Check yourself before you wreck yourself!!!!!

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Are you sitting on a chair or any other hard surface when you masturbate?

I bet you are.

BIG MISTAKE!!!!

Lay TOTALLY FLAT on your bed or stand straight up or on kneel (on your knees) on your bed(simulating doggy-style).

When you sit on your butt you put pressure on the prostate.

If you add daily masturbation(without lube) to that, plus regular kegels, plus porn, plus fast, rushed masturbation....
HELLO PREMATURE EJACULATION!!!!

[Minuteman Member of the Month March 2013. Find all posts View Profile Close Minuteman]

I will probably regret this but James you really should stop making a topic for every little thing you "discover". You act as your word is a matter of fact and that until you discovered it, it was never discovered nor true. At first you where hellbent on viewing porn in good light and now you see it as a worse thing ever and in both situations you never stopped to consider the other side of the story.

Your posts will be read even if you don't open every new topic or quote yourself if they deserve to be read.

Also just because some specific thing work for you doesn't mean it will work for everybody.

When creating a post you think it will be useful it is a very good idea to formulate paragraphs (and paragraph spacing) so that it will be easier for people to read it, sometimes rather than repeating yourself you can reference people to a good posts (yours or other), as Pegasus does so that they can read it and make conclusions on their own terms. So rather than making many posts make sure your posts are full of information and quality rather than quantity in posts and bumps.

Not to mention that the preassure on the prostate thing has been said many times (I think mostly by Pegasus, and even me in some posts) by many posters and that that is not something new and ground braking.

Problem is also that because you state almost everything as a matter-of-fact you can cause some desinformation.

Instead of working on your log/journal and making post there you make topic-updates instead, and that is very distracting, most of your post and "discoveries" could be very neatly be posted in your own log/journal for PreE and I don't understand why don't you do it like that.

Maybe other people here don't mind or even care, maybe even some find all that useful, me on the other hand find that as dislikeable and somewhat irritating...

I apologize if I have offended you and if this sound like some sort of seramon, but I think it is something that needed be brought to attention. Since I think you could be much better contributor to PreE solutions if you learn how to pace yourself.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

1) I never claimed this new post was a "new break-through discovery".
2) You admit/agree with my post.
3) If this has been mentioned before, it is not visible/easily accessible.
4) This is very important/basic info for NEW MEMBERS to find easily.
5) This is the very first chartroom/group site I have ever joined so I don't know the Universal on-line rules.
6) I have helped MANY with "these kind of posts" and MANY people thank me in them and in PRIVATE messages ALL THE TIME.
7) And lastly, no... I don't like you much now because you could have private messaged me. It's prob gonna be people like you that will prob turn me off from continuing to take time off my busy day to help people on here.

[Minuteman Member of the Month March 2013. Find all posts View Profile Close Minuteman]

1) I never claimed this new post was a "new break-through discovery".

I didn't say that you claim but you act as such.

2) You admit/agree with my post.

I agree with the fact not with your topic making.

3) If this has been mentioned before, it is not visible/easily accessible.

And it won't be in the future since it will as many topic simply go down as all topics do, posting it again or bumping it wont change that. Also your topic is NOT easily accessible since the topic title has nothing to imply of the topic content. There is nothing accessible about topic with a name "Check yourself before you wreck yourself!!!!!" or " I just updated my SECRETS TO SUCCESS!!! HERE IT IS:" It sounds more like and advertisement then a topic title.

4) This is very important/basic info for NEW MEMBERS to find easily.

New members of TODAY maybe, but what about new members 2 days after? Do you have any idea how fast topics go to the page 2?

5) This is the very first chartroom/group site I have ever joined so I don't know the Universal on-line rules.

You have been here for almost a year, that may be something half a year ago but now is just an excuse, you only need to see what others do and follow their example.

6) I have helped MANY with "these kind of posts" and MANY people thank me in them and in PRIVATE messages ALL THE TIME.

And that is all good, but you might be more helpful to all if you learn how to pace yourself, create more quality topics, or less topics overall and stop using !!!!!!!!!!! and other stuff that are more attention grabbing than it is useful.

