Desperate For Help :(

[going4a7 Member Find all posts View Profile Close going4a7]

Hello PE-gym. I am in a very difficult position right now. I have been having sex for just a year now and I have never lasted long. My gf and I used to fuck every single day back in the first couple months of the relationship but never complained about my pathetic stamina. I usually only last 1-5 min. As the months past she wanted to have sex less and less. I took up Penis enlargement on this forum to try and satisfy her more because I thought it was just maybe the size of my penis, oblivious to the fact that she dosent want to fuck anymore because I still only last 1-5 min.
About a month ago I was fighting with my girlfreind about her being so incredibly grouchy all the time and NEVER wanting to have sex anymore. And i just came out and said " well what is it then why dont you want to have sex with me?" and She told me "everytime we have sex it NEVER lasts long enough and Im NEVER satisfied!" This was an eye opening moment for me. I went thought about a week long fit of depression and thought it was the end of my world. But i rememberd reading about teqniques on this forum that would increase stamina.

So after having been gone from the forum for almost a year, I returned and was inspired to Edge. I have been edgeing for the past 3 weeks everyday. I no longer masterbate like i used too, (which was too much) I only edge now, and for a 30 minute minimum. So a couple days ago I told my girlfriend what I was doing, and she seemed ... neutral about it. Seems like she dosent think it will work. But I'll prove her wrong.

I had a converstation with her about how long she thinks our sex should last and what was optimal for her, and well...bad news guys haha. She told me that shes used to having sex for 1 hour or more. She told me that 30 min is a "low" time . This is incredibly intimidateing, but at the same time is motivating because I want to please my love. So now i've increased the time Im edgeing, and now doing at least 1 edging session for 45 min daily. I love my girl very very much and will do anything and everything it takes to last for hours like she so desires. I dont want her to leave me for some fuck who can last longer then me. She is currently in collage right now and lives in another city, shes comming to visit on the 18th of december and for the holidays, and when she comes, i wanna make her CUM.

Also i've been doing kegels randomly now almost daily for the past 3 weeks or so and definatly noticed a differnce ( the muscle is getting stronger).
So please please Vets of PE gym, share with me your expertise! Im desperate here! By the way I am keeping a journal recording my days.

Thanks for helping- Going4a7

[eompow Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close eompow]

Just putting out some ideas.
1# There are books on multi orgasm men, women and couples. Check Amazon for titles. I think some of the moderators had the titles. I can tell you they work. Depending on desires and both our needs one to five orgasms and 5 minutes to several hours are possible time frames.
2# Also sex with her on top. Getting the desired pressure points she wants or sex from the back or side with pressure point toward the g-spot. From the side can be very relaxing and you can go for a long time.
3# Focus on her and her pleasure, do small things to keep your pleasure down and prevent climax.
4# Try nine slow penetrations and one fast. Then 8&2, 7&3 then back up to 9. The idea is to decrease your urge to climax and give her the time needed to climax. Also talk to her get best rhythm for her that drives her over the top.

Hope this helps.

[going4a7 Member Find all posts View Profile Close going4a7]

Thank you very much for your advice Eompow. I will take these things into consideration. But about the 9 slow and 1 fast penetrations, she hates it when I suddenly go fast without warning so thats a no-no.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Edging!

[jadzeno69 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jadzeno69]

Going4a7, glad to hear you are edging and kegeling. When you see your gf, you be in charge. Don't let her intimidate you, you be the boss. Some confidence will be a huge help. Even if you do pop early, maybe by that point you can shake it off, take a short break and go another round. Or you could perform oral or something on her, in fact do this in foreplay, get an orgasm or two out of the way for her. Remember, show her who is the boss.

[going4a7 Member Find all posts View Profile Close going4a7]

Going4a7, glad to hear you are edging and kegeling. When you see your gf, you be in charge. Don't let her intimidate you, you be the boss. Some confidence will be a huge help. Even if you do pop early, maybe by that point you can shake it off, take a short break and go another round. Or you could perform oral or something on her, in fact do this in foreplay, get an orgasm or two out of the way for her. Remember, show her who is the boss.

Thanks for the reply, but heres the thing, she doesnt like being eaten out or fingered. But yes I will be showing her who is boss .

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

If women are as bad at telling time as they are at telling size(and I suspect they are) you have nothing to worry about.

[going4a7 Member Find all posts View Profile Close going4a7]

If women are as bad at telling time as they are at telling size(and I suspect they are) you have nothing to worry about.

Ha ha, thanks for the the post Pegasus.

[Big Tom Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Big Tom]

http://www.scribd.com/doc/10781650/man-health-multiorgasm

Absolutely everything you need is in that ebook.

[going4a7 Member Find all posts View Profile Close going4a7]

http://www.scribd.com/doc/10781650/man-health-multiorgasm

Absolutely everything you need is in that ebook.

Yes thank you very much Big Tom, I already saw that link on another thread on PE gym. I have been reading it as much as I have the time for.

On a side note: I have begun to understand and separate my PC and BC muscles! I can now separately trigger them . The PC is the one behind your scrotum right? and the BC is the one at the bottom of your penis? Well my BC is quite weak, while my PC is fairly decent.

[nipseyhussle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nipseyhussle]

Bro why dont you try various supplements? like L-Carnitine, L-Arginine and ginkgo and other stuff ? also do edging sessions where you are close to ponr and then stop and start and stop and start and do this often... also jerk off 2-3hours before having sex so its rested before having sex but you still blowed a load before..

[Big Tom Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Big Tom]

The reverse kegel is great for relaxing all the muscles in your perenium. It pushes everything away from the prostate so there is a lot less stimulation. In theory if you can hold a reverse kegel indefinately, you can go for as long as you want.

[going4a7 Member Find all posts View Profile Close going4a7]

The reverse kegel is great for relaxing all the muscles in your perenium. It pushes everything away from the prostate so there is a lot less stimulation. In theory if you can hold a reverse kegel indefinately, you can go for as long as you want.

Yeah I've been trying to do reverse kegels and they feel sooo weird. Feels like Im gunna take a huge piss, haha.
And about supplements, I will wait and see what kind of results I get by the end of the Chirstmas holiday and then judge where I should go from there.

[Guillotine01a Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Guillotine01a]

If women are as bad at telling time as they are at telling size(and I suspect they are) you have nothing to worry about.

Pegasus is hilarious hahahha

[gahgneh Member Find all posts View Profile Close gahgneh]

Hmm if you take notice, 1 hour of penetration, or 1 hour of sex in general, including foreplay and such? because that makes a HUGE difference. the average penetration, even in porno, is around 15 to 20 minutes, because, that's how long woman can remain lubricated without any external help (saliva, lube, etc). I used to fuck for hours, but in these hours was like, 30 minutes of foreplay, 20 minutes of penetration, stop for a bit, drink some water, restart foreplay, penetration again, and so on. many women will get sore if ramp up to 40 minutes of penetration without any aid. the vaginal lube becomes sticky, and the friction is much more discomfortable for her. try some thrusting techniques (there's another thread in this very forum). I used them for quite long, about 7 years, and they actually WORK, and make woman come. Stay deep, no shallow pumps, and remain in contact with her clitoris at all time, applying pressure with your pubic bone. Do that after shes craving for your penis, after manual stimulation or oral sex
*almost* guaranteed orgasms in 5 to 10 minutes