During edging when I think of sex I get to the edge. How can I prevent this ?

[MythicMaster Member Find all posts View Profile Close MythicMaster]

When im edging it goes pretty well when I just watch normal stuff. Or read something on the internet.

But once I think of something that arouses me I instantly feel the urge building up to ejaculate.

Is there a way to fix/prevent this?

[Cabba Senior Member Member of the Month March 2020 Find all posts View Profile Close Cabba]

With edging, you should be going to the point of no return (PONR) then stop till your erection subsides a bit. By “watching normal stuff”
you mean porn? If so, that will have a negative effect on you in long term.
Maybe slow your strokes? If you get aroused easily slowing down will help delay your PONR. Make sure you have slow steady breathing and Relax your Pelvic Floor! I had issues with being too tense and cumming early. Now my pelvic floor is much more relaxed I can last longer just by relaxing & controlling breath.

[rad5gbbr Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close rad5gbbr]

I have no solution but figured I’d mention I have the same exact issue. Arousal is an on off switch almost. There’s maybe a ramp up from 1-3 but 3-8 is non stop existent. (Scale of 1-10)

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Hey Guys - first off, would like to let you know that you dick is working exactly as designed - get in, and get it done quickly. That is how nature designed us, plant a seed, populate and move on. So, what you need to do is train yourself to go against nature and learn how to hold that seed. In order to train, you need practice on ways that help you ward off the PONR. For me, edging was the answer. However, edging is an art and you need to practice with stringent rules.

For me, edging is the art of pushing the PONR envelope hard. Really test yourself to the point of failing regularly at which you step back after the fact and say "what could I have done differently"? So in my world, you edge to the PONR and ride it for a bit and then try things. I can't tell you what those things are as each is different, but for the sake of this thread, try relaxing the PF, try a kegel, try thinking about Grandma at a baseball game, whatever it takes to ward off that PONR. You have a way of making that happen and you need to train to find that. It won't find you.

Edging is hard training that forces you to confront the PONR and stare it in the face, tell it you will not concede and slowly best it. There is no one step cure, you need to learn yourself. So, edge like there is no tomorrow and let us know the results. We are here to help.

[Johnny D ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Johnny D]

^100%

While edging, you can lightly press your perineum to feel how your PF responds to stimulation, whether physical or mental. Using that as biofeedback is a great way to learn how to control your PF muscles, focusing on that rather than thinking about something arousing.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Consider the Emotional Visualizations exercise for learning how to develop mastery during edging.

[Aderbex Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Aderbex]

Hey Guys - first off, would like to let you know that you dick is working exactly as designed - get in, and get it done quickly. That is how nature designed us, plant a seed, populate and move on. So, what you need to do is train yourself to go against nature and learn how to hold that seed. In order to train, you need practice on ways that help you ward off the PONR. For me, edging was the answer. However, edging is an art and you need to practice with stringent rules.

For me, edging is the art of pushing the PONR envelope hard. Really test yourself to the point of failing regularly at which you step back after the fact and say "what could I have done differently"? So in my world, you edge to the PONR and ride it for a bit and then try things. I can't tell you what those things are as each is different, but for the sake of this thread, try relaxing the PF, try a kegel, try thinking about Grandma at a baseball game, whatever it takes to ward off that PONR. You have a way of making that happen and you need to train to find that. It won't find you.

Edging is hard training that forces you to confront the PONR and stare it in the face, tell it you will not concede and slowly best it. There is no one step cure, you need to learn yourself. So, edge like there is no tomorrow and let us know the results. We are here to help.

I was edging the wrong way I just masturbating without feel the PORN in this way I can masturbating for 30 minutes but real sex only 1 or 2 minutes

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

I was edging the wrong way I just masturbating without feel the PORN in this way I can masturbating for 30 minutes but real sex only 1 or 2 minutes

Push yourself hard, no train, no gain. The only way you will learn to control your PONR is to understand what makes you fail. Does that make sense?

[Guster Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Guster]

I can edge whole day
But that doesn’t affect my time to the point of no return
Edging for me is pointless cause that theaches you to stop at ponr,that doesnt affect time to ponr.For sex is needed to be able to last some mintes without reaching ponr which seems imposible to people with Pre E

[Johnny D ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Johnny D]

I can edge whole day
But that doesn’t affect my time to the point of no return
Edging for me is pointless cause that theaches you to stop at ponr,that doesnt affect time to ponr.For sex is needed to be able to last some mintes without reaching ponr which seems imposible to people with Pre E

No, it's most definitely NOT impossible. The point of edging isn't simply to get to the PONR and stop. It's to learn what drives you to that point and train yourself to push it forward.