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    hi folks

    i feel lucky discovering this site. this is my first entry. i am 23 years old

    my sex with my gf takes between 10-15 minutes of penetration. but it is not enough for her to orgasm. i`m not very fast inside and sometimes stop when in danger. she can`t stand these actions. she wants me faster and pumping without stopping. basically f...king like a beast. if i do it like a beast, sex would not be more than few minutes i think. (after the long time period that we are not together, first sexes are awful and dissappointing but i think it`s like that for most of us. anyway)

    another is when i see her enjoying i can`t control myself. when she shakes or tightens vagina or when she kisses me or saying sexy things i cannot go further through same speed. when her reactions increase i automatically begin to out control. i visualise my dead grandfather but it doesnt save me.

    (it may be perceived as if it must be under the topic of erectile dysfunction) but i sometimes relate it by quality of my erection. when my erection is really good, i am out of ejeculation for 2 3 days and i feel really horny. but in everyday sex life my erection is enough but not so big. especially i cant go for another sex in a day. it goes but not endurable. i lost my erection in the second sex.

    my testosterone level is about the beginning part of normal range (a bit higher than the edge). i cant remember the numbers.

    do you think i need a testosterone trigger kind of supplements? or ginseng? and what do you advice for staying longer? are there any techniques that work?

    by the way; i could not give her orgasm by penis by the beginning of our relationship(2 years).
    she cannot reach orgasm but clitoral stimulation by hand. (my penis size is 15cm. and girth is normal.) so i feel very bad.

    thanks very much
    flinstone
    Junior Member
    Last edited by flinstone; 07-09-2011, 07:27 PM. Reason: brackets

  • #2
    I don't think there's anything wrong with you. If you work it good and your woman is open sexually-you're going to get her and her pussy hot-which means it does what it's supposed to do-make you cum. Doesn't mean something's wrong, it's a common problem and I think most men do ejaculate earlier than they'd like. I still have to work to control it, I'm 38. One thing that helps is a cock ring-it keep you harder, (You can kegel extra blood in and trap it there-but be careful, certainly not for more than 30 minutes like this) and it also gives staying power. So it's a very good thing for the girl-you're giving her an extra 1/3" or so of girth and you should be able to pump a bit more as well.

    Another trick is to just get her really good and bothered before penetration-so more foreplay, that way you should be able to make her cum within 5 minutes, 10 tops. Then you can rest a little or keep going for her 2nd and 3rd and so on if you like.

    I used to do the "picture awful stuff" thing, but frankly I don't think it helps-while you do that, you're not focusing on her which begins to deplete the sensation, so it has 2 effects (you are calming down, but so is she) which are counterproductive.

    Instead I would practice kegels and read more on the PE (Premature Ejaculation) forum. But frankly, 10-15 minutes is not really PE in my opinion, it is normal. But I'm sure PE (pre ejac) techniques could help you - so study up too. But definitely try a cock ring, you'll like it and she'll LOVE it. And I don't mean like those metal ones, I mean like a silicone/rubber one that expands and isn't too tight, but it's tight enough to trap some blood and tone it down (sensation-wise) a little.

    You can get them on ebay for like $5.00

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    • #3
      Ok so your gf is being a bit demanding, but hey who doesn't want to be a sex god anyway.
      Sounds as though your test and libido are on the lowish side for a 23 y old. You could try and boost this with weight training ,tribulus,mono unsaturated fats etc. You do not have ed.
      There are many threads in the pre e section that may be of help,start looking and reading .
      Penis size iss unlikely to be an issue.

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      • #4
        Lelo ( tor & bo )

        Have you tried or any info on lelo vibrating ring to help you? lmbjless
        :) lmbjless short term goal 6x5 long term goal 8x6. Becoming the best @ cunnilingus.

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