My 2 triggers. Need your input please!

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Hi everyone. As most of you know I do not have prem ejac anymore and I'm testing a few things to see if there are things we can do o cure prem ejac WITHOUT having to rely on real sex from a caring and patient constant sex partner.
Most of you know I'm testing out the partial Deleyed Ejaculation Death Grip theory to get rid of hypersensitivity and involuntary kegel spasms.
During my journey, I have discovered 2 major things that get me closer to PONR.
1) do any of you have a testicle that sometimes goes up into your body and makes you want to ejaculate almost right away? It happens mostly when I'm laying down masturbating and only sometimes when the girl is on top.
Any thoughts on this? I consider it a very big problem that need to be addressed.
2) I am circumcised and I am not sensitive under the peons on the frenellum side. I discovered that my most sensitive spot is on the very top/middle old my penis head, right behind the penis hole and it also includes the area of the penis hole too a bit. This is the only spot that gives me an involuntary kegel/spasm and during full stroke edging DRY with the death grip I use my thumb to rub that spot to desensitize it a bit and I think I have made great progress. Do any of you have that same spot? If not.... I really recommend for everyone to try finding it. I didn't find it till recently in all my 24 years of masturbation. Is that a nerve ending for me? Any thoughts? Thanx a lot guys and good luck!!!!

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

.... And it's not so much that I'm trying to desensitize it. It's more like I'm trying to get used to that feeling to perform better, but I'm pretty sure the skin on skim friction is making my skin tougher, therefore less sensitive. I know this is what happens and it's a fact because it is written all over the net. That's why most people with Deleyed ejac have Deleyed ejac because of masturbating DRY, but also with a tight grip, which simulates a very tight vagina. When you masturbate dry with friction skin on skin(not moving with the foreskin) it tears up your skin microscopically and then your skin rebuilds tougher next time. With thicker skin, the nerve endings don't do as well and therefore the penis becomes less sensitive. The problem is that it's not a good thing to have when you're an older man and have ED in addition to it or because of it. So if you try the death grip, desensitation theory, take it easy and watch for negative signs.
Would love to hear your comments! Thanx.

[Glamissand1 Senior Member Member of the Month March 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Glamissand1]

I think that is the mans g spot. I can't rev kegel outa cumming if that spot is under pressure. During sex I try to avoid thusting downward into that area.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

I think that is the mans g spot. I can't rev kegel outa cumming if that spot is under pressure. During sex I try to avoid thusting downward into that area.

Hi... I asked 2 questions. Are you taking about the top of the penis head?

[Glamissand1 Senior Member Member of the Month March 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Glamissand1]

I believe the ball pull up to be a slow kegel, before joining the gym I would kegel like crazy while strokeing. As far as the cum spot, for me it is under the glands, bottom of the head where the cs is. Rubbing just that spot, spasm kegels can't be controlled, atleast for me. Even when holding a good rev kegel it will spasm me right into PONR.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Sorry about the typos. Any more opinions?

[sameel Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sameel]

1) do any of you have a testicle that sometimes goes up into your body and makes you want to ejaculate almost right away? It happens mostly when I'm laying down masturbating and only sometimes when the girl is on top. Any thoughts on this? I consider it a very big problem that need to be addressed.

2) I am circumcised and I am not sensitive under the peons on the frenellum side. I discovered that my most sensitive spot is on the very top/middle old my penis head, right behind the penis hole and it also includes the area of the penis hole too a bit. This is the only spot that gives me an involuntary kegel/spasm and during full stroke edging DRY with the death grip I use my thumb to rub that spot to desensitize it a bit and I think I have made great progress. Do any of you have that same spot? If not.... I really recommend for everyone to try finding it. I didn't find it till recently in all my 24 years of masturbation. Is that a nerve ending for me? Any thoughts? Thanx a lot guys and good luck!!!!

1. When you are about to ejaculate, the cord that leads the semen contracts and testicles goes up into the body. This is natural phenomena and it happens every time to me. It is advised to pull your testicles down for lasting long. There are also cock rings which are used to keep the testicles away from the body.

2. The point under the penis near the opening remains sensitive because normally it does not come under the death grip attack. Attack it consciously for few times with lube and you will find that sensitivity goes away. Same technique worked for sensitive head and frenulum.

James, I do another thing. When my erection reaches on higher levels, I squeeze the penis with full force. This stretches the sensitive veins and makes it possible to bear more pressure of arousal.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

1. When you are about to ejaculate, the cord that leads the semen contracts and testicles goes up into the body. This is natural phenomena and it happens every time to me. It is advised to pull your testicles down for lasting long. There are also cock rings which are used to keep the testicles away from the body.

2. The point under the penis near the opening remains sensitive because normally it does not come under the death grip attack. Attack it consciously for few times with lube and you will find that sensitivity goes away. Same technique worked for sensitive head and frenulum.

