How many Women/Men have you slept with?

[sekeris Banned Find all posts View Profile Close sekeris]

Not knowing how to talk to women is the thing you should be focusing on. You sound like you could be a little depressed. That's step 1, dealing with that.

I actually don't care much about that now, because I need to work on my premature ejaculation.

But, I have a couple of questions? Is it fear of rejection that stops you from talking to women, or do you just not know how to relate to women? Do you have any sisters?

I don't know what and when to say and to be rejected. But talking just like that with women I have no problem. I don't know how does it matter that I have a sister.

[Zathora_8x5.5 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zathora_8x5.5]

/Zathora-

1. Pegasus is Australian. And older than you.

2. Look up the lyrics to 'down under' by Men at work, you took 'where men plunder' far too seriously. I honestly didn't think there was anybody who hadn't heard that song, especially Australians!

Edit: I'm sure somebody posted a load of the lyrics to down under recently, can't find it now though. I may be wrong but that's how I took it.

i'm sorry Aidan
i didn't mean to get all nasty and stuff, but him being an Australian should know what i'm on about, and not be going against it
should be more like:
"i know where your coming from, we both have different thoughts on the matter, have a nice day mate"
nice and eazy

and i took the word "plunder" straight from the dictionary

[ThinJohnny Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThinJohnny]

I actually don't care much about that now, because I need to work on my premature ejaculation.

I don't know what and when to say and to be rejected. But talking just like that with women I have no problem. I don't know how does it matter that I have a sister.

sekeris, where are you from? I'm sensing rudeness, but I'm willing to chalk it up to limited command of the English language, and possibly depression.

I'll tell you this, if you're going to talk to women the way you're talking to people who are trying to help you, you're going to be tugging on your dick for a long time, by yourself.

I asked about sisters, because I've found that some friends of mine, who grew up without sisters, had trouble understanding women. Not all of them, but some of them. I was just trying to figure out if you are one of those guys.

The fact that you don't have trouble talking to women in general, is good. You probably just have to get over your fear of rejection. Many guys have.

It's hard to give advice on exactly how to talk to women, at least for me. I've seen some good threads on here about it, though. I would read them, but more importantly, practice. Go to a place where nobody knows you, and hit on as many girls as you can, without getting arrested. Repeat that over and over.

That's my advice. Good luck.

[sekeris Banned Find all posts View Profile Close sekeris]

sekeris, where are you from? I'm sensing rudeness, but I'm willing to chalk it up to limited command of the English language, and possibly depression.

I don't want to say from where I am, I'm a bit embarassed about that.

I asked about sisters, because I've found that some friends of mine, who grew up without sisters, had trouble understanding women. Not all of them, but some of them. I was just trying to figure out if you are one of those guys.

I think that would only have good effect if sister was older or the same age. My sister is a lot younger, so it could only help in understanding children.

The fact that you don't have trouble talking to women in general, is good. You probably just have to get over your fear of rejection. Many guys have.

Rejection actually isn't the worst thing that could happen, I could get beaten up by her husband/father/brother etc.

It's hard to give advice on exactly how to talk to women, at least for me. I've seen some good threads on here about it, though. I would read them, but more importantly, practice. Go to a place where nobody knows you, and hit on as many girls as you can, without getting arrested. Repeat that over and over.

Maybe I should look at them. But even if I read them I doubt I will do something. To be honest I actually feel a lot better when I think that I have some problem because of which I don't start anything. I need to get over it, but I don't know how.

[ThinJohnny Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThinJohnny]

I don't want to say from where I am, I'm a bit embarassed about that.

I think that would only have good effect if sister was older or the same age. My sister is a lot younger, so it could only help in understanding children.

Rejection actually isn't the worst thing that could happen, I could get beaten up by her husband/father/brother etc.

Maybe I should look at them. But even if I read them I doubt I will do something. To be honest I actually feel a lot better when I think that I have some problem because of which I don't start anything. I need to get over it, but I don't know how.

I think you should go see a therapist. You sound stuck, and like you're not even looking to get out of it. You're here, though. What brought you to PEGym? You must have been looking to do something about something.

[Samurai Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Samurai]

Thinjohnny, I don't think you can help sekeris because I don't think he wants to be helped. Maybe I'm wrong, but I see a victim/attention seeker in his posts. To a helpful person, dealing with a person like sekeris can be very frustrating because no matter what great advice you give him, he just won't accept it. So, I believe it's best to let him sort it out himself.
Please don't take this post as being rude sekeris. I wish you the best of luck with your premature ejaculation. I hope you become a marathon man in the sack

[sekeris Banned Find all posts View Profile Close sekeris]

I think you should go see a therapist. You sound stuck, and like you're not even looking to get out of it. You're here, though. What brought you to PEGym? You must have been looking to do something about something.

