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[wishToDo Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wishToDo]

Hi Everybody.

nice place indeed!

so, i am new here and would like to share where i am now in regard to mmo and how i got here, and some questions..

i became a premature ejaculator like many, i guess.
it happened once, kicked myself for it.. happened again, kicked myself again and got a snowball rolling that led to much anxiety around the issue..
that, together with zero information about sex and no one to talk to.. well, i ended of ejaculating as i penetrated... repeatedly... very humiliating and frustrating..

at some point i decided to give it a break and stayed away from relationships for about two years.
i matured some and at some point felt that i am ready to get back in the "game"..

i started reading and researching and talking to people and had a sort of sexual liberation from my own imposed screwed up mind...

after a lot of kegeling, relaxing, not allowing any negativity to connect to sex and finding a very patient girlfriend - for the past 7 years,
i can now last as long as i want and premature ejaculation is a thing of the past.

i have been trying to get DO on and of for a few years now, with no success.
very glad to have found this place.

so, i have this question about ponr and DO.

1) ejaculation is divided, basically, into two parts: emission and expulsion, right?
ponr - is that somewhere in the emission part or is it at the end of the emission and just before the expulsion?

2) i find that when i start to feel the emission part, i can let it grow for a while and stop at any point and it will subside.
so if i try and kegel anywhere in the emission part i will only stop the orgasm process, unless maybe if i continue stimulation very hard...
not sure what the question here is... maybe someone can clarify when to kegel in order to DO, in terms of emission and expulsion terms..

anyway, thanks a lot for whats going on here.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Yes the timing is hard ,if you kegel early you can stop orgasm, if you kegel late you get partial or full ejaculatio or retro . So timing is critical

[pe_mystic Member Find all posts View Profile Close pe_mystic]

Peg, when should we kegel then?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

At the right time . In the immediate lead up to orgasm , Minuteman goes into more detail in his guide but in the end experience is the best teacher.