Controlling The Spasms During Ejaculation

[devdevy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close devdevy]

This might be a little hard to explain. It was even difficult trying to word a title that made sense.
Anyways, from watching porn, I've noticed a few scenes where when it's time to for the cumshot, the guy will stroke a couple times and a spurt of cum will shoot out and then he'll stroke again and another spurt shoots out as opposed to it all coming out at one time which is how it is with me and how i thought it was for every man.

Basically, i guess he was controlling his penis spasms during ejaculation? Hopefully i described it well enough for you to understand, but, what i wanted to know is how do you do that? Is this something natural and that's just how some guys cum or do they do some type of exercise that can allow you to do that? Can you control the spasms you have when cumming?

BTW, I know porn is bad for me and all that stuff so please dont reply saying "You shouldn't be watching porn", "dont compare yourself", "it's fake", etc. Hehe. THANKS!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Umm it is common to continue stimulation during orgasm.

[devdevy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close devdevy]

Umm it is common to continue stimulation during orgasm.

lol i dont think you understand. See, it's hard to explain. Its like once you reach that PONR and cant stop it, and start cumming, it all oozes/shoots out after a couple of spasms without any pauses, right? Well, this guy shot out like a line of semen first and it stopped for like 2 seconds, then shot another line out and it stopped coming out again for another sec or two and so on a couple more times. Hope that is detailed enough. If not, idk maybe i need to link a video...

[Sequoia Tree Senior Member Member of the Month July 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Sequoia Tree]

Hope that is detailed enough. If not, idk maybe i need to link a video...

Don't link a video, lol. The guy is likely just kegeling to extend the ejaculation.

[BigStick4Pleasure Member Find all posts View Profile Close BigStick4Pleasure]

I think in some cases it is that men spasm at different rates, while other times it could be what you suspect that they are flexing the pelvic muscles in sync with their involuntary spasms.

Then there is that small set of men who can voluntarily control their ejaculations and are able to orgasm without ejaculating. Those who have that kind of control can probably do what you are witnessing too, and space out their spurts to a slower rate than is typical.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Hmm I suppose you could do this to get a more "spurting" style ejaculation.

I can do this ,it is not so hard you just use a kegel to slow down the spasm.

[BigStick4Pleasure Member Find all posts View Profile Close BigStick4Pleasure]

Hmm I suppose you could do this to get a more "spurting" style ejaculation.

I can do this ,it is not so hard you just use a kegel to slow down the spasm.

Yes that is what I was touching on. Back when my ejaculations were more forceful and copious (ahhh, I miss my 20's), when I would pass the point of no return I would initially hold back from ejaculating, as long as I could while still some muscles inside could be felt pulsating, like priming a pump. Then once I reached that point where the fluids were going to start coming out no matter what, I would time the first big involuntary contraction with a very strong BC muscle flex, and it would make my cum shoot very far most times. I could get my cock to squirt from 3 to 5 big shots that way, whereas normally I don't shoot at all, my urethral opening is very large and my cum usually just gushes out in waves.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Yes that is what I was touching on. Back when my ejaculations were more forceful and copious (ahhh, I miss my 20's), when I would pass the point of no return I would initially hold back from ejaculating, as long as I could while still some muscles inside could be felt pulsating, like priming a pump. Then once I reached that point where the fluids were going to start coming out no matter what, I would time the first big involuntary contraction with a very strong BC muscle flex, and it would make my cum shoot very far most times. I could get my cock to squirt from 3 to 5 big shots that way, whereas normally I don't shoot at all, my urethral opening is very large and my cum usually just gushes out in waves.

Yes a kegel hold followed by a rk release.

[Inneedofgirth Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Inneedofgirth]

Well... Hard to explain this... But i have learned myself to not flex, and by that i avoid hard involuntary contractions.