Gents,
So, I have been lurking here for many years - actually over 10 years. Read plenty of information on penis enlargement and worked on a routine for 3-4 years with hanging, jelking, kegels, etc. Simply stopped the routines because I was happy where I was and it wasn't a priority in my life any longer.
However, this time I'm returning with more troublesome issues, that I would humbly appreciate input, encouragement and some wise words on.
History
I'm 33 years old. When I started my sexual career for real, at 19-20 years of age, I could have sex for hours - literally - and only ejaculate once in the end. I remember meeting girls that were impressed with my stamina. At that point, I took it for granted and wondered if this wasn't the case for all men. At 23, I met my first girlfriend and we had fantastic sex for three years until our relationship ended.
Since 26 years of age, I have not been in a serious relationship, but met with plenty of women along the road - some of which I have had regular sex with for months/years, but also longer periods without any sexual interactions. At some point, and I can't recall exactly when, but think it was around 28 years of age, I started to lose my ability to control my ejaculation. It has worsen over the years and I am now in a position where I can't even control my ejaculation when masturbating. Looking in the mirror - I can't understand how I ended-up here.
The triggering point for signing-up here and properly trying to resolve this problem, was when the super hot chick I'm currently dating since three months, said that this is major problem for her. I'm actually quite devastated, because I like her allot.
Statements and reflections on my problem
- I have always been concerned about not getting an erection when being with women, and consequently been using plenty of viagra, cialis, etc., when having sex. The only girl I did not use pills with, was my girlfriend from age 23-26.
- I struggle with getting and maintaining an erection when being with a woman without using some magic pill.
- I have no issues in getting and maintaining an erection when masturbating on my own.
- I live extremely healthy with workouts 5 days/week.
- I have a quite low confidence in social interactions, but I doubt that people in general see it that way.
- I have been watching porn daily since age 26 - no obsession, but around 30 minutes in the evening. Before 26, I watched more like 3-4 times per week.
- I have recently come to the conclusion that I have tight pelvic floor muscles. I have a bad habit of sucking in my stomach and ass unconsciously. When I have my morning erection, I can literally feel how my pelvic muscles are contracting involuntarily.
Actions taken
- I went to my doctor and explained the situation last week. Took some tests; testosterone, diabetes & creatinine. The latter was slightly high, and additional testing will follow. However, I have understood that people with high muscle mass can have higher values normally, which would be my case. (Side note: I have never used steroids.) The doctor examined my prostate, but found it to be normal. I have now been referred to a urologist, awaiting a date for an appointment.
- Stopped watching porn since one month back.
- Have started a routine with edging for 20-30 minutes 5 days/week, with ejaculation every 3rd time.
- Have purchased a FL, but can't use it without ejaculating within 30 seconds.
- Do 20 minutes of breathing exercises with RKs every evening before bedtime.
All input is as mentioned, much welcome. I will use this thread to update my progress a couple of days per week. I have a date with the super hot chick tomorrow again - so in the next update I will summarize the sex (hopefully )
Thanks for reading
Magie
So, I have been lurking here for many years - actually over 10 years. Read plenty of information on penis enlargement and worked on a routine for 3-4 years with hanging, jelking, kegels, etc. Simply stopped the routines because I was happy where I was and it wasn't a priority in my life any longer.
However, this time I'm returning with more troublesome issues, that I would humbly appreciate input, encouragement and some wise words on.
History
I'm 33 years old. When I started my sexual career for real, at 19-20 years of age, I could have sex for hours - literally - and only ejaculate once in the end. I remember meeting girls that were impressed with my stamina. At that point, I took it for granted and wondered if this wasn't the case for all men. At 23, I met my first girlfriend and we had fantastic sex for three years until our relationship ended.
Since 26 years of age, I have not been in a serious relationship, but met with plenty of women along the road - some of which I have had regular sex with for months/years, but also longer periods without any sexual interactions. At some point, and I can't recall exactly when, but think it was around 28 years of age, I started to lose my ability to control my ejaculation. It has worsen over the years and I am now in a position where I can't even control my ejaculation when masturbating. Looking in the mirror - I can't understand how I ended-up here.
The triggering point for signing-up here and properly trying to resolve this problem, was when the super hot chick I'm currently dating since three months, said that this is major problem for her. I'm actually quite devastated, because I like her allot.
Statements and reflections on my problem
- I have always been concerned about not getting an erection when being with women, and consequently been using plenty of viagra, cialis, etc., when having sex. The only girl I did not use pills with, was my girlfriend from age 23-26.
- I struggle with getting and maintaining an erection when being with a woman without using some magic pill.
- I have no issues in getting and maintaining an erection when masturbating on my own.
- I live extremely healthy with workouts 5 days/week.
- I have a quite low confidence in social interactions, but I doubt that people in general see it that way.
- I have been watching porn daily since age 26 - no obsession, but around 30 minutes in the evening. Before 26, I watched more like 3-4 times per week.
- I have recently come to the conclusion that I have tight pelvic floor muscles. I have a bad habit of sucking in my stomach and ass unconsciously. When I have my morning erection, I can literally feel how my pelvic muscles are contracting involuntarily.
Actions taken
- I went to my doctor and explained the situation last week. Took some tests; testosterone, diabetes & creatinine. The latter was slightly high, and additional testing will follow. However, I have understood that people with high muscle mass can have higher values normally, which would be my case. (Side note: I have never used steroids.) The doctor examined my prostate, but found it to be normal. I have now been referred to a urologist, awaiting a date for an appointment.
- Stopped watching porn since one month back.
- Have started a routine with edging for 20-30 minutes 5 days/week, with ejaculation every 3rd time.
- Have purchased a FL, but can't use it without ejaculating within 30 seconds.
- Do 20 minutes of breathing exercises with RKs every evening before bedtime.
All input is as mentioned, much welcome. I will use this thread to update my progress a couple of days per week. I have a date with the super hot chick tomorrow again - so in the next update I will summarize the sex (hopefully )
Thanks for reading
Magie
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