Ballooning Question

[alexaustin Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close alexaustin]

Ran a quick search through the forum on ballooning because I'm beginning that portion of Arousal Techniques and had a quick question. Why are some people saying NOT to rub the frenulum? The arousal techniques thread is saying to specifically rub that area but some other people are saying not to.

[alexaustin Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close alexaustin]

Also, I tried rubbing the frenulum as well as other parts of my penis using ballooning techniques and just simply did not react to it. I've read that some people don't, I'm curious why.

[Realman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Realman]

Well you could be circumcised so you have little to no frenulum. Some people maybe desensitized because of porn so they feel little to nothing when touching their penis.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

It could be the simple fact that you really haven't actually found your sweet spot. I didn't find my true sweet spot till WAY later when I was already over my prem ejac and I was having great sex w my gf. I feel NOTHING at the frenulum. Yes, I am cut. You know where I found my spot, the only spot that causes me an involuntary kegel spasm? I bet many guys have this too but can't find it. It's on the TOP of my penis head. Right smack in the middle, right behind the penis hole. On the TOP, not underneath. Try running and pressure there. You may be surprised.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

It could be the simple fact that you really haven't actually found your sweet spot. I didn't find my true sweet spot till WAY later when I was already over my prem ejac and I was having great sex w my gf. I feel NOTHING at the frenulum. Yes, I am cut. You know where I found my spot, the only spot that causes me an involuntary kegel spasm? I bet many guys have this too but can't find it. It's on the TOP of my penis head. Right smack in the middle, right behind the penis hole. On the TOP, not underneath. Try running and pressure there. You may be surprised.

*try rubbing and putting pressure there.
After 2 years of exercises and programs and edging and MASTERING everything and getting rid of my prem ejac, I still hadn't found my sweet spot. Now that I have, I rub it dry with my thumb while doing the dry death grip on mostly my shaft and I now last even longer during sex and have a lot more control.

[alexaustin Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close alexaustin]

Interesting. I am not cut, so I'm wondering if I'm just missing my sweet spot. Curious no doubt. I'll have to do some experimenting.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

And to answer your original question, if I had a sensitive frenulum, yes I would rub it dry slowly and softly and build it up gradually. The most success for me has come when attacking the problem head on and getting used to it, not avoiding it.

[Oorlogsman12 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Oorlogsman12]

James, how long did it take for you to last longer(i know you said to have actual sex is important) but say after RK's and deathgripping for awhile, and then having sex... after how many times sex did you start lasting longer?

thanks

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

James, how long did it take for you to last longer(i know you said to have actual sex is important) but say after RK's and deathgripping for awhile, and then having sex... after how many times sex did you start lasting longer?

thanks

I learned death grip and fouls my sweet spot AFTER I already started lasting longer at sex. Even after mastering all kinds or exercises and techniques and even edging for an hour, as soon as i started having sex I STILL had prem EJAC. I didn't start lasting longer until I got used to sex with my caring partner. All i did was sex and jelqing. Finding my sweet spot and learning the death grip WAY later just helped me last even longer and have me more control and almost no involuntary kegel spasms.
Yes, real progressive sex is very important. It is needed to get anxiety levels down and confidence up.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

I learned death grip and fouls my sweet spot AFTER I already started lasting longer at sex. Even after mastering all kinds or exercises and techniques and even edging for an hour, as soon as i started having sex I STILL had prem EJAC. I didn't start lasting longer until I got used to sex with my caring partner. All i did was sex and jelqing. Finding my sweet spot and learning the death grip WAY later just helped me last even longer and have me more control and almost no involuntary kegel spasms.
Yes, real progressive sex is very important. It is needed to get anxiety levels down and confidence up.

*found my sweet spot

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Slowly getting used to the most intense positions is very important because it makes all other positions easier.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Check page 1 for part 1 of my answer/comment.

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

The entire point of ballooning is to NOT stimulate the head of your penis, or the frenulum. If you can get hard and maintain a full erection by just working the base or sides of your cock, you are ballooning. Ballooning is better than edging, because ballooning also works exceedingly well to increase sensitivity. And a sensitive penis is a wonderful penis. The more sensitive your get your penis, the better it feels, the easier it gets hard, and the more responsive it is with your girl.

If you are rubbing the frenulum you are edging, not ballooning. Edging is easy. Ballooning is a skill and takes more practice.

[searching Member Find all posts View Profile Close searching]

OK, ballooning is not doing circles with thumb on your sweet spots (mine is frenulum)?! Or did I misunderstood?

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Guys.. There are many different ways of "edging" and "ballooning". There are hybrids and combos and all kinds of thoughts and opinions on the subject. You have to find what works for you. It is all evolving. Lets not label things and stay in the past. I get your point though. In actuality ballooning at first is used for penis size gains, but I used it as a form of edging and a light kind of desensitizing along with the death grip. I don't have a problem with a less sensitive penis because I have great EQ. Infact, my EQ is just as great as before or even better because of jelqs, I'm just less hypersensitive now.