At first I wanted to increase my penis size and thought it will give me more confidence, it probably will and I'm working on that. But then I found out that it's possible to overcome premature ejaculation, at first I thought it's only possible by having sex. So now I'm working on that. That's why I don't want to start anything yet. I want to at least be able to last as long as an ordinary guy.

[sekeris Banned Find all posts View Profile Close sekeris]

Thinjohnny, I don't think you can help sekeris because I don't think he wants to be helped. Maybe I'm wrong, but I see a victim/attention seeker in his posts. To a helpful person, dealing with a person like sekeris can be very frustrating because no matter what great advice you give him, he just won't accept it. So, I believe it's best to let him sort it out himself.
Please don't take this post as being rude sekeris. I wish you the best of luck with your premature ejaculation. I hope you become a marathon man in the sack

Could be right. Though after I have cured my problem and will read these posts they will be of value for me.

[ThinJohnny Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThinJohnny]

Thinjohnny, I don't think you can help sekeris because I don't think he wants to be helped. Maybe I'm wrong, but I see a victim/attention seeker in his posts. To a helpful person, dealing with a person like sekeris can be very frustrating because no matter what great advice you give him, he just won't accept it. So, I believe it's best to let him sort it out himself.
Please don't take this post as being rude sekeris. I wish you the best of luck with your premature ejaculation. I hope you become a marathon man in the sack

Samurai, I'm afraid you might be right. sekeris, I hope he isn't. There are many people here who are willing to help others who are willing to help themselves, and who are appreciative of the help people offer.

I really think you should see a therapist and then seek help from people here, when you are ready. If you're not a troll, that is, which I am beginning to seriously suspect.

[mechanicJT Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mechanicJT]

I haven't read all your posts zathura but I want to clear some things up. I do not want to cause any more tension so there is no need to respond to this.
I was definitely not calling you gay. That line was a jest based on a song lyric. It does refer to Australia as the land down under. It in no way meant plunder in a derogatory way about "dominating" women. I can see how it could sound like that. Where I am from the land down under is still common terminology.
I commented because I thought saying what you said was insulting to many members, and many people I personally know. I don't support or spend time with anyone who disrespects women. But sex between two consenting adults is just that and nothing more. I personally found I prefer only one long term partner, but there is nothing wrong with being open sexually with as many or whatever partner you choose.
The other reason I commented was I felt you may have some sexual repression and that is not healthy. Since you have had 10-20 partners as you say that may not be the case. I certainly understand the concern about STD's or a partner being turned off by your past sex life.
Sorry if I caused an argument that wasn't my intention. I was just trying to joke around and have an interesting thread about how many sex partners we have each had.

[Tijor Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Tijor]

Well yes then you are stupid :P LOL
I am in my thirties and i am in the single digits for the number of guys i have slept with...it doesn't mean i am not a sexual person or that I am sexually inexperienced it just means i am sexually selective and one night stands and flings don't work for me..so if you thought i was bullshitting you or lying about my numbers You would be wrong...If you stopped talking to me because you felt my numbers weren't high enough then it would be your HUGE loss
Also if you judged me based on how many guys i have hangin around online or attention i get then you would jump to the completely wrong conclusion.. because the attention doesn't mean i am fucking them or even taking my clothes off for them in a cyber fun way..it just means they are trying to get that or they are friends .. i know many females who's are older then me who's numbers are low.. partly because they have been in long term relationships on and off through out their adult life

Why such a strong reaction from me ..well partly because i get tired of men not believing me when i say i haven't fucked in the double digits..and confusion it seems to cause... yes i could haven't quite easily but i didn't.. or is that haven't? why is that a bad thing?

I am as honest as misty even if my numbers are not as high...

All I know is that my girl says she's been with 13 guys including me, but she's worked in the music industry and partied like a rockstar for the past 5 years. She's 23, a light skinned black model, with an insane body and legit the best ass, legs and tits I've ever seen so regardless of how nice she is and what her personality is like around me I just call major bullshit. Times it by 3 and then I think we be heading down honesty lane. Don't know why girls feel the need to lie about this

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

Being a virgin is not an option

Or anything between 15 and 20...

[JerzeeGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JerzeeGuy]

4 women (will be 5 next november) since my fiancee and I are "waiting til marriage"... the real question is... How many times have I had sex period? lol That would be a crazy high number. College years were fun.

- D.

[Mr.Curly Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Mr.Curly]

6 total and all WOMEN.I don't swing that way,but i heard patriot fans do!HAHAHA!...J/K.Two white and four asians.But i've turned down maybe 50 other chances.Yes,...some men can resist.I love asian girls and admire them.Just like 'bruce hornsby' said..."my china doll".

[closed056 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed056]

0 total. Im 20 years old. Its not that i haven't had any chances to because i defiantly have, i want to wait untill "The One", i dont necessarily mean wait till marriage, but i want to save it till i know im going to spend the rest of my life with someone as cheesy as that sounds.