Edging with prostate pressure

[alex553 Member Find all posts View Profile Close alex553]

First of all, I tried this out after reading some information on another forum, so I don't want to take the credit. It's a thread about many ways to cure premature ejaculation, one of which was to eliminate the prostate trigger point for cumming. I will post the original link as soon as somebody gives me confirmation that this is allowed, I couldn't find anything about this in the guidelines.

After reading the thread mentioned above, I got myself a little turned on so the prostate is easier to find and started massaging it with my finger. It took my about 2-3 times to finally find the prostate, but when I finally did I massaged it for about 5 minutes, and the difference was extremely noticeable. For those that suffer from involuntary contractions, you will especially find this interesting and be able to understand it. You know how when you start to edge, or touch the head of your penis, or even sit down and up, you can feel an involuntary kegel, or contraction? This completely went away for about 3 days. It didn't magically cure my PE, but I was lasting a considerable amount more. For whatever reason, further attempts to do this did not yield the same results and I eventually stopped.

Jump forward to today and I tried fleshlight edging with a long, skinny container made of plastic with a condom over it inserted in my anus.
***For those of you too immature to handle this, don't even bother posting. I'm not bothered about the taboo of doing this, I'm just trying to cure my problem and help others do the same. Further, make sure you take proper precautions if you end up trying this. Make sure the item being inserted is clean, wash your hands before and after, and don't use too much pressure because I'm assuming you are pretty sensitive in there.***

The first 5 minutes or so were pretty hard, I was feeling involuntary kegels right away. It was also harder to get hard. And of course it was a little but uncomfortable. But at about the 5 minute mark, my EQ went back up, the involuntary kegels went away, and I kept the session going for about 10.5 minutes, which is more then I can currently last for. Once I stopped edging, I felt that familiar feeling I got before of "emptiness" in the prostate/anus area where you usually feel a lot of the contractions. I'm going to try this again in the future and will post the results. If anybody wants to give this a try, please post your results as well.

***Does anybody know how safe this is in terms of causing prostate pressure multiple days in a row? Should I drop down to every other day or a break after a couple of days?***

[alex553 Member Find all posts View Profile Close alex553]

The point of this, just to make it clear, is to hopefully PERMANENTLY get rid of involuntary kegels, which will lead to lasting longer. I think this process will have diminishing returns, so maybe doing it once makes a huge difference, then the next one a little bit less, etc so that you have to repeat this process a good amount to work effectively. I can't see this actually being completely permanent, but maybe in a good case there is a bi weekly/monthly maintenance requirement.

I am still confused about something though. What role does the prostate play vs. the pelvic floor in premature ejaculation? Why does stimulating the prostate have an immediate effect of cumming quicker, but (at least for me) a residual effect of lasting longer?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

You might find info onsite re intermal massage use for hard flacid and pre e.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

.....Interesting.....

[alex553 Member Find all posts View Profile Close alex553]

Tried it again today, different story. Last time it took me 5 minutes to reach a point where my EQ went back up and my involuntary kegels disappeared.

This time, it took 12 minutes. I ended up going for another 7 minutes after that (~20 minutes total) because that is my current edging goal time, but I didn't get the same results as last time, which is fine. It was just much harder, my EQ didn't go up as much as last time and there were still some involuntary kegels after the 12 minute mark. And up to the 12 minute mark was MUCH harder, not just because it was longer. It REALLY took all my energy to be able to not cum, my whole body was sweating from concentrating. I was making sure the whole time my breathing was correct, that my PC muscles weren't clenched, and that my body was relaxed. Literally every other stroke I felt my PONR coming, but I tried to stop just before that rather than kegel it off, I only used kegels if I had to. I almost made it the whole session but unfortunately "half" ejaculated in the end, although it wasn't a full on orgasm because I was able to kegel it off.

What I learned is that I need to take some days off between doing this. Maybe twice a week, every 3 days, something like that. I may also apply lube to the condom next time, I think the dryness caused some discomfort. However, if I apply lube, I am worried that the object will simply slide out, so I'll try it out and post the results. I am actually more happy with this session than the first because I was pretty much successful in not ejaculating when it was much harder to do so. I now KNOW that somewhere in there, I have a trigger point, and hopefully I will fix it with more practice.

[Staysup Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Staysup]

This is rather interesting. Keep us posted with your progress. I've heard before that stimulating the prostate can cause non-ejaculatory full body orgasms?

