Death grip fix?

[xander19 Member Find all posts View Profile Close xander19]

Hello guys,

I've had my Pre-E log here for a long time but I quit it since I kind of fixed my problem when I saw that even with a FL I can last as long as I want.. fast forward, I'm finally having sex for the first time (with a condom) and I don't feel shit, I lasted as much as I wanted and it was hard to keep an erection on so I blamed it on performance anxiety but now I have sex regularly, I don't feel anxious about it anymore and I still don't feel much and yes I know that condoms kinda make it not feel the same but I don't feel much from oral sex either, I have to force myself to cum, either by kegeling or reverse kegeling and relaxing hard. I think I've developed death grip since I masturbate as fast as I can with a very strong grip, during oral if she uses her hands and grips it hard I found that I can cum a lot faster.

I was wondering if anyone here went through this and found a counter-fix to death-grip? Do I have to masturbate only using light grips and let myself get used to that feeling again? Thank you!

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

I really don't know, but as I was reading through, before getting to the end, I right away thought you'd need to resest and masturbate using light grip or more caressing style.

Maybe even try taking a full break from masturbation for a while?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Hello guys,

I've had my Pre-E log here for a long time but I quit it since I kind of fixed my problem when I saw that even with a FL I can last as long as I want.. fast forward, I'm finally having sex for the first time (with a condom) and I don't feel shit, I lasted as much as I wanted and it was hard to keep an erection on so I blamed it on performance anxiety but now I have sex regularly, I don't feel anxious about it anymore and I still don't feel much and yes I know that condoms kinda make it not feel the same but I don't feel much from oral sex either, I have to force myself to cum, either by kegeling or reverse kegeling and relaxing hard. I think I've developed death grip since I masturbate as fast as I can with a very strong grip, during oral if she uses her hands and grips it hard I found that I can cum a lot faster.

I was wondering if anyone here went through this and found a counter-fix to death-grip? Do I have to masturbate only using light grips and let myself get used to that feeling again? Thank you!

Yes to the light grip

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Perform the "reverse" Stop and Starts to decrease your time to the PONR. The Reverse Stop and Starts is performed using an extremely light grip and attempt to ejaculate as quickly as possible. That should help to reset your sensory threshold.

[TANGO 5/10 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TANGO 5/10]

Death Grip was the total opposite for me. Edging with the death Grip & ejaculating every 4-5 sessions actually made my intercourse stamina go way up. I know 8-12 minutes of intercourse isn't adult film star status but it's all good. 💯 on that one

[tank0909 Senior Member Member of the Month Jan. 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close tank0909]

Use extra lube, as well as the lighter grip. Less friction = getting some sensitivity back = staying aroused. Also, tamer porn (if you use it).