Porn and Edging

[devdevy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close devdevy]

I recently gave up porn and I know about the issues it can cause but wouldn't' it be better to edge/beat off to porn to control your ejaculation? You'll be horny during actual sex and isn't edging supposed to help with precum n lasting longer and prepare you for real sex? It just makes sense to me to try and stimulate yourself as much as possible during edging while trying not to bust too fast.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

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[bolkonsky Banned Find all posts View Profile Close bolkonsky]

first i really respect the guys that quite porn... i quite it for years. I can see that it has the potential to damage a persons psyche.... But in my case it doesnt do that. I think it also has the potential to help people who have the smarts to use it properly...

I edge to pornography. i rarely but sometimes ejaculate to it. I use it as a tool. If you rely on it then it can be a bad thing... but if your going through a dry spell with pussy than its a great thing. If you are looking to boost your sex drive than its a great thing..

I think its all in how you view it and use it. Dont become a slave to your desires. own them and use them for your benefit.

[seanyboy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close seanyboy]

I recently gave up porn and I know about the issues it can cause but wouldn't' it be better to edge/beat off to porn to control your ejaculation? You'll be horny during actual sex and isn't edging supposed to help with precum n lasting longer and prepare you for real sex? It just makes sense to me to try and stimulate yourself as much as possible during edging while trying not to bust too fast.

Do you NEED hardcore porn?

I ask because I can do it just watching a hot girl talking on video fully clothed. That might in and of itself be bad (only because I occasionally do need it), but may not be as bad as hardcore stuff.

[danimal1211 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close danimal1211]

I always fantasize when I masturbate. I can masturbate without any pictures or videos, just an image in my memory to go off of. But sometimes seeing a naked girl that fits the description of my fantasy helps if that isn't working. I'm never just staring at the screen just looking down every once in a while to keep the image fresh. Hardcore scenes can add a spice when the fantasies become over used. I don't like all the screaming and moaning but the actual sounds of sex (skin slapping, sucking etc.) also help with visualization. I almost want to just make a sound reel to play in the back round but that's more work than I'm really willing to put in.

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

Using your imagination is a great way to edge. If you have a girl (or guy) that knows what you are doing and is supportive, you can have her (or him) help you edge. Either by giving you visual stimulation or physical stimulation.

I love helping my hubby edge. I get a show and it's a win win for both of us. =)

[PurpleOnes Senior Member Member of the Month June 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close PurpleOnes]

I have quit porn and been off it for months.

The edging is quite tricky for me due to not being able to fantasize that well.

I'm working on it though

I would say just use your imagination or non porn picture but if you use porn first of all it will not be that healthy mentally and you can get too aroused which might actually ruin your edging session and you will speed up your strokes.

[danimal1211 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close danimal1211]

Us older guys that never had the internet in our adolescence are fortunate enough to have been forced to use our imagination to learn to masturbate. Learning to visualize your fantasies is probably more difficult after having such easy access to instant stimulation. I either masturbate to a sexual scenario that actually happened or one I imagine would have happened if I would have hooked up with that particular girl. Some are strong enough that they are my kind of go to's if what I initially was doing wasn't working. But I try not to overuse any of them.

Try to close your eyes, relax and visualize the scenario as it did/or would have played out. In my fantasies there are usually things that the girl did that surprised me and made me that much more aroused. I don't just think of the actual sex but all the arousing things that happened then. The sex itself is really just the filler material to get from moment to moment. Example to follow.

[PurpleOnes Senior Member Member of the Month June 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close PurpleOnes]

Us older guys that never had the internet in our adolescence are fortunate enough to have been forced to use our imagination to learn to masturbate. Learning to visualize your fantasies is probably more difficult after having such easy access to instant stimulation. I either masturbate to a sexual scenario that actually happened or one I imagine would have happened if I would have hooked up with that particular girl. Some are strong enough that they are my kind of go to's if what I initially was doing wasn't working. But I try not to overuse any of them.

Try to close your eyes, relax and visualize the scenario as it did/or would have played out. In my fantasies there are usually things that the girl did that surprised me and made me that much more aroused. I don't just think of the actual sex but all the arousing things that happened then. The sex itself is really just the filler material to get from moment to moment. Example to follow.

I think I should personally work on the fantasizing aspect first before getting into edging.

