Good evening guys,
I’d firstly like to express how happy I am to have found a forum where a lot of genuine real time information is available for anybody needing it with genuine friendly members who don’t troll or respond with ridiculous replies, which don’t help at all. I have briefly looked around and I like it, I feel confident I may find information here which I need to learn to help me over come my situation.
So a little about me, Im 23 years old, a hardworking busy lad with lots of milestones, im currently with the love of my life (corny I know... but so very true) I’ve known my partner since we were 15 and we’ve been in a serious relationship for well over a year now. We both want kids together and marriage as we already live together so we are very focused. Here’s the thing… I suffer from a very extreme case of Premature Ejaculation, This is that bad I don’t last no more than 30 seconds some times.
About my PE, I can become turned on extremely easy, touching or kissing each other makes me hard and even talking. Along with this I do get Pre Cum a lot, this drips out not massively but when im hard and turned on. I have had PE from my very first time I believe, I only lasted a minute or so back then. Ive had sex for years and its always happened to me, I can masturbate and cum within minutes if I need, The problem for me is when I enter my partner my penis has its own mind and as soon as I go to pump it feels extremely sensitive on my penis and almost like cum is running along my penis. Sometimes I pump a few times and my penis pulses a lot when I stop and I feel I cannot stop it no matter what. I don’t now what it is, its currently killing my relationship, my partner has put up with it for so long she’s threatened me that’s it. It leave her crying after sex its that bad.
This girl means the world to me and I need to somehow show her im trying, ive been to my GP he said its all in my mind and then subscribed me to Viagra. Didn’t work one bit, to be honest I don’t think they helped me get hard either. I don’t have a problem becoming hard.
On the second visit I was desperate, he recommend I looked at techniques online, ive tried the start stop technique which I feel doesn’t work as my penis pulses and I just cant stop it and then I ejaculate, then there’s the squeeze technique… Ive tried this and when I feel like im getting up to the ejaculation feeling I squeeze and stop, I do this dry 3 or 4 times but it doesn’t help either, maybe I’m doing it wrong?
Im now currently left at my ultimate lowest, my girlfriend is ready to move out, she loves me but has had enough… no orgasm for a year. I can understand! She’s not into oral or toys as much but just wants sex. Im so low I just feel I will never get anywhere. I have seen some topics, which I may read into further; does anybody at all here recommend a topic or starting point? I need to see results small or big within a month as I’ve kind of got this deadline before my partner walks.
I will happily answer any questions at all, about the situation or me. I look forward to sticking around here I genuinely do. Thank you for looking at my topic.
Spero
I’d firstly like to express how happy I am to have found a forum where a lot of genuine real time information is available for anybody needing it with genuine friendly members who don’t troll or respond with ridiculous replies, which don’t help at all. I have briefly looked around and I like it, I feel confident I may find information here which I need to learn to help me over come my situation.
So a little about me, Im 23 years old, a hardworking busy lad with lots of milestones, im currently with the love of my life (corny I know... but so very true) I’ve known my partner since we were 15 and we’ve been in a serious relationship for well over a year now. We both want kids together and marriage as we already live together so we are very focused. Here’s the thing… I suffer from a very extreme case of Premature Ejaculation, This is that bad I don’t last no more than 30 seconds some times.
About my PE, I can become turned on extremely easy, touching or kissing each other makes me hard and even talking. Along with this I do get Pre Cum a lot, this drips out not massively but when im hard and turned on. I have had PE from my very first time I believe, I only lasted a minute or so back then. Ive had sex for years and its always happened to me, I can masturbate and cum within minutes if I need, The problem for me is when I enter my partner my penis has its own mind and as soon as I go to pump it feels extremely sensitive on my penis and almost like cum is running along my penis. Sometimes I pump a few times and my penis pulses a lot when I stop and I feel I cannot stop it no matter what. I don’t now what it is, its currently killing my relationship, my partner has put up with it for so long she’s threatened me that’s it. It leave her crying after sex its that bad.
This girl means the world to me and I need to somehow show her im trying, ive been to my GP he said its all in my mind and then subscribed me to Viagra. Didn’t work one bit, to be honest I don’t think they helped me get hard either. I don’t have a problem becoming hard.
On the second visit I was desperate, he recommend I looked at techniques online, ive tried the start stop technique which I feel doesn’t work as my penis pulses and I just cant stop it and then I ejaculate, then there’s the squeeze technique… Ive tried this and when I feel like im getting up to the ejaculation feeling I squeeze and stop, I do this dry 3 or 4 times but it doesn’t help either, maybe I’m doing it wrong?
Im now currently left at my ultimate lowest, my girlfriend is ready to move out, she loves me but has had enough… no orgasm for a year. I can understand! She’s not into oral or toys as much but just wants sex. Im so low I just feel I will never get anywhere. I have seen some topics, which I may read into further; does anybody at all here recommend a topic or starting point? I need to see results small or big within a month as I’ve kind of got this deadline before my partner walks.
I will happily answer any questions at all, about the situation or me. I look forward to sticking around here I genuinely do. Thank you for looking at my topic.
Spero
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