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Do the majority of you guys ejaculate every edging session or only every couple sessions? I know some guys recommend that you shouldn't ejaculate every time you edge. Are the benefits from edging without ejaculation really worth it? I try to only ejaculate three times a week, sometimes four, but I never edge without ejaculating.
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I edge without ejaculating. There is a consensus here in the forums that edging without ejaculation is good for gains.
For me it is also about control. I edge and then stop. If I need to ejaculate, I'll do it later, ideally with my wife.
I generally go 5 to 10 edging sessions without ejaculation.03/2015 Start <Able to last ~ 2 mins PIV>
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I believe it's more beneficial for EQ when you don't ejaculate after edging/Ballooning for your desired amount of time. Sometimes as your pushing your limits & hitting that PONR trying to surpass it without stopping stimulation your body will just force you no matter if you want to or not. I recently purchased a new sleeve by Fleshlight called heavenly & that thing is challenging. It takes some discipline to not finish pull your pants up & go about your day. I noticed not Ejaculation keeps me ready for my next PE , Jelqing , Stamina Training session. The gains come faster without ejaculation.Comment
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Do gains really come faster without ejaculation? I have high EQ levels, I probably average at a 9 EQ, while ejaculating every time I edge. My edging sessions are always 25-30 minutes, minimum. I thought that just keeping yourself engorged for a good amount of time was what helped gains come faster. Why would not ejaculating cause gains to speed up? The exercises I do don't require high EQ, so that isn't a concern for me.Comment
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PEGym on their home page has an article if it's still up with A # of men who did Penis Exercises & regularly ejaculated compared to men who were more reserved. I don't ejaculate after Stamina Training because of the Wife . We sometimes get it in during the week but often 2-3 on the weekends. So I like to save the juice for her. It also keeps me excited looking forward to Sex. She knows of my edging/Ballooning training & laugh's at my secret stash of lotions & lube. She only is OK with it because of its end results. I thought she was going to blow her TOP when she found out I had a Fleshlight but she knew Jelqing & Penis Stretching required some things.Originally posted by slunk View Post
I think if you are sexually active try & save the release for your partner , it's more beneficial for you and her. The Penis Enlargement gains somehow worked better for me when I stuck to doing it that way so I just kept doing it.Comment
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My reason for asking this was to see if it helps to last longer during sex if you don't ejaculate every time during edging, I should have made my post more specific, but I appreciate your guys' responses. I assume if not ejaculating has anything to do with helping gains come quicker, it's due to the high EQ you'd have as a result of holding back.Comment
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Yeah you definitely have more random erections throughout the day without ejaculating frequently. More erections could mean greater size gains, but it definitely means more chances of learning what getting an erection feels like and what losing an erection feels like, and those are great skills to have during sex.
slunk specifically to your question, edging without ejaculation is great specifically to break the connection between pleasure and ejaculation. You want to learn how not ejaculate unexpectedly WHILE experiencing the greatest amount of pleasure possible. Your non ejaculatory edging sessions are chances to experience where your current limit of pleasure before ejaculating is and then beat that limit next session. Sometimes you fail. I think you should fail a lot.
I think you'd progress faster if you pushed yourself and edged four times a week, ejaculated 1.5 times a week and never began an edging session thinking you are going to ejaculate that session. Try that for a month and see what happens.Originally posted by slunk View Post
If you are in your early 20's that would be really tough though if you aren't ejaculating also with a partner.Comment
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I believe that it does. To my mind the idea is I am training myself to not ejaculate. By edging without ejaculation I am becoming accustomed to the idea that i do not need to ejaculate to enjoy sex.Originally posted by slunk View Post
I feel it works. Since I have been edging regularly I am able to bring my wife to orgasm without ejaculating. My current ratio is 10/1: she gets ten orgasms for my one. Doesn't always work out, but it sure is fum trying.03/2015 Start <Able to last ~ 2 mins PIV>
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SoftMMOStillPE, I agree that I should learn to separate pleasure and ejaculation, although in a way I have from plateau edging. At this point, I can continuously stimulate myself while at high pleasure levels and not have IKs while doing so. I always choose when I want to ejaculate, sometimes I do unexpectedly cum, but that's rare. Also what do you mean by ejaculate 1.5 times a week? Does that mean aim for once a week, but twice a week occasionally?Comment
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incogneeetoe, so you don't ejaculate every time you have sex? I think that would be impossible for me, haha.Comment
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to practice edging without ejaculation is a tough experience for the male body. I try to exercise 57 partial ejaculations ( without orgasm ) in approx 8 edging sessions ( each max 1,5 hours 7 breaks of 1- 3 hours in between ). the most difficult aspect of this kind of edging is to avoid a full ejaculation . you cannot sleep well at night , when you practice this , because of the huge urge of the male body to ejaculate .Originally posted by slunk View PostComment
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To learn non ejaculatory pleasure I found ballooning to be more beneficial than just edging. The kegel clamping methods are different between these two. And if you learn to balloon well, you can then learn to MMO next. Or at least 1 dry orgasm 1 time maybe before an orgasm leading to ejac... The idea is to separate your point of orgasm from your point of ejaculation. Either way you need a strong kegel, even if it means to relax that muscle for your orgasm, having it strong teaches you also how to control it so you can relax it.. Edging doesn't teach you this so well IMO.Comment
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for the masculine body it is very addicting to experience the sperm fluids moving up the male glans and force the body to stopp . it is a very unsatisfying and addicting practice for the male body.Originally posted by pinkie View PostComment
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Meh.Comment
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