Ejaculating while holding a COBRA position?

[jamesonblacky Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jamesonblacky]

Hey guys,

I've noticed something really interesting over the last week while trying to combat my Pre E.

Historically, I will cum in missionary position within 2-3 strokes—it takes close to ZERO stimulation for me to ejaculate.

Even after ejaculating multiple times with my partner, if I go into missionary, I can still only make it a few thrusts before cumming again...

Along with arousal training, pelvic floor stretching, edging, reverse kegels etc, I've been practicing holding a plank position and air-thrusting my hips to physically train for missionary (not using any stimulation here).

And during the part of air-thrusting where my hips are thrusted forward (as if I were in the COBRA yoga position)... I start to feel the urge to ejaculate.

I've noticed it on multiple practice sessions now: if I air-thrust enough times, I will very quickly get close to the PONR—even if I don't have a full erection—but ONLY in the extended cobra position (not when I bring my hips back).

I've tried to perform a reverse kegel when I can quickly feel the PONR coming, but that feels like it just pushes me there even faster.

Do you guys have any ideas for what could be causing me to experience this in the cobra/missionary position?

Could it be APT issues? Something else? Is it possible my pelvic floor is still so tight that when it's stretched in a cobra/missionary position, I start to IK uncontrollably?

Would love any ideas you have that might be helpful. Thank you

[jamesonblacky Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jamesonblacky]

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[cranky1 Member Find all posts View Profile Close cranky1]

Ejaculating while holding a cobra sounds dangerous! Jokes aside, it does sounds like a possible APT issue (maybe not totally but it might be part of it). How is your posture in general and do you have APT issues? With the work you have been doing, you don't mention any training of the posterior chain to help (glutes, hamstrings, back muscles etc) have you tried any of that? Or checking to see whether you have overly tight hip flexors, my opinion is this may be a contributing factor for some guy's PE.
Either way it sounds like you could benefit in going to see a postural expert and get a full assessment. Then get them to give you a plan to get your posture up to scratch. From what I understand it can be a minefield in trying to determine if muscles are tight/loose/strong/weak, best of spending the money and going to see an expert You might find this helps you.

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

Try this yoga sequence:

(I incorporate Kegel/Reverse Kegel)

Hindi to crow pose (maintain RK).

Cat-Cow pose (Kegel in cat, RK in cow).

Cobra pose into Child pose into Hero Pose (maintain RK).

Bridge pose (start with K, as pushing up into bridge RK)

Supine twist (RK)

Supine Head Knee (RK)

Half Lord of the Fishes pose (start with K to RK)

[Vind Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vind]

I used to have problems with activating my glutes, so I thought i was ingenious when i started masturbating by humping my bed, because I was able to feel my glutes working.
I was also able to cum just from humping the air, using my glutes, no stimulation to my penis.
Now that i have more awareness about my glutes and pelvic floor through mindful edging, I recognized that while i did get some activation in my glutes, my pelvic floor also tensed incredibly, and this is what caused the urge or ejaculation response.

It is difficult when you don't know how it is suppsoed to feel when activating the glutes and how the pelvic floor feels - because then you think you are doing the right thing, but really you are not.