[alex553 Member Find all posts View Profile Close alex553]

You might find info onsite re intermal massage use for hard flacid and pre e.

Ended up reading that whole thing, 200+ pages! Thanks for the suggestion though, definitely learned a lot. Anybody else with pelvic issues, I recommend you take the time to read that. Even if you don't have hard flaccid, it is partly caused by a dysfunctional pelvic floor, which contributes to ED and PE.

[Sora Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sora]

From my experience in the bedroom - yes, I've taken fingers, dildos, and even a couple of dicks up the ass before - prostate play does seem to make me last longer. I'd be leaking pre-come like a busted pipe, but I wouldn't have the urge to ejaculate.

However, I was waiting to improve my solo lasting time before I brought the prostate stimulation into the picture.

One thing of note is that you probably shouldn't overstimulate the prostate, or it might get desensitised, as you've mentioned.

[alex553 Member Find all posts View Profile Close alex553]

Sora, do you mean that prostate play makes you last longer while it is being done, or that it permanently made you last longer? It doesn't actually make me last longer per se, but the effect of working on my trigger points inside my anus makes me last longer AFTER working on it.

Desensitizing the prostate? Is that dangerous or something? Because I think that's exactly what I'm trying to do. I wouldn't called it that though, just getting used to its stimulation... It's the same thing with edging, I'm practicing stimulating it without cumming to train my body to last longer.

[angus Banned Find all posts View Profile Close angus]

Instead of using a home made device to reach your prostate, consider one of these. It is designed for that purpose.
Aneros Mgx

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

Have you thought of trying holding the kegels for as long as you can? You
can practice that where ever you are and whenever you feel like it.

[alex553 Member Find all posts View Profile Close alex553]

Instead of using a home made device to reach your prostate, consider one of these. It is designed for that purpose.
Aneros Mgx

Don't really see the point, especially since it's $50 dollars. I'm actually not only trying to target the prostate, there are some muscles and nerves there that are also trigger points. I'm sure it's not the best method but I think just inserting something there that puts some pressure on it will help enough. Does anybody have experience with the aneros and can prove me wrong?

Have you thought of trying holding the kegels for as long as you can? You
can practice that where ever you are and whenever you feel like it.

Holding off on kegels for a while. Have a lot of experience with them, lots of breaks, lots of difference routines. They all made me much more sensitive and increased my PE. I may get around to trying kegels again but not anytime soon.

[Sora Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sora]

Sora, do you mean that prostate play makes you last longer while it is being done, or that it permanently made you last longer? It doesn't actually make me last longer per se, but the effect of working on my trigger points inside my anus makes me last longer AFTER working on it.

Desensitizing the prostate? Is that dangerous or something? Because I think that's exactly what I'm trying to do. I wouldn't called it that though, just getting used to its stimulation... It's the same thing with edging, I'm practicing stimulating it without cumming to train my body to last longer.

I tend to last longer WHILE being stimulated there Not permanently, since the prostate stimulation itself is sort of pleasurable XD

Well... you kind of get used to it after a while :P That's what I meant by desensitising the prostate - the first time I had it played with, it felt like a live wire up my ass, but now, it's just a pleasant buzz.

Just as a pointer if you're willing to try it: having a woman/guy working on your prostate during sex can be surprisingly pleasurable, but without the arousal of direct penile stimulation. Perhaps if you're adventurous, try it and see how it works out

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

I find this pretty interesting, if not that I sort of enjoy having that area touched, but lasting longer is always worth a look at.

[alex553 Member Find all posts View Profile Close alex553]

I tend to last longer WHILE being stimulated there Not permanently, since the prostate stimulation itself is sort of pleasurable XD

Well... you kind of get used to it after a while :P That's what I meant by desensitising the prostate - the first time I had it played with, it felt like a live wire up my ass, but now, it's just a pleasant buzz.

Just as a pointer if you're willing to try it: having a woman/guy working on your prostate during sex can be surprisingly pleasurable, but without the arousal of direct penile stimulation. Perhaps if you're adventurous, try it and see how it works out

That's exactly what I'm trying to achieve! When I have involuntary kegels, they stimulate the prostate, which make me more prone to premature ejaculation. That's why I'm stimulating that area, I want to get used to that sensation so that I don't suddenly become hyper sensitive when I kegel. The way I see it, what better way to do that than while you're edging!