Ejaculation Problems (DO?)

[JamesKing Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesKing]

Hey waddup guys,
I'm just gonna make it quick and straightforward.
A while back, 2 months or so, everything was perfect, I had good, long, hard erections, and I was extremely happy with the size of my penis, then one day something happened (I can't remember excatly what) and I started not being able to maintain erections. It was right after my masturbating session. I think I may have develoepd a muscle imbalance issue or something like that.
But this past 2-3 weeks, I tried some exercies and everything became normal. My erections are exactly the way they used to be, they're even better now. But one issue that remains is the fact that I can't achieve orgasms without EXTREME stimulation. Even though my penis stays hard as a rock, no matter how I try it won't cum.
I thought this was a psychological issue, but its not.
I think I might've developed a scar tissue in a certain area, because I've lost sensitity in the head of my penis as well.
Also when I flex the PC muscle, my penis will barely move up, it will like shrivel up instead of going up.

Please, let me know if there is anything I can do.
I am willing to pay any price.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

First things first, welcome to the gym!

So you have delayed ejaculation?

This could be psychological but starting a kegel routine would be beneficial, 60/70% kegels and the rest reverse kegels. DO is often caused by a pelvic floor imbalance, kegels will not only help to rectify this but they will also increase EQ, however it won't work overnight so bear that in mind.

Read the sticky in the premature ejaculation forum in order to find out more about kegels

[JamesKing Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesKing]

Waddup Padawan787,
thanks bro.

Yeah I just did some more research and I think you're right about it being a pelvic floor imbalance issue.
On a further note: My pc muscles tend to squeeze while I'm taking a dump, right in the middle of it and it cuts it off in the middle, leaving me with the feeling that it's not finished
Could this also be related to the pelvic floor imbalance issue?
And if so, is the pelvic floor imbalance issue reversible?

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

When urinating or defecating you are essentially doing a reverse kegel, that is normal

Yes, a pelvic floor imbalance is reversible, at the moment (if i'm correct) your kegel muscles aren't strong enough to bring you to orgasm, orgasm is basically a series of kegel contractions that apply pressure to the prostate

I'm going to move your thread to the Prem Ejac forum, that way Pegasus (our resident pelvic floor expert) will see it and can give his opinion Pegasus also had DO and fixed that

[JamesKing Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesKing]

Appreciate it.
Thanks.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

No problem, we are here to help

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

You may also want to give some thought to the insensitivity in your glans. I use a VacExtender and occasionally get some bruising on my glans as a result. The bruising causes some insensitivity which makes ejaculation more difficult to achieve. Try rubbing on some vitamin E oil or even hand cream to see if that helps with the insensitivity issue.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

That is a major concern that I had is more the lack of sensitivity to the glans. I have a few questions about that.
1. What is the coloration?
2. What routine where you doing before this, detailed?

The reason for the coloration question is because it will sum down whether this is of the nerves or the veins.
Secondly, it's important to know what you where doing exactly before this started happening.

[JamesKing Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesKing]

You guys don't understand my issue isn't the insensitivity, it's the fact that my pelvic floor is imbalanced and it's causing these issues.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

Still answer the questions especially about what you were doing before this started happening. You may think it may all be with the PC muscles but there can be other things that are adding to this.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

I might well have been wrong about the pelvic floor, it could be one of the causes but there can be other factors as well! And thenewdude and not2big raise very valid points about your glans

Have you ever experienced an injury from PE? You may even have masturbated too vigorously, and the problem happened just after masturbating right?

Good catch guys, I hadn't picked up on that

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

You guys don't understand my issue isn't the insensitivity, it's the fact that my pelvic floor is imbalanced and it's causing these issues.

We do understand your situation and Padawan has addressed the pelvic muscle situation. However, you made special mention of the insensitivity so we are providing some advice to address this possibility as well in the event that it is also contributing to your DO.

[JamesKing Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesKing]

Well, about 3 years ago I did injure my penis, I was masturbating and I literally broke it as I tried to fit it in my pants. But I went to the doctor and he said it was alright. I haven't had any problems because of that, although it DID cause some loss of sensitivity. Furthermore, everything was good since the past two weeks.
And this recent issue happened because I was masturbating very vigorously and I flexed and held my PC muscle for too long (to the point of my penis twitching). I don't know why the heck I did that but I guess I thought it would make it bigger or something.
Ever since this, I've had constipation problems as well, I have to literally force my poop out every single time and it always feels like it's not finished. It literally just cuts off in the middle and my penis twitched upwards once (like when you're ejaculating).

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Ok have you been doing kegels you mention exercises?

Your imbalance is kegels overpowering reverse kegels, this is might be more due to spasm than strength per se . This is causing the toilet issues as well .
I am not sure how the ed fits in , sometimes weak pelvic floor is an issue in ed and is helped by kegel . On the other hand I suspect that pelvic spasm can also be an issue in ed and doing kegels without reverse kegels can worsen this .

Your initial injury could have caused the spasm and yes it can affect sensitivity.


I suggest a reverse kegel heavy k/rk routine . There are also stretches etc you can do.

[juleswinnfield Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close juleswinnfield]

God you're lucky...