Using a REVERSE Kegel to Dry Orgasm.

[Big Tom Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Big Tom]

Over the past few months I've been trying to achieve a DO using a kegel at the PONR but I've had no success. I either end up kegeling too early as to not initiate an orgasm, or too late in which I ejaculate. Is anyone else having difficulty?

As a result I've started to experiment with reverse kegels at the PONR. Although I don't experience an orgasm something strange happens. I get a tingling sensation near my balls and my PC muscle spasms a couple of times, and a tiny bit of cum seeps out. I maintain an erection (a slight loss in EQ but nothing too bad) and I feel desensitized so I can go on for longer. The only thing is getting the timing right is an exact art so it doesn't always work.

I wondered if anyone had tried a reverse kegel at PONR and what are your experiences?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

This is partial ejaculation and should be regarded as a pertial success.
While standard kegel is more common, many guys use rk for mmo.

[growmore Member Find all posts View Profile Close growmore]

I've been trying to rk when nearing PONR and the same thing happens to me, a little bit of cum comes out and would think that I failed cos I cummed /:

[QuickTrigger Member Find all posts View Profile Close QuickTrigger]

When I RK to try and hold back ejaculation, it makes my ejaculations more pleasurable but doesn't prevent them from happening...

[Big Tom Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Big Tom]

Well partial ejaculation seems to serve a good purpose. It desensitizes me allowing me to last longer. Surely this is a good thing compared to a dry orgasm which would lead up to another PONR shortly after?

[steveshorny1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close steveshorny1]

When I hold a hard Reverse Kegel at PONR I cannot achieve DO, but what happens is I have like a flowing ejaculation. Where the cum just flows out without the usual squirting type ejaculation. If I release the reverse kegel as its flowing I feel the involuntary spasms kick in.
This flowing ejac is a wierd experience, but I certainly havent seen any benefits from doing it.
If I'm going to ejaculate now, I usually preferr the normal squirting ejaculation.
I can achieve DO only with regular kegel, but if there's any tricks to achieving it with reverse, I'd sure like to know.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I don't see what the problemis if you have a dry orgasm and get to ponr quickly thereafter , oh dear i have to have another dry orgasm the world is full of hardshiip.
Partial ejaculation is as stated usually regarded as a partial success and many guys can have multi orgasms with them.

Most guys find dry orgasm (DO) esaier to do with a kegel but there are guys who find reverse kegel easier and of course guys that can use both methods.
Both methods are similar in application ,Minuteman could give the most detailed descripition/how to.

[Big Tom Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Big Tom]

I don't see what the problemis if you have a dry orgasm and get to ponr quickly thereafter , oh dear i have to have another dry orgasm the world is full of hardshiip.

Pegasus, I'm obviously not shunning dry orgasms. Just saying that partial ejaculations are an equally useful tool in prolonging intercourse. Do you find you lose sensitivity after having a fully dry orgasm?

[TheSperminator Member of the Month Oct 12 Find all posts View Profile Close TheSperminator]

I don't see what the problemis if you have a dry orgasm and get to ponr quickly thereafter , oh dear i have to have another dry orgasm the world is full of hardshiip.

Haha I smell some sarcasm there ..

[growmore Member Find all posts View Profile Close growmore]

I have partial ejaculation when I rk at PONR too! and the same thing happens to me!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Pegasus, I'm obviously not shunning dry orgasms. Just saying that partial ejaculations are an equally useful tool in prolonging intercourse. Do you find you lose sensitivity after having a fully dry orgasm?

Nothing wrong with partial ejaculation and they can be used in a positive way in their own right as well as a steping stone to mmo.
I generally don't lose sensitivity but some do ,due to a number of factors. is the suggestion that stamina during dry orgasm can be harder to manage because the ponr tends to reappear more quickly than with partial orgasm?

[Big Tom Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Big Tom]

Is the suggestion that stamina during dry orgasm can be harder to manage because the ponr tends to reappear more quickly than with partial orgasm?

In my case that would be true because it's very hard to get the timing right so I wouldn't want to keep having to rely on being able to dry orgasms many times. Obviously if you have mastered the technique you can confidently know that no matter how many PONRs you achieve you will be able to successfully DO each time. Have you mastered the technique enough to be able to confidently DO at almost every PONR?

Another thing is that to have a dry orgasm you must stop intercourse and the woman might not want that if it is happening too often. Obviously this is just my conception and I'm interested to know whether you have to pause or not the achieve DO and if yes, do partners have a problem with that?

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

I don't know if I actually DO with reverse kegels at PONR, but I am able to stop any ejaculation with it and it makes me last a bit longer... but not a whole lot. I find it's more about keeping arousal down and taking it slow when PONR gets close.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

...also... When I do them at PONR, I don't have anything dribble out. Maybe I do them too early and not exactly at PONR?
Idk.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

For most guys reverse kegel dry orgasm requires a lot of skill . It has advantages with soft form and wave orgasm but this is generally a mmo thing not general stamina .
Hmm my understanding has increased today . Yes I am confident with dry orgasm and this comes with practise. You do not have to stop intercourse during mmo if you have high skill level ;again practise.

So now I see the advantage of partial ejaculation for guys with some skill but still developing . It may be some time before the skills required develop depending on a number of factors.