I want to be unable to ejaculate.

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

For personal reasons, i wish to be unable to ejaculate.I have started minuteman's DO routine.Was anyone able to progress so far as to be unable to ejaculate?

Thanks.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

Unable to ejaculate? I don't think anyone else is trying to do that.

[Herbivore Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Herbivore]

When you masturbate, try and flex your body (mostly lower body). This will get your body accustomed to the feel of ejaculating whilst doing that and it becomes extremely hard to ejaculate when relaxed.

I've been doing this, and to me it's a problem that I'm trying to revert. Seacock (another member) did this as well for years and now that he's in his 50s (?), he hardly ever ejaculates, it's extremely hard for him to.

I don't advise it though, let me get his quote.

Here:

STOP THIS NOW!

That is what used to do! I can't cum during normal sex any more...BJ now way...no such thing as a quickie any more...masturbate...I can pump away for hours and nothing! My body has got so used to me doing that I cant cum unless I do! Im 53 now and trying to over come this problem...at first it sound great to be able to hump away like a mad man and not cum...but it gets old!

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

Lets say very hard to do instead of unable, and it's for health reasons.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Call me crazy, but ejaculation is freakin' awesome and should be done frequently to remain happy and sane.

I guess it this is going to be yet another of those threads, huh.

[zunamary Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close zunamary]

When you masturbate, try and flex your body (mostly lower body). This will get your body accustomed to the feel of ejaculating whilst doing that and it becomes extremely hard to ejaculate when relaxed.

I've been doing this, and to me it's a problem that I'm trying to revert. Seacock (another member) did this as well for years and now that he's in his 50s (?), he hardly ever ejaculates, it's extremely hard for him to.

I don't advise it though, let me get his quote.

Here:

Can you elaborate more on this? Also, can't you even ejaculate while holding a regular kegel for long?

[ur_real_guy Member Find all posts View Profile Close ur_real_guy]

why in the world would you not want to ejaculate?

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

Like i said, personal reasons.Humor me.And yes, i am not weird, i like orgasms as much as everyone else.

[Tom_B Member Find all posts View Profile Close Tom_B]

For a temporary effect you can use an anesthesia ointment... or whatever it is called in English. "Bedövningssalva" in Swedish.
What I mean is a kind of ointment/cerate/salve that numbs the feeling in the skin. These are most often used to ease pain after insect bite and similar. If you apply this sort of salve on your penis you won't feel so much and thus making it harder to ejaculate.

Would that be helpful?

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

No, lets say i'm becoming a monk.Then what?

[imac Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 12PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close imac]

What possible health benefits could you possibly get form making it difficult to ejaculate? It called delayed ejaculation and if you want to know what it's like to have it I suggest you PM Seacock and he'll tell you the reality of it.

[ur_real_guy Member Find all posts View Profile Close ur_real_guy]

you are not considering vasectomy, are you?...

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

you are not considering vasectomy, are you?...

You still ejaculate with a vasectomy, it just doesn't contain any sperm.

[ur_real_guy Member Find all posts View Profile Close ur_real_guy]

although there was one time I was jacking off for a long time and when I decided to finally let it out, i orgasmed but nothing really came out, not even a drop. No mess. Felt like it back flowed inside... But it never happened again. And I dont know how I did that.

[Minuteman Member of the Month March 2013. Find all posts View Profile Close Minuteman]

Well at least you remined me to put that part in the DO guide

5) THE IMPORTANCE OF EJACULATION

In time you will gain the ability to have an DO. To some ejaculation might start to seem pointless, since when you experience the first DO in a session you don't feel much need to actually ejaculate and in a way feel satisfied, this mostly happens in the beginning stage of DOing, when the brain is still mixing the signals from ejaculation with dry orgasming.

The thing here is that ejaculation is a process that does many good for the body itself, but one of the most important things is that it cleans the "pipes" and the prostate, in long term men's health this is very, very important. If you just keep having DOs and no ejaculations you will in a way get clogged and many of the secretions will be in your prostate, and that can cause problems.

But one the other side, too frequent ejaculation might not benefit you or simply make you to tired.

So how to know how frequently to ejaculate? Well the most basic way of determing this is to simply stop ejaculating for a while and notice if you have any wet dreams, then if you notice that you have them determine how much days of abstinence do you need for this to happen. If it is 4 days, then try and ejaculate every 3rd day. This is in the case of regular masturbation and edging without do. For people who don't have wet dreams (it will happen either do to the stress, or age) you should ejaculate at least once a week.

If you are DO ing, things change, you should ejaculate in span of 2 to 3 days maximum after a DO session in order to force the fluids that generate (mostly precum) out. For people who just started dry orgasming this should be a rule.

For those that are DOing for a while now, they should ejaculate at the end of every session or the next day. Also keep in mind that you should not always DO, having a normal mastubation or sex that doesn't involve DOing at all is very recommended, mix it up so to speak.

Also abstinence (meaning no mastubaton, and no arousing to mastubation) is different from the DOing constantly is because of the secretes that generate during the process of erection (from precum to others), so DOing isn't the same as abstination.