the right place to vent...much better than channeling it on somebody or something like that.start: aug 1 2013
bpel: 6.9..7.1..7.2..8.5
Nbpel: 6..6.2..6.4..8
Mseg: 5..5..6.5
Flaccid: 4..4..6
his mother was a mudder..Comment
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