The cause of PE in me

[Eire4500 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Eire4500]

i have found what has probably caused premature ejaculation in me all along, turns out it wasnt on me. but on some of the women ive had sex with.
so i came out of a 5 month relationship where we would on average have sex for an hour and i had no problem with PE, she was well in shape and had a nice body
however there was times where she was a bit extra tight and i had to go slow at first, generally it was no problem
then after that i end up with a chubby girl for a weekend, she told me guys rarely last long with her
and, to my surprise neither did i
thinking back, ive only had PE with chubby girls
i believe its because the excess flesh or fat presses harder on your dick when youre inside of her- causing you to cum too fast

sometimes, the issue- is not you.
so i guess im done with chubby girls for life, i adore wide hips but if shes not well in shape its forbidden candy for me.

i must say ive had a lot of help from using poppers/CBD vape oil but the curse of PE has been lifted from me, simply by realizing that it wasnt a me-problem

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

Something kind of similar happened to me. I'd never had PE, except a brief few week stint after a break-up, which I attributed to nerves.

A few years after that and normal sex with other women, I started dating this new woman. She wasn't heavy, rather she was pretty slender. But the first time I entered her, she just felt like pure heaven. I'd had sex with a number of women, but this one felt totally different inside - incredible. It was all I could do to last several minutes. Fortunately, she orgasmed first and I was able to let go without much guilt.

We had sex several more times on different days after that and still the same thing - she felt awesome inside and I'd really have to focus to last with her. I imagine I would have probably gotten used to her and lasted longer later, but we didn't date very long.

It's like the few times I've suffered ED (without excess drinking being the cause!). Those times it was with a woman that was just kind of a turn-off for whatever reason. Although my mind was thinking "let's do this!", Mr Happy just wasn't into her. I'm a complete believer that it takes "two to tango" and that PE and ED can be related to the guy's partner.

[Eire4500 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Eire4500]

im pretty certain that to me looks really dont matter as for premature ejaculation, just had a - in my book 10/10, her whole body was just a complete gem, nice hips and skinny, i had zero problems lasting with her. amazing when you realize the fault isnt on your side. im cured! if your meat isnt doing well try some different woman.