Hello fellow human beings,
Disclaimer: I am not sure whether this post is adequate for the Pre E forum nor if I am allowed to directly quote from Keesling's book. But I think that her book is rather known and well received by the pegym-community. Hence my context and question:
Context:
On my way to beat Pre E I came across the arousal scale (1-10, You know the drill, I suppose). I registered that I usually skip levels 7-9 and ejaculate pretty fast when masturbating. In order to get to know myself better, I started to do "sensuate touches" which are touches not strokes. Keesling introduces this technique to get to know one owns body. But it is also a technique to arouse yourself. She emphasizes to not stroke your penis. When applying "touches" I usually do not get aroused enough to train my body (I dont get above level 6) but I can reach higher levels easier with strokes and moving my hips (by now moving my hips have become mandatory to climb the scale).
Question:
What do You guys think: is it okay - or even normal - to become more aroused by the stroking motion than "touching" my penis (esp. my glans). Am I failing to meet the goals of "sensuate touching" when my sensuate touches become sensuate strokes? Might I beeven programming my body in a worse way than before?
I am usually using lube when touching and stroking/thrusting.
Sorry in advance for my poor English,
inject
Disclaimer: I am not sure whether this post is adequate for the Pre E forum nor if I am allowed to directly quote from Keesling's book. But I think that her book is rather known and well received by the pegym-community. Hence my context and question:
Context:
On my way to beat Pre E I came across the arousal scale (1-10, You know the drill, I suppose). I registered that I usually skip levels 7-9 and ejaculate pretty fast when masturbating. In order to get to know myself better, I started to do "sensuate touches" which are touches not strokes. Keesling introduces this technique to get to know one owns body. But it is also a technique to arouse yourself. She emphasizes to not stroke your penis. When applying "touches" I usually do not get aroused enough to train my body (I dont get above level 6) but I can reach higher levels easier with strokes and moving my hips (by now moving my hips have become mandatory to climb the scale).
Question:
What do You guys think: is it okay - or even normal - to become more aroused by the stroking motion than "touching" my penis (esp. my glans). Am I failing to meet the goals of "sensuate touching" when my sensuate touches become sensuate strokes? Might I beeven programming my body in a worse way than before?
I am usually using lube when touching and stroking/thrusting.
Sorry in advance for my poor English,
inject
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