Virgin & Facing PE (PMs & Log)

[imac Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 12PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close imac]

If you want to start PEing there's no reason why you couldn't do your edging/ballooning routine as well, the two are compatible. If fact you'll even be told by some to include edging or ballooning as part of your enlargement routine.

If you're going to start manual PE then I suggest you start with the JP90 which is a beginners routine and do that for the first 3 months.
Also before you start check out the safety threads, you don't want to damage yourself before your big day.
https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...ety-first.html

I would leave a couple of hours between doing your PE routine and edging/ballooning you don't want to overwork it.

People do all kind of different routines with positive results, 5 on 2 off, 2 on 1 off so you could try 3 on 3 off and do your edging on your off days like you suggested and see how that works for you, you can always augment it at a later date.

Stretching and jelqing are primarily lengthening exercises but adding length wont decrease your girth. If you're looking to add length and girth It's recommended to work on length first and then girth once you're nearing your length goals.

[Bane007 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bane007]

hmm..so it means I can start PEing slowly along with my edging/ballooning routines.

Thanks for sharing Saftely & JP90 links imac

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Doing PE is entirely up to you fella - the two things aren't related.

Well, I say that, but I think there is a relationship between a good headspace for control during sex, and the headspace you get into with jelqing, which shouldn't be particularly arousing. It might be at first, after all you're stroking your penis, right? But you'll get used to it. Point being that your goal is not to orgasm, but to complete the exercise, and remembering that, it should be easy (certainly easier) to keep your arousal down at (approx) a 2 or a 3.

When it's that low, you're unlikely to cum. Sure it can happen.. sometimes it will... but don't worry, it won't keep happening if it does.

Thing is, I think you can get your head in that same headspace when you're fucking. Far better than distraction, like imagining your mum or some other stupid shit like that, I find I can step back from my own arousal, and "reframe" sex as an exercise, where the end goal is not my orgasm, but hers. Psychologically speaking, It's all about your goal. I don't think this is a cop out, because I just love the whole process anyway. Sometimes though, it's just too hot and I switch from the "I am making your night" headspace into the "I'm gonna cum so hard in you" headspace instead. That's fine and all, but it's a different headspace, and it's one that's far harder to control yourself in.

Not sure if that made sense.. it does in my head

[Bane007 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bane007]

Well it does make lot of sense fighting with Pre-E, especially this "headspace" thing you mentioned.

You started in a right direction to answering my questing about PEing (Penis Enlargement) but then you moved totally into different discussion which was definitely helpful as well

But thanks for your response anyway.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Well it does make lot of sense fighting with Pre-E, especially this "headspace" thing you mentioned.

You started in a right direction to answering my questing about PEing (Penis Enlargement) but then you moved totally into different discussion which was definitely helpful as well

But thanks for your response anyway.

Glad it was helpful - I'm not the guy to answer any questions about PEing though really.. I did JP90 for a while, just out of interest to see if it worked.. and then to my surprise at the time it did! Then I met a girl and I stopped doing it. That's about all I can say about it really.

[Bane007 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bane007]

OK little update on my thread...

Started to work on PE routing as mentioned in https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...r-routine.html and noticed little bit effect as well which made me greedy for length/girth & developed my more interest in PEing & less on working on my Pre-E issue

Almost 3 weeks in marriage so I'm back on my breathing, arousal & edging/ballooning routine. As the time is getting more & more close, I'm getting more & more nervous as well at the same time.

[JoshLuvins Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JoshLuvins]

1. go with a thread so interested newbies and everybody can follow your progress
2. with time and dedication and LOTS of self discipline.
3. id condition my penis with a beginner workout for a few months, JP90 is one of the most recommended
4. edging is pretty much masturbation except slower and instead of having an orgasm you just stop stimulation and try not to cum then wait for the feeling to reside and start again, do that as many times as necessaryand its your own choice at the end of a session to cum or not
5. im fairly well with a normal kegal but as far as a reverse kegel i always feel like im gonna fart hard as hell or for the next few days it feels weird when i poop...
6. me either lol
7. if you do watch porn dont masturbate to it, you need to relax your mind a bit more and not worry so much about the premature ejaculation, thats only gonna make it worse my friend
8. there would be no point in medical treatment honestly, however i have learned that drinking a few beers helps you last a bit longer, not hammered but just a buzz. i wouldnt do it everytime you had sex but you could give it a shot
9. practice makes perfect
10. unless your dick is like 7+ inches the virgin thing shouldnt matter too much besides not knowing what to do, as for the hymen, most girls hymen rips from everyday activities such as riding a bike sitting on teeter totters etc.. dont expect the blood i have had sex with two virgins and neither bled on me

[Bane007 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bane007]

Thanks JoshLuvins for your reply, I would definitely keep all this in mind

[pudim17 Member Find all posts View Profile Close pudim17]

So... how did it go?

[Bane007 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bane007]

Here https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...nce-pre-e.html