7) And lastly, no... I don't like you much now because you could have private messaged me. It's prob gonna be people like you that will prob turn me off from continuing to take time off my busy day to help people on here.

I have already private messaged you before if you recall (check your PMs) I am the one that suggested creating your journal/log in the first place since I was following your progress and have been having trouble following you, but instead of being more direct then I tried to offer ideas rather than doing this, but it seems you didn't pick up on it.


You are not helping people as much as you think you are, sometimes the best help for them is to try and read a little bit more of the topics in the forum rather than recieving a solution YOU think it's right, you are not doing them any favors with that. You are giving them fish instead of teaching them how to fish. Why do you think Pegasus (for example since he is the most active in a good way) isn't doing the same thing,a he has way more experience then you and me combined? Because he understands that some stuff is best when people find out on their own, if I had JamesMonroe when I was starting I wouldn't have progressed much, I really hope you see that.



And I'm not saying you should stop posting and helping but having and attitude "It's prob gonna be people like you that will prob turn me off from continuing to take time off my busy day to help people on here."

Really? You don't see how does this sounds? Do you really think all people on this sub-forum are waiting for you to grace them with your time? Is this how high your opinion goes of yourself?

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Stop bugging me and find something else to do. I'm gonna keep doing what i'm doing cuz it is OBVIOUSLY helping LOTS of people and if you wanna keep bitching about it then report me or whatever you chartroom professionals do. And yes.... I do think highly of myself and what I do cuz I went from 1 min to sometimes over 60 minutes and I'm teaching the same things to the same types of people like me AND IT'S WORKING for them.
I have a different style than you and YES I ADVERTISE and use a buncha !!!!!!!!!!! when I feel it's important and helpful and BECAUSE, as you said, these posts can get lost very easily into the next and old pages.
Please go edge or something, you're buggin'.

[BTBrian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTBrian]

Haha settle down ladies settle down.

James you should take his constructive criticism, he was not trying to insult you but rather to help you. Your posts could be much better organized and sometimes they do sound like you are claiming discoveries matter-of-factly.

Minuteman you probably could have stated your points in a little more kind of a fashion, or maybe sent him another PM reminding him how you think he could make his posts better. He does help a lot of people. For instance I consider myself somewhat experienced (I've been on this site for around 9 months I think) and yet this is a topic I'd never heard (either that or heard and forgotten) so I'm actually quite pleased to find it.

No need to fight here!

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

The formatting of your posts leaves a lot to be desired...constant use of exclamation marks and capital letters is sore on the eyes, and on the internet capitals mean you are shouting by the way.

most of your posts look like this: ZOMG!!!!!!!!!ONE!!!1111!!!!ONE!!!!I JUST FOUND SOMETHING OUT!!!!

Minuteman makes a good point about your titles, if someone wants to find information about Pre Ejac they aren't going to search for "check yourself before you wreck yourself" or "my proven secrets," titles should be informative so that they can be easily searched for and so that people know what they are about to read about

Also a lot of this stuff is in the Pre Ejac sticky (https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...treatment.html) and isn't necessarily new

I'm sure that you help a lot of people, this is constructive criticism, you are definitely a positive influence on the forums so keep up the good work However, better formatting would go a long way. instead of using capitals you might consider bolding the important parts of your posts, and limiting yourself to a maximum of three exclamation marks in sequence

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

I understand. But if a person is gonna be publicly aggressive, they are gonna get the same treatment right back. Why are we having this public issue right now? Because of minuteman. I treat people the way they deserve to be treated. In this case, with a public rude attitude. If I was private messaged with less attitude, none of this would have ever happened. This was a total waste of jelqing/stretching time/energy. I definately suggest he starts acting a bit more like his friend Pegasus. He gets his points accross in a way better manner. I have total respect for him and the way he has criticized me constructively/privately(bold letters).

[Minuteman Member of the Month March 2013. Find all posts View Profile Close Minuteman]

Haha settle down ladies settle down.


James you should take his constructive criticism, he was not trying to insult you but rather to help you. Your posts could be much better organized and sometimes they do sound like you are claiming discoveries matter-of-factly.