When I'm able to get full erections just from imagining then I can start edging since it is my main problem with edging to maintain an erection during edging without any pictures.

[danimal1211 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close danimal1211]

I was at a good friend's house drinking. Chris and his wife Misty lived in base housing at the time so it was the three of us, their next door neighbor Sherry and another girl from work Pam (all names changed to protect the innocent). I had met Sherry once before, although she was skinnier than I usually found attractive, she was very open about sex and seemed to want to talk about nothing else. That's what intrigued me so much about her. We all drank too much and I could sense my window closing as she sometimes seemed interested in me, but at this late hour she only seemed to want to sit up and talk with my Misty. Having worked all day and drank all night I was tired and asked if I could stay in one of the spare rooms. Pam asked the same.

Having no kids there were two extra rooms in their house. Chris came upstairs with us and set out pillows and blankets for each of us. I went to the bathroom and as I came out, Pam was closing her door. We made eye contact immediately and she left the door cracked. I went in my room and waited to hear Chris go back outside where Misty and Sherry were.

Moment #1: This was a bold move for me but I said F** it and went into Pam's room. The lights were off but as I opened the door she was already naked and looking right at me. I closed the door and went over and laid in bed next to her. She immediately rolled over on top of me. We began kissing aggressively and within a few seconds she hand my pants unbuttoned and her hand down my boxers. I had an instant erection. She pulled my pants down around my thighs and went down on me. I always imagine this part of the fantasy first as its a good way to kickstart things.

Moment #2 : After me being on top for a few minutes, we pause and kiss. She then says "roll over." She stands up over me and squats down and re inserts my dick. Feet on the bed she starts riding me hard. She's taking care to not make much vocal noise but she's moaning quietly. She then gets down to her knees and begins rolling her hips instead of bobbing up and down. Then she starts doing both motions.

Moment #3 : After several minutes, she comes down one final time deep and hard. She lays her head down on my shoulder grinding subtly and breathing hard. Without saying a word she slides down and begins sucking me again. She pauses and says " cum in my mouth" This aroused me so much it only took a few more seconds and I did. I find myself repeating this part of the fantasy several times until I reach orgasm.

[PurpleOnes Senior Member Member of the Month June 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close PurpleOnes]

I was at a good friend's house drinking. Chris and his wife Misty lived in base housing at the time so it was the three of us, their next door neighbor Sherry and another girl from work Pam (all names changed to protect the innocent). I had met Sherry once before, although she was skinnier than I usually found attractive, she was very open about sex and seemed to want to talk about nothing else. That's what intrigued me so much about her. We all drank too much and I could sense my window closing as she sometimes seemed interested in me, but at this late hour she only seemed to want to sit up and talk with my Misty. Having worked all day and drank all night I was tired and asked if I could stay in one of the spare rooms. Pam asked the same.

Having no kids there were two extra rooms in their house. Chris came upstairs with us and set out pillows and blankets for each of us. I went to the bathroom and as I came out, Pam was closing her door. We made eye contact immediately and she left the door cracked. I went in my room and waited to hear Chris go back outside where Misty and Sherry were.

Moment #1: This was a bold move for me but I said F** it and went into Pam's room. The lights were off but as I opened the door she was already naked and looking right at me. I closed the door and went over and laid in bed next to her. She immediately rolled over on top of me. We began kissing aggressively and within a few seconds she hand my pants unbuttoned and her hand down my boxers. I had an instant erection. She pulled my pants down around my thighs and went down on me. I always imagine this part of the fantasy first as its a good way to kickstart things.

Moment #2 : After me being on top for a few minutes, we pause and kiss. She then says "roll over." She stands up over me and squats down and re inserts my dick. Feet on the bed she starts riding me hard. She's taking care to not make much vocal noise but she's moaning quietly. She then gets down to her knees and begins rolling her hips instead of bobbing up and down. Then she starts doing both motions.

Moment #3 : After several minutes, she comes down one final time deep and hard. She lays her head down on my shoulder grinding subtly and breathing hard. Without saying a word she slides down and begins sucking me again. She pauses and says " cum in my mouth" This aroused me so much it only took a few more seconds and I did. I find myself repeating this part of the fantasy several times until I reach orgasm.

Thank you for the story but I only got a semi erection from it

[danimal1211 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close danimal1211]

lol, it was more of an example of what I imagine to hopefully help someone learn to fantasize more clearly.

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