Has anyone tried therapy or surrogacy?

[gettingb Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close gettingb]

Seriously considering it. This problem is making my relationship seriously difficult, we attempt sex probably once every 4 months or even less and I always fuck it up. If this relationship ended I would really struggle getting into another one.

[MrLoverLover Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MrLoverLover]

Surrogacy? So another woman carrying your child? Am I understanding that right? Why are you considering that?

As for therapy and this being the premature ejaculation forum: are you thinking that anxiety plays a major role in your pre e or are you talking about couples therapy?

[gettingb Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close gettingb]

No as in a therapist who you have sex with so you can learn. Surrogate partner.

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

Seems to me that if you current partner would be willing to allow you to go learn to control, would she not be willing to participate herself?

[Kakal Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Kakal]

Why only sex once every 4 months? I think most people would struggle to last long when they're getting it so infrequently.