Minuteman you probably could have stated your points in a little more kind of a fashion, or maybe sent him another PM reminding him how you think he could make his posts better. He does help a lot of people. For instance I consider myself somewhat experienced (I've been on this site for around 9 months I think) and yet this is a topic I'd never heard (either that or heard and forgotten) so I'm actually quite pleased to find it.

No need to fight here!

The reason I made this public is that I knew that he wouldn't change anything about it if I just PMed him, doing it this way at least wanted to see if I'm the only one who find this irritating. I am not undermining his contributions or his desire to help, but it is a waste to see many good ideas and good topic being lost in a pile of his topics, not to mention that it is better to use references to good posts then to say it all over again in that way if somebody is making some sort of mistake it is easier to fix that, amongst other uses.

As for kindness I was kind in the pm and I was kind in the first post (at least I like to believe that), but I was more to the point in the second one, since I see no other way to explain to James that, from my point of view, he should not be opening topics in a way he is doing.

Now at least the topic title seems oddly fitting.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

I understand. But if a person is gonna be publicly aggressive, they are gonna get the same treatment right back. Why are we having this public issue right now? Because of minuteman. I treat people the way they deserve to be treated. In this case, with a public rude attitude. If I was private messaged with less attitude, none of this would have ever happened. This was a total waste of jelqing/stretching time/energy. I definately suggest he starts acting a bit more like his friend Pegasus. He gets his points accross in a way better manner. I have total respect for him and the way he has criticized me constructively/privately(bold letters).

Btw... I usually use a bunch of usefull and relevant tag words so it shouldn't be hard to find in a search.

[Minuteman Member of the Month March 2013. Find all posts View Profile Close Minuteman]

And here is another habit of yours "self quoting".

James, if you want to add something in the post you just made you should use the Edit Post button instead.

And if you want to make something bold, you can put it between this two tags

[b!] content I want bold[/b!] without the exclamation mark.

I understand that you are not used to the forums, but you can learn, and one of my first forums I was even worse but when somebody brought it to my attention I tried to learn from that, you should too.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

The reason I made this public is that I knew that he wouldn't change anything about it if I just PMed him, doing it this way at least wanted to see if I'm the only one who find this irritating. I am not undermining his contributions or his desire to help, but it is a waste to see many good ideas and good topic being lost in a pile of his topics, not to mention that it is better to use references to good posts then to say it all over again in that way if somebody is making some sort of mistake it is easier to fix that, amongst other uses.

As for kindness I was kind in the pm and I was kind in the first post (at least I like to believe that), but I was more to the point in the second one, since I see no other way to explain to James that, from my point of view, he should not be opening topics in a way he is doing.

Now at least the topic title seems oddly fitting.

Wrong. You shouldn't have made it public. Thats where you fucked up, thats why we are all in this mess and you did it cuz you're a weirdo.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

Wrong. You shouldn't have made it public. Thats where you fucked up, thats why we are all in this mess and you did it cuz you're a weirdo.

It is hardly a mess...you aren't infallible and immune to criticism

And no, he isn't a weirdo, I think the formatting issue is a genuine concern and minuteman isn't the only person who thinks that way

Also, you have yourself stated that you have been contacted via PM in regards to your formatting, yet you haven't changed it at all

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

And here is another habit of yours "self quoting".

James, if you want to add something in the post you just made you should use the Edit Post button instead.

And if you want to make something bold, you can put it between this two tags

[b!] content I want bold[/b!] without the exclamation mark.

I understand that you are not used to the forums, but you can learn, and one of my first forums I was even worse but when somebody brought it to my attention I tried to learn from that, you should too.

I can't do any of that stuff on the iPhone, even in full site mode. I hope you learned from all this. Maybe next time you'll do all your bitchy attitude crap privately.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

I can't do any of that stuff on the iPhone, even in full site mode. I hope you learned from all this. Maybe next time you'll do all your bitchy attitude crap privately.

i just sent this from my iPhone

I just sent this from my iPhone

You can't edit posts but you can write in bold and italics