PE - just become a problem

[Jas8062 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jas8062]

Hi
I'm new to this forum. After quite a long period of being single I've recentky started a new relationship.
She is great - really attractive. Things haven't got off to a great start - I've always produced a lot of pre-cum when excited but during the last two foreplay sessions I ejaculated forcefully into my underpants.

Major embarrassment, this hasn't happened before now I'm worried it will keep happening.

Not sure how best to deal with it.

it would be good to chat with other guys who have experienced the same.

thanks

j

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Involuntary flexes of the PC Muscle. Start doing Reverse Kegels to get your Pelvic Floor Balanced.

[aBone2pick Senior Member Member of the Month July 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close aBone2pick]

Are you a virgin? I had this happen to me numerous times when I was younger. After I had sex, it literally never happened again.

[Jas8062 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jas8062]

Hi - no I'm fairly sexually experienced but froze when I came in my underpants

[Spero. Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Spero.]

Hi, I suffer from bad PE. I get a lot of Pre Cum when kissing and just doing the usual foreplay but when it comes to sex, one pump and i cant hold back my cum. It may be your pelvic floor, like above mentioned. Look at some of the topics and techniques, im currently working on minutemans 3 day technique.

[commando kid Member Find all posts View Profile Close commando kid]

I have actually had an orgasm while making out with a girlfriend when I was younger also. I feel your pain brother! I have also had ejaculations happen while riding my bicycle, running, doing exercises and although they were kinda fun I almost wrecked on my bike. Lol! The worst was with my gf. Not only was it an embarrassing it was probably the biggest load of my life. Although she didnt know it happened I was still very embarrassed.

I can't help you much with advice, but just hang in there and these guys on here will help you.

[Thenewguy2 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Thenewguy2]

Are you a virgin? I had this happen to me numerous times when I was younger. After I had sex, it literally never happened again.

I hope this is true

[Jas8062 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jas8062]

I cant really hold my cum either - is the three day technique working?

[Jas8062 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jas8062]

I had a big load too when it happened - my GF noticed making it all the more embarrassing

[commando kid Member Find all posts View Profile Close commando kid]

Haha I had a 10 inch circle in my pants and underwear, soaked through both. But luckily I had on dark dress pants. When I was running I had on some red shorts and you could see the big wet spot and I had to run all the way back home!! Lol! That was embarrassing not mention I had to do this with wobbly, weak legs. Lol!

[Jas8062 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jas8062]

Both times it happened to me I was sitting down - really tried to stop it from happening but just got to a point when I had to give in and let it happen - ejaculating hard and trying not to show it is something else!?
The penis support part of my underpants was filled with cum - uncomfortable