Jack off bud?

[apis_noctvrnae Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close apis_noctvrnae]

Have you ever had or do you currently have a jack off buddy and are straight?

Note: This does not apply to swingers. This is geared more towards a man who bonds with a close "intimate" friend/s via mutual masturbation or via masturbation in the presence of each other (as opposed to bonding via drinking alcohol, hunting, fishing, etc).

[foreskin21 Member Find all posts View Profile Close foreskin21]

I have done this. My friend and I have jacked off in the same room to the same porn film. Both of our cocks were out and we both saw each others cocks. Nothing sexual about it towards each other, other than seeing another guys dick. NO different than watching a porn and watching a guy fuck the chick. A dick is a dick is how I see it.

[schlittle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close schlittle]

Have you ever had or do you currently have a jack off buddy and are straight?

Note: This does not apply to swingers. This is geared more towards a man who bonds with a close "intimate" friend/s via mutual masturbation or via masturbation in the presence of each other (as opposed to bonding via drinking alcohol, hunting, fishing, etc).

So if understand you correctly, you have a fishing trip planned with a friend but when the weather is terrible outside you will instead stay inside and mutually masturbate each other (even though you are both straight)?

[apis_noctvrnae Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close apis_noctvrnae]

So if understand you correctly, you have a fishing trip planned with a friend but when the weather is terrible outside you will instead stay inside and mutually masturbate each other (even though you are both straight)?

--> ... LMAO!! Well, sort of. HAHA!! There are men out there who don't define their orientation based on what they do with their peckers but rather what they feel in their heart. I've known lots of straight guys who would circle jerk, jerk while watching porn with another guy, and at times, jerk each other. I am curious as to how common that is amongst men looking to enlarge their peckers.

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

This should be called the broke back mountain poll. Lol

[apis_noctvrnae Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close apis_noctvrnae]

This should be called the broke back mountain poll. Lol

LMAO!! C'mon! This is a serious question! I don't see Heath or Jake here taking a plunge! LoL!!

[Cya at 8 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cya at 8]

Newsflash: You are NOT straight if you are jacking off another man, even with a girlfriend.. You just haven't come to terms with being Bi-Sexual.

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

LMAO!! C'mon! This is a serious question! I don't see Heath or Jake here taking a plunge! LoL!!

Sorry. Shittle's fishing scenario made me think of that.

[apis_noctvrnae Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close apis_noctvrnae]

Newsflash: You are NOT straight if you are jacking off another man, even with a girlfriend.. You just haven't come to terms with being Bi-Sexual.

CYA, that's what many guys say, but I wouldn't know because I'm not in those "bisexuals'" shoes. Sexuality, as I've studied it, isn't always cut and dry, black and white, gay-bi-straight. There's a lot of mix and matches.

[apis_noctvrnae Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close apis_noctvrnae]

Sorry. Shittle's fishing scenario made me think of that.

Hahaha!! Yeah!!

[Brenok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Brenok]

Newsflash: You are NOT straight if you are jacking off another man, even with a girlfriend.. You just haven't come to terms with being Bi-Sexual.

That was my first reaction, but then I thought that homosexuality is defined by sexual attraction, which isn't completely necessary in that scenario. Regardless, my answer is no: I do not have a jerk-buddy, nor will I ever.

[apis_noctvrnae Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close apis_noctvrnae]

That was my first reaction, but then I thought that homosexuality is defined by sexual attraction, which isn't completely necessary in that scenario. Regardless, my answer is no: I do not have a jerk-buddy, nor will I ever.

Yes! Exactly! I was of that mentality too but then realized that what you do with your genitals doesn't define always your orientation. For example, an inmate has sex with another man because he's horny. Then, he's released and goes back to his wife never to be with another man again. He's not gay. The act is homosexual in nature but that doesn't mean he is. Vice versa, some gay men have sex with women ONLY because "it" feels so good but don't see women as someone they can "fall in love" with - only men.

[Cya at 8 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cya at 8]

Whatever allows you sleep good at night.. Personally, whatever you want to do with your life is fine by me. I am secure enough in my own straight sexuality . Sexuality isn't what sex you would fall in love with but what sex or sexes you are attracted to.

[apis_noctvrnae Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close apis_noctvrnae]

Whatever makes you sleep good at night..

That...uhm...actually doesn't affect my sleeping patterns..??? Why would it you??? LoL!!

[ryansambas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ryansambas]

I honestly don't know how jacking off with some other guy and at times jacking him/each other off cannot have any homosexual undertones. I've watched/discussed porn with friends, even the actual penis (but only in an anatomical viewpoint such as circumcision) but actually masturbating at the same time is just very strange and I would never do it.