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Accidentally beating preej almost overnight, and then.. hard flaccid?
hey everybody
Here's a little story about how I accidentally beat preej (overnight), but now got a second problem.
I'm young (20) and I always suffered of severe premature ejaculation.
How severe?
I would cum before penetrating, most of the times in my underwear.
It was frustrating, especially since I always had lots of women wanting me. But because of this problem I would turn all them down.
I would rather not fuck instead of going through such embarrasment.
I tried to do something about it in the past, but I have never been consistent. I thought I was destined to live all my life like that.
The only thing I sometimes did was hold a light RK - that didn't improve my situation at all.
Then, about 3 weeks ago, I said "fuck it, I'm gonna beat this and start fucking like a savage"
Beware: few days before I came in my underwear after a girl touching my cock for like 10 seconds.
Since I enjoy reading about hypnosis, subconscious programming, and things like that - I had a breakthroug.
I realized that maybe my problem wasn't physical and it could be solved by reprogramming my brain.
I searched on this forum something about it, and found this very interesting thread: https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...-response.html
I immediately realized I was onto something, and started doing it.
Did three sessions, along with some RK during the day, and immediately my self esteem grew up.
I genuinely believed that was the solution (even tho I didn't had results yet).
Knowing this almost killed my performance anxiety, so I decided to get a new chick and try.
I had zero negative self talk or doubt, I was sure I would last at least 10 mins (something I could never remotely imagine before).
I go for it and... I last over 30 minutes without cumming (while making her cum twice).
Yes, you read it right.
30+ minutes of actual penetration and I didn't even cum. Plus, I felt I could still keep going for quite some time. I had full control. When I would feel my arousal spike up, I'd just pull out for 2 seconds and then back in like nothing happened.
I was the happiest man on this earth.
In the next days I got bj's and handjobs, and I would literally cum on command. When she wanted me to, I'd do it. So it wasn't just a one-time thing.
It was literal heaven, until...
I get to have sex again.
Or at least, I try.
Because, despite me feeling in full control - my cock wasn't hard enough to penetrate. Tried to get a bj to warm things up (something I never imagine I could do before).. but nothing.
The next few days we didn't have sex, but received like 2 bjs per day and - despite I could last for a long time - my EQ was not better.
Now I didn't expect this to happen at all, since I always had rock hard boners.
As soon as I beat a major problem that was ruining my life... I get to fight against another one. But my confidence isn't shattered at all, and I feel I can beat it easily.
After some researches, I thought of:
* keep edging like BiggyD explained (not doing it rn, literally just had those 3 sessions)
* supplementing Zinc
* Starting Minutesman's kegel routine, so do both Kegels (that I never did in my life) and Rk's consistently
* Starting a Penis Enlargement routine (maybe increasing blood flow there would help)
* box breathing everyday to reduce stress
* affirmations for preej, eq and also PE
But before everything, I thought of asking to someone with more experience than me. So what are your thoughts about it?
Thank you all in advance
PS:
I don't watch porn (stopped like a year ago), I don't jerk off and cum (would just edge without cumming like BiggyD said), my diet is almost impeccable, and I train every single day.
Here's a little story about how I accidentally beat preej (overnight), but now got a second problem.
I'm young (20) and I always suffered of severe premature ejaculation.
How severe?
I would cum before penetrating, most of the times in my underwear.
It was frustrating, especially since I always had lots of women wanting me. But because of this problem I would turn all them down.
I would rather not fuck instead of going through such embarrasment.
I tried to do something about it in the past, but I have never been consistent. I thought I was destined to live all my life like that.
The only thing I sometimes did was hold a light RK - that didn't improve my situation at all.
Then, about 3 weeks ago, I said "fuck it, I'm gonna beat this and start fucking like a savage"
Beware: few days before I came in my underwear after a girl touching my cock for like 10 seconds.
Since I enjoy reading about hypnosis, subconscious programming, and things like that - I had a breakthroug.
I realized that maybe my problem wasn't physical and it could be solved by reprogramming my brain.
I searched on this forum something about it, and found this very interesting thread: https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...-response.html
I immediately realized I was onto something, and started doing it.
Did three sessions, along with some RK during the day, and immediately my self esteem grew up.
I genuinely believed that was the solution (even tho I didn't had results yet).
Knowing this almost killed my performance anxiety, so I decided to get a new chick and try.
I had zero negative self talk or doubt, I was sure I would last at least 10 mins (something I could never remotely imagine before).
I go for it and... I last over 30 minutes without cumming (while making her cum twice).
Yes, you read it right.
30+ minutes of actual penetration and I didn't even cum. Plus, I felt I could still keep going for quite some time. I had full control. When I would feel my arousal spike up, I'd just pull out for 2 seconds and then back in like nothing happened.
I was the happiest man on this earth.
In the next days I got bj's and handjobs, and I would literally cum on command. When she wanted me to, I'd do it. So it wasn't just a one-time thing.
It was literal heaven, until...
I get to have sex again.
Or at least, I try.
Because, despite me feeling in full control - my cock wasn't hard enough to penetrate. Tried to get a bj to warm things up (something I never imagine I could do before).. but nothing.
The next few days we didn't have sex, but received like 2 bjs per day and - despite I could last for a long time - my EQ was not better.
Now I didn't expect this to happen at all, since I always had rock hard boners.
As soon as I beat a major problem that was ruining my life... I get to fight against another one. But my confidence isn't shattered at all, and I feel I can beat it easily.
After some researches, I thought of:
* keep edging like BiggyD explained (not doing it rn, literally just had those 3 sessions)
* supplementing Zinc
* Starting Minutesman's kegel routine, so do both Kegels (that I never did in my life) and Rk's consistently
* Starting a Penis Enlargement routine (maybe increasing blood flow there would help)
* box breathing everyday to reduce stress
* affirmations for preej, eq and also PE
But before everything, I thought of asking to someone with more experience than me. So what are your thoughts about it?
Thank you all in advance
PS:
I don't watch porn (stopped like a year ago), I don't jerk off and cum (would just edge without cumming like BiggyD said), my diet is almost impeccable, and I train every single day.
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