Extreme P.E, dont feel like a real man

[Nachos87 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nachos87]

wow, your wife sounds like a fucking whore (sorry if you can't speak like this on this forum) how can you be so stupid that you want to get back together with her? if i hade a wife and her vagina was destroyed by a disease, i wouldnt leave her. how can people be so traitorous nowadays? what the fuck happened to the fucking values people had in relationships.. if somethings broke, you fucking fix it, what the fuck

have you tried edging?

Sex is the number one reason why two humans of the opposite sex get togther. Why should she suffer if he can't satisfy her basic needs? Should she be the one to fix someone else's issues? If one waterhole can't satisfy your thirst, move to another. We aren't immortal you know... tick, tock, tick, tock...

That isn't treason.

[reallyneedhelp Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close reallyneedhelp]

once again thanks for your comments, given me loads to think about.
just a quick update, I have visited my doctor who has prescribed me Fluoxetine tablets to help deal with the anxiety issues, will need to wait a couple of weeks and see what happens.
In the meantime I am going to start a months worth of reverse kegal and see how I get on.
For the record I dont blame my wife, she has had too long with no satisfaction and I was to scared/embarresed to discuss the issues, she just used to say its up to me to control myself, although its just not that easy.

[reallyneedhelp Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close reallyneedhelp]

OK heres an update. the other day i was masterbating and i put my finger on the bit between anus and balls and everytime i felt a kegal i reversed kegaled and i lasted about 20 minutes (no porn) I was pleased with myself to say the least, I think I found a way to control myself.
I went round my wifes the next day and couldnt help telling her, things got a bit hot and heavy, i had an errection but the moment we got naked I lost my errection and couldnt seem to get it back.
long story short she thinks im even worse than I was before and is pretty much told me where to go.
I know its a pyschlogical thing rather than a physical thing, im just stuck on what I should do.
As far as my wife goes, im not sure if I should keep trying as I love her so much, or if I should let her go to find happiness elsewhere
What do you guys think ?