For years and years, most of my life really, I have suffered from premature ejaculation. There were times in my life when things were a little better and I was able to penetrate for about 5 minutes, but even then, I never felt like I had much control. In recent years, it seems to have gotten worse and I can only perform a handful of thrusts before I am right at the PONR and ready to blow. My thrusts are very gentle and it is all I can think about to hold back. It isn’t very much fun for me and I know my wife deserves better than that.
Over the Christmas holiday, I just happened to discover that Bathmate makes a control gel, so I decided to order it. I have tried delay sprays with lidocaine in the past, but I didn’t enjoy the numbing sensation and it didn’t work to give me any control. This past week, I tried using the Bathmate gel with my Fleshlight and the results have been amazing! At first there is a slight numbing effect and I did struggle to get an erection in the first hour or two after application, but I took some Viagra to help with my erection. My orgasm control has been off the charts! I did some experimentation with and without the gel, but I had a day last week using the gel with two Fleshlight sessions.
My first session was 2.5 hours after application and I edged with my Fleshlight for 30 minutes without ejaculation. I was thrusting fast and hard, and was able to go continuously with very few breaks. My second session was 5 hours after application and I thrusted fast, hard, and continuous for another 45 minutes! I had to actually hold a kegel contraction and work really hard to ejaculate. Then, today, I had a Fleshlight session 3.5 hours after application and I was able to thrust hard, fast, and continuous for an hour! The last 15 minutes of the session, I was in my knees, which is a position that I don’t last long in. When I finally came after an hour, the orgasm felt more intense than usual, which was a fun discovery.
I have never in my life had this much control over my orgasm and it is a powerful experience to have this kind of control. I am so hopeful for the future of my sex life and having some real stamina could be life-changing for my wife and I. I am 44 years old and have suffered from Pre E for a long time, but I still have a lot of sex life left and I am ready to make the most of it. I am not trying to push this product, but I wanted to share my success so far and I wanted to provide hope to guys like me that there are tools out there to help us get better. I just happened to stumble upon one of them and I couldn’t be more excited about it!
Over the Christmas holiday, I just happened to discover that Bathmate makes a control gel, so I decided to order it. I have tried delay sprays with lidocaine in the past, but I didn’t enjoy the numbing sensation and it didn’t work to give me any control. This past week, I tried using the Bathmate gel with my Fleshlight and the results have been amazing! At first there is a slight numbing effect and I did struggle to get an erection in the first hour or two after application, but I took some Viagra to help with my erection. My orgasm control has been off the charts! I did some experimentation with and without the gel, but I had a day last week using the gel with two Fleshlight sessions.
My first session was 2.5 hours after application and I edged with my Fleshlight for 30 minutes without ejaculation. I was thrusting fast and hard, and was able to go continuously with very few breaks. My second session was 5 hours after application and I thrusted fast, hard, and continuous for another 45 minutes! I had to actually hold a kegel contraction and work really hard to ejaculate. Then, today, I had a Fleshlight session 3.5 hours after application and I was able to thrust hard, fast, and continuous for an hour! The last 15 minutes of the session, I was in my knees, which is a position that I don’t last long in. When I finally came after an hour, the orgasm felt more intense than usual, which was a fun discovery.
I have never in my life had this much control over my orgasm and it is a powerful experience to have this kind of control. I am so hopeful for the future of my sex life and having some real stamina could be life-changing for my wife and I. I am 44 years old and have suffered from Pre E for a long time, but I still have a lot of sex life left and I am ready to make the most of it. I am not trying to push this product, but I wanted to share my success so far and I wanted to provide hope to guys like me that there are tools out there to help us get better. I just happened to stumble upon one of them and I couldn’t be more excited about it!

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