pre e progress(?)

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Hey guys. So long story short i've been experiencing pre e on and off. im 23. Anyways now im serious to find a solution to this problem.

I've been practicing masturbating with my hand 3-4 times a week. After few weeks of practice each session lasts about 20-25 min with no porn. No real problems there. Being excited for my progress i decided to buy myself a FL. Well tonight i tried it out, and to my surprise i lasted like 10 strokes. Feeling kinda defeated. My pelvic floor got so incredibly hard to control and i busted in like 30sec. Do you guys have any tips or have you experienced this yourself? How did u get better at it? Any specific technigues you use while edging with FL?

Cheers lads.

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I was even better at edging than you described, at least I was doing longer sessions, before I got my first FL last summer. My experience at first was the same as yours. They really help but it takes time, at least for me it took 2 months to go through that defeated stage FL left me in, like you mentioned. I would guess they are even tighter than real pussy, or maybe all those bumps inside make it feel more intense. I learned that my pre e is more mental than I thought with the FL and I can easily go through many strokes now, plateau edging for at least 3 min is doable and easy.
You'll enjoy them, good choice to buy one. It took me another hole year to convince myself to place the order...
I usually do a light RK when I do my plateau edging with the highest EQ possible btw. That's my technique and I'm not that great at it, I've owned a FL since june 2020.

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thanks for your reply. How long are your sessions now? Have u tried real sex, how does your FL sessions transfer to real sex in terms of time?

I somehow managed to get a solid 10min session in this morning, right after i woke up. I went like 7 min pretty slow and easy and fought off IK's all the time, after that i somehow got used to it i guess and i went legit like 2 strokes a second for 2 minutes. After that i started to thrust like in doggy position and got to so close to PONR but i managed to fight it off and didn't cum! Tbh i feel kinda delighted. I've got a long road ahead but im feeling motivated!

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Umm guys are you read the stickies ?

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Umm guys are you read the stickies ?

yeah, but my question was more regarding the transition between hand and FL, didn’t find direct info on that part.

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thanks for your reply. How long are your sessions now? Have u tried real sex, how does your FL sessions transfer to real sex in terms of time?

I somehow managed to get a solid 10min session in this morning, right after i woke up. I went like 7 min pretty slow and easy and fought off IK's all the time, after that i somehow got used to it i guess and i went legit like 2 strokes a second for 2 minutes. After that i started to thrust like in doggy position and got to so close to PONR but i managed to fight it off and didn't cum! Tbh i feel kinda delighted. I've got a long road ahead but im feeling motivated!

I tried real sex many times.
FWIW, today, I've "mastered" that fleshlight I was mentioning. If 30+ min intense edging, going through it like balls-deep into a girl, counts as "mastered". At least it's a lot better than I started last year.
10min sounds like a lot as well, good for you, you'll get used to it and go longer for sure, I started to get used to it mentally and I can finally keep 110% erections for longer, but I have to switch to light strokes at some point in order to not ejaculate. But it's definitely easier not to ejaculate at 110% now than it was before. I actually feel like I stepped up a bit, but I'll post that in my pre-e progress thread.
I haven't read the stickies in a while actually, I have to get back to reading them again.
I have now seen it took me 2 weeks to post back, sorry.. I should've checked my last posts earlier...

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I tried real sex many times.
FWIW, today, I've "mastered" that fleshlight I was mentioning. If 30+ min intense edging, going through it like balls-deep into a girl, counts as "mastered". At least it's a lot better than I started last year.
10min sounds like a lot as well, good for you, you'll get used to it and go longer for sure, I started to get used to it mentally and I can finally keep 110% erections for longer, but I have to switch to light strokes at some point in order to not ejaculate. But it's definitely easier not to ejaculate at 110% now than it was before. I actually feel like I stepped up a bit, but I'll post that in my pre-e progress thread.
I haven't read the stickies in a while actually, I have to get back to reading them again.
I have now seen it took me 2 weeks to post back, sorry.. I should've checked my last posts earlier...

So how did u do in real sex? Im now edging constantly like 20-25min in the mornings with ok control. Sometimes switch positions and thrusting.
I’m seeing this cute blondie now and i sensed some sexual tension between us so it could lead to sex. Kinda nervous tho...

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I am still pretty bad with sex. I am now thinking it's partly mental and partly PF imbalance type issues for me. I probably need to focus more and more on perfecting my RK contractions while standing a lot. I can have sex for a very longer time laying on my back and not thrusting my pelvis at all.
FWIW, I CAN have sex for maybe 5 min in a row, but that's it for now.

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I am also working on getting hard again faster after orgasm, which seems to be going better now that I have orgasms more often, as opposed to edging for long periods and only maybe a couple of orgasms every 2 weeks.
Edging and only ejaculating with a partner doesn't work too well for me probably because I don't have a serious partner, I mostly only pay prostitutes, my game is weak as hell too.
Good luck with the girl, sounds awesome!