Type of kegels- confusion

[Amann Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Amann]

Hi guys,some help would be appreciated
My situation:
I am doing kegels for a few months now and trying to have a DO,however it seems like I can’t syncronise somehow the right muscles. I think thats because I can flex my “side muscles” (IC muscle I believe), I can flex the muscle just under the balls(is there even a diff muscle there?) and also I can flex the one between balls and anus(PC muscle I think).
My question : which one of those you clench when you want stop the ejaculation?Is it the same one which you’ll clench for DO?

[Amann Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Amann]

It seems I isolated the IC muscle, the BC muscle and also the PC muscle but don’t know how to use them corectly.Feeling like so close to figure this out …