How many Women/Men have you slept with?

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Wonder how many Happy stud's up to, but then it is his hobby. For the rest of us though, if you have more than 2o partners over more than 20 years of being sexually active it is not a big deal.

BB I don't get his reaction either. On the other hand women lie about number of partners, often even to themselves, so there is no point asking them. I mean no disrespect, this is caused by social attitudes to women having large numbers of partners.

[burt Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close burt]

Wonder how many Happy stud's up to, but then it is his hobby. For the rest of us though, if you have more than 2o partners over more than 20 years of being sexually active it is not a big deal.

BB I don't get his reaction either. On the other hand women lie about number of partners, often even to themselves, so there is no point asking them. I mean no disrespect, this is caused by social attitudes to women having large numbers of partners.

There's a saying about women I've always heard....however many men they tell you they've slept with, multiply that by five and you'll be closer to the answer. There still is a double standard when it comes to men and women. If women have slept with lots of men, they might be considered "sluts'' by others or even themselves. I don't think they are, hell, if I was a woman I'd be fucking all the time. But you know how society is. So, that's what they are up against. On a personal note, I think the "experienced" women are sexier because they tend to be more adventurous in bed. Burt

[HotRod Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HotRod]

Question for you guys...
I've been with my boyfriend for a year. He said "Ohhh Im sure you got around..." I said not really, gawd! So I throw out the number of guys I've been with, may be off in either direction by one or two. He says "Oh my god! I cant believe you just said that, I would NEVER tell you the exact number of people I slept with! omg" I was like wtf? What just happen here? He said "leave some mystery" I thought, what the fuck you need mystery in that area for? I dont get his reaction AT ALL. Maybe you guys feel the same and can clarify why he was blown away by me giving an answer? My last bf's always wanted to know the exact number to the point that it was annoying.

I think the rule of thumb is NEVER give precise answers to questions that haven't been asked.

Unless your boyfriend says, "How many other guys have you been with?", don't tell. And even if he does ask, you're better off if you refuse to give precise information. Unless he's your soul mate it's really none of his business....unless you have herpes or HIV-AIDS.

It goes back to the old adage: Don't kiss and tell.

It doesn't really matter why he reacted the way he did. It's probably more complex than even he knows. But just don't reveal details of your sexual past unless you are asked for specifics, and even then it's usually wise to be conservative and maybe even use the saying, "I don't kiss and tell."

My guess? When you gave him the number, it made him feel like he was about as special as every other guy in your memory.

[shane_syndrome Banned Find all posts View Profile Close shane_syndrome]

im 19 and im only at 14 now and i didnt lose it until i was 17 and then my number jumped because i spent a full summer in wasaga beach (a huge tourest/ party beach) when i was 18 and theni went out with a girl and she introduced me to all her friends and I guess girls like to fuck there friends ex boyfriends right after they brake up.

[PEkid Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PEkid]

ive only been with 2 girls...im 23 btw, its not as may as u guys but i am picky when it comes to having sex with girls...i guess i have a somewhat feminine personality in that i want to have sex with somebody until i truly know them and im truly comfortable with them...

[baybabe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close baybabe]

I think the rule of thumb is NEVER give precise answers to questions that haven't been asked.

Unless your boyfriend says, "How many other guys have you been with?", don't tell. And even if he does ask, you're better off if you refuse to give precise information. Unless he's your soul mate it's really none of his business....unless you have herpes or HIV-AIDS.

It goes back to the old adage: Don't kiss and tell.

It doesn't really matter why he reacted the way he did. It's probably more complex than even he knows. But just don't reveal details of your sexual past unless you are asked for specifics, and even then it's usually wise to be conservative and maybe even use the saying, "I don't kiss and tell."

My guess? When you gave him the number, it made him feel like he was about as special as every other guy in your memory.

Yep sounds about right...my bad. Its just that this topic has came up numerous times and he said in the past something like... that I must have been with a large number of guys because of my skills in the bedroom department. I told him no not very many guys, I'm just a fast learner lol. So this time when it came up I figured it was bothering him or he was feeling insecure cause i just went to this big party with my girls. That night I was telling him that I was lucky to have some great work experience because my old bosses took me under there wing, then he says "Oh Im SURE they did" I thought "What? How is this topic sexual?" then he says that Im oblivious to men coming on to me and that my personality is a people pleaser, then he mimics me by saying "Uh huh, sure, what else can I DO FOR YOU?" while he's making motions with his tongue and acting like ME sucking my bosses dick what the hell Mr.ImNotJealous?

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Isabella

[RIB2211 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RIB2211]

Need an option for zero!

[baybabe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close baybabe]

Isabella

What the HELLA?

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

What the HELLA?

I will explain that one some day soon, do you beieve in the paranormal?

[MeatMan Member Find all posts View Profile Close MeatMan]

somewhere between 180 and 200 women. I stopped doing that sort of thing years ago though. 0 men

[baybabe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close baybabe]

I will explain that one some day soon, do you beieve in the paranormal?

I believe that your "Para-Abnormal"

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

I believe that your "Para-Abnormal"

Wow, normal is boring BB. Stop being normal!!!!

[pbnation Member Find all posts View Profile Close pbnation]

No option for zero?

[Lazy 8 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Lazy 8]

I think the rule of thumb is NEVER give precise answers to questions that haven't been asked.

Unless your boyfriend says, "How many other guys have you been with?", don't tell. And even if he does ask, you're better off if you refuse to give precise information. Unless he's your soul mate it's really none of his business....unless you have herpes or HIV-AIDS.

It goes back to the old adage: Don't kiss and tell.

It doesn't really matter why he reacted the way he did. It's probably more complex than even he knows. But just don't reveal details of your sexual past unless you are asked for specifics, and even then it's usually wise to be conservative and maybe even use the saying, "I don't kiss and tell."

My guess? When you gave him the number, it made him feel like he was about as special as every other guy in your memory.

Insightful reply, Hotrod. Thanks for posting it. BTW, I agree with you on all the points you raise.