James, I do another thing. When my erection reaches on higher levels, I squeeze the penis with full force. This stretches the sensitive veins and makes it possible to bear more pressure of arousal.

The point under the penis near the opening? What's that? You're not talking about the frenulum are you? I'm not sensitive at the frenulum, only on the top of my penis head near the penis hole. I must have a huge verve ending there?

[imac Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 12PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close imac]

1. The Cremaster muscle is what pulls your balls up to your body when it contracts and lets them hang low when it's relaxed. It's and involuntary muscle but it can also be contracted voluntary.
It responds to temperature and reacts in fight or flight situations, it can also contract during arousal to protect the balls if it's a particularly intense sex session.
It can also contract voluntary by contracting your pelvic floor (kegel) or by sucking in your abdomen, there also the Cremaster reflex, if you run a finger along the top of your thigh on the inside part beside the groin.

If your ball is actually going INTO your body then yes that can be a problem and the pressure created by your internal muscles could bring you off quicker but if it's just lifting up then it's either just a reflex or pelvic/abdominal tension.

2. I answered that in this thread

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

1. The Cremaster muscle is what pulls your balls up to your body when it contracts and lets them hang low when it's relaxed. It's and involuntary muscle but it can also be contracted voluntary.
It responds to temperature and reacts in fight or flight situations, it can also contract during arousal to protect the balls if it's a particularly intense sex session.
It can also contract voluntary by contracting your pelvic floor (kegel) or by sucking in your abdomen, there also the Cremaster reflex, if you run a finger along the top of your thigh on the inside part beside the groin.

If your ball is actually going INTO your body then yes that can be a problem and the pressure created by your internal muscles could bring you off quicker but if it's just lifting up then it's either just a reflex or pelvic/abdominal tension.

2. I answered that in this thread

Thanx iMac, I left u a comment in response to question 2 on that link you left me. As for question 1, yes, it actually goes up into my body up past the penis an on the front right wall of the pelvis. It has always not hung as low as the left and it has always gone up when masturbating laying flat.
Yes it does create some pressure and makes me want to ejac very quickly.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

1. When you are about to ejaculate, the cord that leads the semen contracts and testicles goes up into the body. This is natural phenomena and it happens every time to me. It is advised to pull your testicles down for lasting long. There are also cock rings which are used to keep the testicles away from the body.

2. The point under the penis near the opening remains sensitive because normally it does not come under the death grip attack. Attack it consciously for few times with lube and you will find that sensitivity goes away. Same technique worked for sensitive head and frenulum.

James, I do another thing. When my erection reaches on higher levels, I squeeze the penis with full force. This stretches the sensitive veins and makes it possible to bear more pressure of arousal.

And so do these cock rings go infront of the balls or underneath behind the balls?

[imac Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 12PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close imac]

Here's an article that talk a bit about why the balls raise up during arousal.

Testicle Movements – And What They Mean « Modern Love: Sex & Relationships

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Here's an article that talk a bit about why the balls raise up during arousal.

Testicle Movements – And What They Mean « Modern Love: Sex & Relationships

Oh wow! Very interesting. Thanx 4 the link. My right ball is the one that lifts up so it makes sense. I will definately look into cockrings!!! :0)

[FireBoss Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close FireBoss]

1. About the testicle pull, yes I have it. But it dosen't go into my body, it just gets pulled upwards. I have asked about it in here before, do to some pain when I have done some hard reg. kegel / RK kegel training, and I also got the cremaster anwser. It liftes everytime I put just a little bit effort in ether a reg. kegel or a RK, and liftes a lot, if i'm doing a workout or using them when edging. My doctor said that I just squeezed it doing night, but it felt like some overtraining. And consittering how many times it goes up and down, something must get's tired. Do you also get pain/sorness when doing it alot JM?

2. I also have that "magic" spot. Right around the penis hole, and a bit of the string.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

1. About the testicle pull, yes I have it. But it dosen't go into my body, it just gets pulled upwards. I have asked about it in here before, do to some pain when I have done some hard reg. kegel / RK kegel training, and I also got the cremaster anwser. It liftes everytime I put just a little bit effort in ether a reg. kegel or a RK, and liftes a lot, if i'm doing a workout or using them when edging. My doctor said that I just squeezed it doing night, but it felt like some overtraining. And consittering how many times it goes up and down, something must get's tired. Do you also get pain/sorness when doing it alot JM?

2. I also have that "magic" spot. Right around the penis hole, and a bit of the string.

I only had pain I'm my butthole when I did lots of reg kegels. I was able to do 1 single kegel for 8 whole minutes!
Cool magic spot. I thought I was the only one. I don't feel anything at the frenulum. Is it because I am circumcised? A bit of the STRING??? What the hell is that? Haha