Should I be harder, and how?

[Klaxton Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Klaxton]

I recently started PE along with watching absolutely no porn and no masturbating. The problem is when it comes to Jelqing I can't get hard so to speak, trust me my penis fills with blood and swells but it reaches giant flaccid hang mode at best... Now I'm not going to start watching porn to get it up or masturbate because I'll go astray from my objective. Its not exactly soft but not hard either, more of a 5-6 / 10... A peeled banana swinging between my legs sort of level?

So should I be harder whilst Jelqing or is this fine, is this bad but I should keep it up as it will improve over the coming weeks, Thoughts?

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Try not to jelq erect to begin with, it's intense and can lead to injury, best to wait for erection to subside a bit before continuing jelqing.

I have this problem too but I seem to get it with stretching/kegeling too, it can be a bit of a pain, but I shouldn't really complain about being horny a lot and getting aroused easy, there may come a time when I wished I could get so easily aroused.

[Klaxton Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Klaxton]

That's the point though, it's not erect so to speak and I struggle to get aroused on demand. But considering you're saying to not jelq erect and wait for it to subside, I take it that means the level I'm currently at is probably best considering it's more of a swelled up flaccid hang than erect.

Thank you for the advice as well.

[rbi99 Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close rbi99]

The perfect level for me is when my unit just starts to rise, but is still very pliable in all directions and is easily squeezable. This should help if you haven't read it yet: https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...n-updated.html .

[Klaxton Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Klaxton]

The perfect level for me is when my unit just starts to rise, but is still very pliable in all directions and is easily squeezable. This should help if you haven't read it yet: https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...n-updated.html .

Thanks man I'd checked that before but thought it was 70%-80% from some reason? Looks like I'm fine with the level I reach, but given I'm abstaining from both porn and masturbation as soon as my drive is back to normal I may struggle keeping it down ha!

Thank you both for the help.

[secretshine Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close secretshine]

klaxton, any of the 5 G's? you sound like you're in a good place. no porn is great cause it will focus you on the stimulation you do receive. If you can find a ginseng COMPLEX pill, with panax, american and asian (I think), that's the best place to start. pills seem to run through better than drinking ginseng tea, which makes me pee like a firehose, lol. Ginseng, green tea, ginger pills. L-arginine is awesome as it does the same stuff that viagra and other things do from what I've read. ginko perks up your brain, where erections come from! whew, lastly, any good prostate stuff is always....good, since that's right in the same region, saw palmetto is great for that. you'll feel more tingly down there and will have moments of thinking of something or someone and feeling a rise! that's an old feeling for me that I'm happy to have back now and then. good luck