Majority of time do you think of your significant other when you masturbate?

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

I don't know to be honest. I feel like sex is a way to satisfy your sexual needs. I can have sex with a girl and feel absolutely nothing.

I find that so very interesting; while I agree that you certainly do not need to be "in love" to have sex, I do think that some kind of emotion must be present otherwise you would simply be a machine. It doesn't have to be the intensity of love but surely there must be some kind of feeling - affection, attraction, friendship, or even just like?

[mojo40 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mojo40]

im a machine lol

[narcolaptic Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close narcolaptic]

when I was 14 years old. I was in love with a girl- I used to think about her to masturbate.
after that I had lots of crush but to masturbate, I used to think my fantasy, like older women, her friend, some women seen on way in negligible exposed position.

[Glamissand1 Senior Member Member of the Month March 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Glamissand1]

Yes, my wife has all the traits that I look for and find sexy. When doing porn searches they all tend to have a look like her. When my video collection was found she was mad at first, but after looking through them she realized the similarities to her.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

Most of the time I think of my wife and i with another couple or just another man or woman. Rarely just the two of us.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

No, I watch porn.