I last much longer with anal sex...

[Chromey Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Chromey]

I've been meaning to ask this question for about 5-6 months now.

I used to ejaculate VERY quickly from doggy style sex. But ever since me an my gf had anal (in doggy position) I am able to last much more when we have vaginal doggy style sex.

The weird part is that I have FORCE myself to cum when we have anal. The last time we did it we just stopped because I wouldn't cum and she started to hurt.

Can anyone please explain this to me?

[Chromey Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Chromey]

Bump

[QuickTrigger Member Find all posts View Profile Close QuickTrigger]

Did you really just bump this after 23minutes of inactivity?

Pure speculation on my part: perhaps you're not psychologically aroused by anal sex. Maybe deep down somewhere it disgusts you? I really don't know.

[Chromey Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Chromey]

Sorry about the bump. I'll be more patient next time. And Im not disgusted at all. I love it and wish she would let me do it more often. I get pleasure for an extended amount of time and I get to hear her scream at the top of her voice.


But still, this doesn't explain why I am able to last longer in the vag after doing anal.

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

I think it is because you feel less preassure or that you put less preassure on yourself to pleasure her or give her an orgasm. You just let go and enjoy it, like you should.

[Chromey Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Chromey]

I think it is because you feel less preassure or that you put less preassure on yourself to pleasure her or give her an orgasm. You just let go and enjoy it, like you should.

If this is true, then I am confused. Why would I not be just as eager to please her through anal sex as i would with vaginal sex?

And again, how would that translate to me lasting longer in the vag???

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

If this is true, then I am confused. Why would I not be just as eager to please her through anal sex as i would with vaginal sex?

And again, how would that translate to me lasting longer in the vag???

It may be subconsious. Pre-E is often related to tension and stress. If you worry more about performing than just having fun and enjoying the sex, you get stressed and tense and blow your load. Of course this might not be the case here.

[QuickTrigger Member Find all posts View Profile Close QuickTrigger]

I guess I misunderstood the original post. Are you saying that if you have anal sex first and then move onto vaginal sex in the same session, you last longer? If so, then it might just be because her ass is tighter than her vagina, and so going from tight to loose doesn't feel as pleasurable and allows you to last longer.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

I def believe it's because you have gotten used to anal sec now. It is considered to be maybe THE most arrousing position and it puts the most physical pressure on your penis more than other positions. I am a strong believer that to last long in bed you have to practice with real sex and the most arrousing and toughest positions. Once you get used to tight anal sex, all other positions and a vigina will seem easier. The best practice makes perfect.

[Sora Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sora]

I def believe it's because you have gotten used to anal sec now. It is considered to be maybe THE most arrousing position and it puts the most physical pressure on your penis more than other positions. I am a strong believer that to last long in bed you have to practice with real sex and the most arrousing and toughest positions. Once you get used to tight anal sex, all other positions and a vigina will seem easier. The best practice makes perfect.

This.

However, it depends also on the mental aspect, I guess. If you are more relaxed with anal sex, then you'd definitely last longer with it.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Yeah, seconded on the suggestion that you've (consciously or not) 'got used' to the much tighter sensation during anal, so by contrast normal sex seems to offer less stimulation.

Funny that you should normally last longer during anal if you really enjoy it though - I come really quickly that way because it's so intense and hot. I actually have to hold back from coming if I want to keep going so my girlfriend comes first, whereas that's not usually the case during vaginal sex, unless it's the first time we've seen each other in a while and I've avoided masturbating for a few days.

[hopefuldude Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopefuldude]

Definitely mental. Anal sex is far tighter and more stimulating than anything else. It's hard for me to last much of anything with it.

[Guest Close XitemeM]

I guess everyone's different but Vag is much more lush to me. Not that I'm a stranger to the road less travelled. I would last longer there because it's not as silky... like, not as feminine.

[Jimo Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Jimo]

Definitely mental. Anal sex is far tighter and more stimulating than anything else. It's hard for me to last much of anything with it.

MMMM I agree

[hopefuldude Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopefuldude]

You know, I wonder... More lube for you with anal (obviously), could mean less heat (as in a cold feel), that makes things less intense? Whereas the warmer vagina with natural lubrication, feels far more intense.