for people who can last long

[b123 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close b123]

When your having sex how aroused are you and what do you think off ?

Can you be as SUPER horney but still last long ?

[Gator Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Gator]

It depends. Sometimes I'm really aroused and sometimes I'm just going through the motions. I hate the latter

With me, I tend to last too long. I struggle to cum from penetration. I usually have to pull out and jerk off for a minute. But a lot of it depends on how long it has been since I've ejaculated. If I haven't had sex or jerked off or ejaculating for 4-5 days, things speed up a bit and I reach climax a little quicker.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

You can manage how long you last a couple of different ways. By thinking un-sexy thoughts you can decrease your EQ and put off ejaculation but that sort of spoils the fun doesn't it?
You can achieve roughly the same effect by doing reverse kegels. (I personally am not very good at this.)
At the other end of the spectrum is to learn how to DO and become multiple orgasmic. (My objective.)

[Cleave Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cleave]

I'm definitely with Pirate on this one (hence why I'm a member of the group) but I am a little hesitant to try the reverse kegeling thing... feel like it might end poorly if you catch my drift...

[RyboT Banned Find all posts View Profile Close RyboT]

Reverse kegels is great advice. try and detach yourself from your penis by pushing out as if trying to pee. This helps me to desensitize so I can last longer!

[doupdoupdoup Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close doupdoupdoup]

I think it matters where I focus on my body, and the environment. Emotional control and maturity is important. I think a nice way to learn is to know what type of feeling and what region will cause orgasm very fast, and then stop that feeling from arousing and stop energy from going to those regions, usually the dog will pull on the rope so you will wont be able to curb erection but you can still stop it from digging up flowers.

[Closed039 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Closed039]

If i'm drunk its the worst. I become horny as all fuck and yet my dick becomes desensitized usually around the 6-8 beer mark. I've literally fucked a girl for 45 minutes without even coming close to ejaculating - not to say it didnt feel good. But thats why if i'm going out and I know i'm getting laid i keep it to under a 6 pack.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

Reverse kegels is great advice. try and detach yourself from your penis by pushing out as if trying to pee. This helps me to desensitize so I can last longer!

Welcome to the Gym RyboT!

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

I think it matters where I focus on my body, and the environment. Emotional control and maturity is important. I think a nice way to learn is to know what type of feeling and what region will cause orgasm very fast, and then stop that feeling from arousing and stop energy from going to those regions, usually the dog will pull on the rope so you will wont be able to curb erection but you can still stop it from digging up flowers.

You have me thinking.
Decades ago, I learned a pain management technique inwhich you move your center of conscousness to the point that feels the pain. As you do so and you "look" for the location of the pain with your mind, the pain dissipates. Sort of like moving closer and closer to a picture until it desolves into pixels and then the gaps between the pixels get larger and larger.
Perhaps a similar technique would allow direct managment of stimulation?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Simply not kegaling ,is a quick way to improve endurance, but mmo is so much more fun.

[kinoki Banned Find all posts View Profile Close kinoki]

I don't think this distraction of thoughts works honestly.

I've tried it countless times. Thinking of fat girls, scare sites like 1man1jar, 2girls1cup, etc. but I've found that distraction really doesn't work for me, so I just try not to think of anything, and just focus on my breathing.

Sometimes, no matter what you're thinking, you just can't ignore the sensation.

"Oh, shit, it feels too good.."

[kinoki Banned Find all posts View Profile Close kinoki]

Oops, this is a thread for people who CAN last long.

Wrong thread. I don't belong here, haha.

I misread it as "people who CAN'T last long"

Now for my embarassing exit. *walk of shame*