Can I desensitize my penis head naturally?

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Hi guys! I have PE. reverse kegels seem to be working and I just started ballooning also. My penis head has always been too sensitive and large and I believe that is the reason I PE. Will the ballooning help? Whats the best way to ballon for me? I have read that rubbing the head a lot or walking around commando helps but I always go commando for 7-8 years now. Can I desensitize my head somehow? Please help!!! Im 35 years old and I don't care if I desensitize it. I rather last longer and be desensitized than have PE. thanx.

[mrmark Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mrmark]

Are you cut?. I am cut but i had a really sensitive head,the first time i tried to stimulate just the head i came in less than 30seconds it was over before i knew what happened!.But i concentrated on it and in about 2 weeks i could last 20-30 minutes of just stimulating the head with lube because i am cut.You will find when you touch a certain place on the head you will feel your pc muscle flexing involuntarily and what you have to do is be aware of this and relax it and your whole body and you can go as long as you wish.For me the left side of the head about a quarter of the way up was the most sensitive spot,but have patience and practice reguarly and you will get control over a period of weeks.

[blulite Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close blulite]

Are you cut?. I am cut but i had a really sensitive head,the first time i tried to stimulate just the head i came in less than 30seconds it was over before i knew what happened!.But i concentrated on it and in about 2 weeks i could last 20-30 minutes of just stimulating the head with lube because i am cut.You will find when you touch a certain place on the head you will feel your pc muscle flexing involuntarily and what you have to do is be aware of this and relax it and your whole body and you can go as long as you wish.For me the left side of the head about a quarter of the way up was the most sensitive spot,but have patience and practice reguarly and you will get control over a period of weeks.

ive been cut my whole life and still have problems with sensitivity sometimes. even with condoms. i find a few drinks helps before bed. ive not really wanted to use de-sensitising potions as i feel they will ruin the experience for the girl.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

I was looking for something natural without chemicals. Wondering if rubbing it somehow with dry hands or something else? Should I balloon dry or with lube? I heard it's bad to masturbate with dry hands cuz it makes PE worse. Help!!!!

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Just read your post mrmark. Thank you. So i should use lube then. I just noticed and remembered that ive been maturbating for many years without lube and rushing it and watching porn. Also kegeling at the same time. Maybe that's what caused my PE!!!!!

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

PLEASE READ ALL MY POSTS ABOVE FIRST^. I dont know if it's considered ballooning but I just had a great session. I used lube and regular masturbated for 30 min mainly on just the tip. It makes total sense to simulate really crazy wet sex on the most sensitive part of my penis(the head) so that my body and brain gets used to it. Like ballooning, I was reverse kegeling the whole time and I decided not to cum at the end. Is that a good idea to train myself to receive stimulation without ejaculating? I think if I keep doing this, I WILL "BEAT" PE!!!!! I really think my bad masturbation habits (which I posted above this post) is what caused my PE. Any thoughts from the pros???? YES I AM CUT BTW AND STILL VERY SENSITIVE. I pop boners all the time for the smallest things.

[mrmark Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mrmark]

Okay sounds like you had a good session then.What i do is apply lube (vasline as it last ages) to just the head then make figure of 8s with my hands all over the head so it all gets stimulated then go as long as i can until i reach ponr this can take up to 45 minutes now, then kegel hard until the feeling subsides then wait 2 minutes and resume stimulation until you get to ponr again then repeat this cycle up to six times and you can really prolong your edging session.I can drag mine out up to 1.5hrs now then i cum .I can also have dry orgasms now after training my pc muscle for a few months i usually have 2 or 3 orgasms during a session now.Just make sure you are not tired as i find i have to stay relaxed as possible and be in tune with your body,and concentrate on kegeling hard at ponr because sometimes i just want to blow first time and i have to concentrate super hard then i feel my body shaking from orgasm but i have not cum.Use lots of lube and put it on your hands as well as your cock remember wetter the better!

[steveaustin49 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close steveaustin49]

Re: Can I desensitize my penis head naturally?

I am not sure about that but i think you can.

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[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Okay sounds like you had a good session then.What i do is apply lube (vasline as it last ages) to just the head then make figure of 8s with my hands all over the head so it all gets stimulated then go as long as i can until i reach ponr this can take up to 45 minutes now, then kegel hard until the feeling subsides then wait 2 minutes and resume stimulation until you get to ponr again then repeat this cycle up to six times and you can really prolong your edging session.I can drag mine out up to 1.5hrs now then i cum .I can also have dry orgasms now after training my pc muscle for a few months i usually have 2 or 3 orgasms during a session now.Just make sure you are not tired as i find i have to stay relaxed as possible and be in tune with your body,and concentrate on kegeling hard at ponr because sometimes i just want to blow first time and i have to concentrate super hard then i feel my body shaking from orgasm but i have not cum.Use lots of lube and put it on your hands as well as your cock remember wetter the better!

try full shaft strokes with twists all over the whole head now with lots of lube. it is like having the best handjob/blowjob and sex ever. It has been working very well for me!!! If you do that then later during sex I dont care how hot the gilr is, she will not be able to simulate what you are used to and you will just laugh at her as you last long in bed. Catch my drift? I went from 1-5 minutes to 45 minutes in 2 weeks doing this. I hold a semi to full reverse kegel the whole time btw. At spasms or PONRs I just do a hard reverse kegel flex and I'm good to go start off slowly again without waiting 2 minutes like you. I stopped doing reg Kegels 2 weeks ago also btw.

[chris69 Member Find all posts View Profile Close chris69]

I can't really think of anything to de-sensitize the head, maybe rubbing it on your pubes when flaccid?
hope this helped.

[wifedominator Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wifedominator]

Masterbate all the time and put some calluses on that thing as I have lol.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Masterbate all the time and put some calluses on that thing as I have lol.

r u serious? with or without lube. i did it for years without lube and i am even more sensitive now. i am fixing the problem with lube now to get me used to a true vagina wet feeling.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Okay sounds like you had a good session then.What i do is apply lube (vasline as it last ages) to just the head then make figure of 8s with my hands all over the head so it all gets stimulated then go as long as i can until i reach ponr this can take up to 45 minutes now, then kegel hard until the feeling subsides then wait 2 minutes and resume stimulation until you get to ponr again then repeat this cycle up to six times and you can really prolong your edging session.I can drag mine out up to 1.5hrs now then i cum .I can also have dry orgasms now after training my pc muscle for a few months i usually have 2 or 3 orgasms during a session now.Just make sure you are not tired as i find i have to stay relaxed as possible and be in tune with your body,and concentrate on kegeling hard at ponr because sometimes i just want to blow first time and i have to concentrate super hard then i feel my body shaking from orgasm but i have not cum.Use lots of lube and put it on your hands as well as your cock remember wetter the better!

hows it going? so using lube is better huh? Im gonna take ballooning serious now. I had a bad experience this weekend. I finished in 5 minutes with my ex. ANy other tips for lasting longer? so you dont do the small slow circles with your thumb like most ballooning? You just rub the entire head with your whole palm? Do you stay away from the ferenulum(underneath the head) or do you stimulate that too?

[Bobbyj Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bobbyj]

I'm starting to use vasiline its better then lotion

[Big Tom Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Big Tom]

Very useful thread so I bumped it. Info like this should be at the top.